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Narcissism-How a Smear campaign Works

The SMEAR CAMPAIGN – a silent and preemptive attack to destroy

There was such a huge response to the post yesterday on Narcissists and their ‘smear campaign,’ so I wanted to add a little bit more as far as understanding what is behind this. To start off you have to first ask yourself WHY any person would smear your integrity to OTHER people, especially if you were in some sort of reciprocal relationship with them. The why is easy to understand once you are out of the abuse cycle and looking from the outside in or when you start to gain clarity over the situation. So some fundamental facts:

1. The Narcissist needs to protect themselves from being exposed as the abuser they are.

2. No normal person would enlist other people into a campaign to attack another person that they supposedly loved, cared for, or had any relationship with.

3. Normal people work through things without enlisting friends, family, and coworkers – a relationship is personal between two people – not two people and the whole world. If there were actually the horrendous problems the Narcissist ALWAYS projects then the two people would come to a mutual understanding and either seek help or move on (again in a normal relationship).

4. The Narcissist enlists their soldiers or minions to carry out their agenda or dirty work to get the word out there that they were the victim with the support now.

5. The smear campaign is more devaluation through triangulation or backstabbing – it is perfectly crafted to inflict personal damage BEHIND THE BACK of the victim. They will use everything they know about you against you – they are very familiar with your whole life so they can mix bits of truth into their hideous lies!

6. The Narcissist has been doing this all along because they inevitably end up in a situation with every person where the Narcissist’s accountability comes into question so they start a decisive and preemptive attack because they know that the victim is becoming wise to their agenda or abuse and it is time to run!

7. It is meant to disable the victim in a manner to make them more vulnerable. The Narcissist continues to control them with fear and isolation and leaving their destructive message long after the Narcissist has moved on – again to protect the Narcissist from exposure and to keep you stuck in this mind frame.

8. The smear campaign is designed to make listeners shocked in such a manner that they have to stand up and take notice to the allegations and perhaps get involved. In other words they will accuse someone of sexual abuse, physical abuse, or any number of things that could potentially destroy the victim’s reputation and integrity in a horrendous manner.

9. For the victim it is the element of the surprise with a smear campaign. They walk into a situation that they have no knowledge of and unprepared for the allegations. Usually the smear campaign involves people from the victim’s immediate circle of family, friends, loved ones, coworkers, etc.

10. We ALL have an expiration date and this is just the final cycle of the abuse the Narcissist utilizes to really silence and disable the victim with extreme fear of more negative retribution.

To sum it up it is just more of the same abusive pattern that the Narcissist creates to further manage down the victim or basically destroy them. The devaluation was leading up to the smear campaign as the final step so the Narcissist could walk away unscathed with the same message to the victim that they were disordered, crazy, the abuser, liar or any number of scenarios. The smear campaign brings this to fruition because the victim is now hearing these same messages coming from the outside world and feeling totally isolated. BAM - that is where the Narcissist drives the abuse straight into the head of their victim. The victim is damned if they do, or damned if they don’t respond. But that Narcissist has driven more of their abuse into the victim and disabled them even more through enlisting other people to fight their delusional battle or divide and conquer. The negative messages that the Narcissist has been manipulating the victim with throughout the entire relationship start replaying in the victim’s head once more, the victim is worn down and vulnerable, their emotions also come into play, now they are faced with this smear campaign, and more than likely the discard as well, and they become isolated, traumatized and silenced. Psychological rape and terrorism from a very shrewd, destructive and disordered creature or a Malignant Narcissist! The normal evolution of this abuse is described in three cycles – idealize, devalue and discard. I am adding a fourth cycle which is the final blow to destroy the victim and that is traumatization through the smear campaign! This traumatization doesn’t go away with simple words that basically describe the hideous actions – it requires strong healing to achieve clarity and time to heal first and then see it from a healthy perspective. But at least understanding the process plants the seed into a victim’s head to start moving forward. That starts with no-.minimal contact.

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THEDIRTY.COM SHOULD BE SHUT DOWN

This is long overdue. The site has ruined lives and caused innocent people to be blamed for things she didn’t do, posts they didn’t write.

The Dirty.com is a website started by Nik Richie to make fun of poor people they don’t even know in such a vicious way by stealing their pictures on their websites and profiles. As seen on Dr. Phil, the victims are so affected by this, some of them can’t even leave their house; and the creator can care less who it affects. This site is nothing but an outlet for cyber bullying. Freedom of speech is a serious stretch for the allowing of this website.

I am personally a victim of that website where a person (it was several people actually) trashed my name all over that site and it was NOT me who posted on there and someone used this website to make it look as if it were me: (Of course it was probably several people) and everything was used against me in the most terrible way. People lie on that site and seriously harm other peoples reputations!

This site has done a number to my reputation just like others who are posted on here. I am none of these lies that people are telling. My heart goes out to everyone that has been posted on this website, who have been solely misjudged. What’s happening is people are being judged by what’s posted and not by their personality.

This site promotes hate crimes, Organized Stalking, Cyberbullying,

racism and anger. It is the biggest Cyber Bully Site out there. By posting there, We are teaching our society that if someone makes you mad you are allowed to personally attack someone’s name and character for no other reason then they felt like it. It is a hate site where you can bash people anonymously and take no responsibility for it and not be held accountable. This is a site to create hate for people who would normally not act like that. So if you ever see one of your friends or someone you know posted there, please do them a favor and NOT join in and post.

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WHAT IS GASLIGHTING?

You may be familiar with the term, “gaslighting". It is a masterful manipulation technique to gain control over you. As your relationship or friendship begins to weaken, they carefully causes you anxiety or confusion. But as the relationship worsens, you start to question your mental sanity. Extreme or long term gaslighting can ultimately lead you to having a distorted sense of reality—not knowing who is right or wrong, feeling that everyone has it in for you, feeling guilty for being the person you are, and losing any remaining self-confidence.

Gaslighting is an extremely dangerous form of emotional abuse, as it causes the victim to question their judgment, on even the smallest issues, thereby making her dependent of him. If, for example, she is repeatedly told that all these bad things are happening to her and the people around her, she will begin to believe it, and think that without the gaslighter by her side, the world will become a very scary and evil place. The reality is, she is much better off without the gaslighter.

The term “gaslighting” comes from the 1944 film, ‘Gaslight,’ where a young woman named Paula falls madly in love with her suitor, Gregory. After an intense romance that led to marriage, Gregory begins to display pathological narcissistic behavior, leading to Paula’s insanity. In one scene, Gregory tampers with the gas light in the attic, causing the house lights to dim. When Paula mentions hearing footsteps in the attic and the lights dimming, Gregory tells her it’s completely her imagination, making Paula question her judgment. Gaslighting is now the widely used term for when a person truly messes with your head.

Depending on the stage of your relationship, gaslighting at first appears to be subtle, but then gradually worsens. Below are the signs you are a victim of gaslighting, in order in which they may occur. This list illustrates that as the relationship declines, so does your mental clarity and grasp of reality and truth.

1. You become addicted to his grandiosity

And because you likely had low self-esteem before you met him, the joy you feel can only occur when you are with him, thus making you dependent on him.

When your friendship is at its peak, you have intense feelings of happiness- . And because you likely had low self-esteem before you met him, the joy you feel can only occur when you are with him, thus making you dependent on him.

2. You see red flags but you can’t pinpoint the problem

As he becomes bored with you, his attention begins to dwindle and he searches for new supply. He may discreetly put you down, saying you’re “needy” or “overly sensitive.” His once empathetic affection for you has now turned to apathy, and this sudden change leaves you in a foggy state of confusion. You can’t pinpoint the problem, so you think something is wrong with you, and you do everything you can to fix it.

3. When they no longer want to be with you as much, You start to experience intense anxiety, which may lead you to become fixated with trying to please him, and trying to save the relationship, which only causes him disgust.

4. You are ignored, then attended to, but then ignored again, so you lower the bar for yourself

While they may emotionally discard you, they will still keep you around for when supply is low. So they may give you a glimpse of affection here and there, giving you hope that he is coming back to you. This further declines your self-esteem.

5. You second guess yourself and question your sanity

To keep you within close reach, he will gaslight your every request. While this seems counter-intuitive, the manipulator is puppeteering you. You may ask him to join you for a party, but rather than simply declining, he will minipulate your friends and even scold you for having an interest in them. But because you are still friends with him, you now question your choices in friends. You withdraw from them in order to please him, and he further reigns in his puppet strings. Slowly, you second guess every choice of yours.

6. You feel guilty and are always apologizing

As you now second guess yourself, anything you do to repair the relationship feels like a mistake. If they feel hurt by you, you experimenting with a new approach,

They may “punish” you with deafening silence. So you apologize, retreat, and feel bad for trying something new. Unable to move, you walk on egg shells, now feeling captive by your abuser. You fantasize about breaking free, but you feel hostage due to his masterful gaslighting.

7. When you mention breaking up,

he will retreat into victim mode and try to minipulate your family and friends about you

Rather than taking responsibility for his actions, he will blame you for a multitude of infractions: you spend too much time online, you’re lazy, you’re fat, you’re insane, you’re unstable, and you should be LUCKY that he has stuck around to support you. After all, no one else would ever tolerate you but him. Now you’re giving up, You start to think things like you are so selfish. And because your sense of reality is so distorted at this point, you actually feel bad for him, so you stay. And you start to think that the whole world is bad when its just this one person…

And so the cycle continues.

If you are victim of gaslighting, you must remember why they do this. Their distorted sense of self, and their fear of being exposed and that they enjoy being able to play ultimate mind games. You aren’t the problem—they are. Do not succumb to their manipulation—Do NOT allow yourself to be minipulated by anyone. When you first realize that someone is gaslighting you, learn to break free, before your sanity is ultimately compromised.

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Message to my Stalkers

Dear stalkers, (Mary Cummins, Jeannie dusetzina, Robin Jasinski and Nathan Sokol)

I find it very sad that even as an adult you think it’s okay to bully and stalk someone. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I’m not under any false illusion that everyone is going to like me but you have no right to harass me as you’ve done over the past several years.

You’ve set up numerous false accounts, at least 1 in my name where you slate and destroy my character, you killed my cat, you stole my belongings, you sent me viruses, hacked me. Lied to have my ADHD meds discontinued, ect, ect, ect.

I’ve tried to ignore you but after years on this relentless campaign of harassment and intimidation it’s time to stand up to you. The sad thing is you’ll probably enjoy the attention which is why I haven’t mentioned your twitter name but I know you know who you are.

There is something fundamentally wrong with you if you have been blocked yet you continue to relentlessly tweet at the blocker. Shows you have very little self respect, dignity and intelligence. A normal person would have moved on. But obviously you are not normal. I suggest you stop using Social media as your “help in the community” crutch and seek professional help.

NOTE – Social Media advice is to block/ignore and they say that trolls will give up and go away. Not always the case. As for stalking, Social Media advises you to set your tweets to private. In another words, penalising the person being stalked while ignoring the stalker. Social media should stop turning a blind eye to such things and crack down on cyber bullies. Their non-action short of condones this kind of behavior. And victims should stop being punished.

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Freedom from Gang Stalking, Gaslighting and Harassment

The change will be life changing for me. I’ve been a victim for many years of gang stalking. I’ve had things taken from my room, sometimes they are put back. I’ve had old clothing put in my closet to make me crazy. I’ve experienced diarrhea , nausea, stomach pains. I’ve had burning and watery eyes. I’ve been given placebo medication to keep me sleep deprived, I’ve had someone remote accessing things. I’ve had tv channels flipped on me. It’s craziness. Jeannie Dusetzina and Mary Cummins has many people carrying out this out this torture on me. I have had computer, gps, printer, phone, US mail, package delivery, iPhone , tv, iPad etc. tampered with. I’ve had lots of money stolen from me & wasn’t allowed to report it to the police. Even after I moved, I’m still being harassed and threatened on a v2k (voice to skull).. my family and friends don’t want much to do with me anymore. I believe they might be involved. I have nobody to stick up for me or advocate for me. I’m in Pennsylvania and the stalking continues. I can’t get any help financially. I knew something was wrong when my family kept acting funny towards me and I kept telling them what was happening. Little did I know, they were participating. I believe Nathan Sokol is Participating. My cat was killed by Mary Cummins. I’ve written and spoke to everyone I could find Nobody is interested or willing to get involved.

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How I changed my Life for the Better

A few months ago, I reached a point where I realized I was yearning for something more. I was not being treated right by my old place as they were stealing from me, they took all the food I liked off the menu, they took all the activities I liked off the schedule, ect, ect. I was yearning for the stalking to end and a new support system so I decided a move was in store. My Acap worker put me into a small group home for those with Autism where I am treated much better.

The life I have now is a great one where I am fighting back against my stalkers. Everyday is a new adventure for me. The staff here are always taking us to fun places. And they give me what I like to eat too. Yet I live in fear of Jeannie Dusetzina and Mary Cummins taking it all away from me.

I have been treated so much better here except I have not been given my Adderall to help better my life even more.

On v2k, Jeannie Dusetzina threatens to take it all away from me. They say God awful stuff to me on v2k (voice to skull).

I believe that by sharing my story of being stalked, I can inspire and empower others to tell their story and to be a survivor. And that’s precisely why I’ve decided to document and share the details of how I changed my life & blog about it.

There were numerous reasons why I wanted to make some life changes , but the main ones were:

1. I knew my life could be better and that I could fight back if I wanted to.. I wanted to at least try and be better.

2. I was not in the best of health. Jeannie Dusetzina and Mary Cummins had upset me so much that my health was affected.

3. I wanted to be a better advocate.

4. I wanted to be off v2k (voice to skull). I wanted to blow the whistle on it.

Basically, I was sick and tired of being stalked. That was my motivation to change.

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Help Bring Down the Cybergang

As a disabled citizen in America, I am remotely hacked & wiretapped, electronically harassed with electronic warfare/ V2k (voice to skull technology) , silent sound, voices, and written off in the world. The campaign was started Mary Cummins, Jeannie dusetzina, Robin Jasinski and Nathan Sokol.. The people who conduct these acts are right in your neighborhood, they portray themselves as pillars in the community when they are not. And they have very good covers for themselves and a very high IQ.

The organized stalkers lied to get me off my ADHD medication. They killed my cat. They sabotage all my opportunities. My room is broken into repeatedly. I have had clothes and other stuff stolen from me. They slander my good name. They stole all my money.

Organized stalking is very hard to prove. Sometimes I get depressed because no one will believe me when I speak out about these crimes and my family has been stalked as well. I am starting this blog for everyone who have experienced this injustice as well as for the civilian people who may be dealing with this issue. I have reported this stalking to every organization in the United States and they have been of no assistance and their are no reporting procedures in existence as of now, so I am reaching out to my fellow Americans to help in ensuring these crimes do not go uninvestigated and get addressed in some way or form.

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Mary Cummins and Jeannie Dusetzina Stalk Andrea Sokol

Mary Cummins and Jeannie dusetzina ” TROLLS a disabled girl & harasses her insanely, through out V2k (voice to skull), threatening her slandering her, killing her cat, making admissions to serious crimes, faking her thoughts, lying to have her ADHD meds discontinued.There’s also a Nathan Sokol involved.

Mary Cummins and Jeannie Dusetzina …. I already know what you have been doing to those me, HACKING MY COMPUTERS and IPHONE, stalking, harassing, tormenting, trying to ruin their lives; causing me to believe your lies on v2k (voice to skull), taking all my friends away from me, lying like a mad person….you have NO CONSCIENCE! That you could manipulate these girls who have disabilities, is nothing short of evil.

You are possibly the most insane people on the Internet today. I doubt many could come close to your PREDATORIAL cyber molesting and personal violations, not to mention the pathological lying.

You are diabolical, a pathelogical liar, a PSYCHOPATH.

You are cruel and an organized stalker.

You have a high tolerance for pain and you ENJOY inflicting pain on people, the same way you enjoyed inflicting pain on yourself.

People need to get ahold of Dr. Phil and tell him what you really are.

You are a predator, in every Sense of the word.

Writing letters to my friends and family many times just to ruin me and the horrible comments you posted about me on the dirty.com.

I know all about you calling my Church, getting me fired, trying to stop me from going to camp, setting theme up, and bullying me badly on v2k (voice to skull).

I AM DISABLED AND YOU KNEW THAT AND TOOK TOTAL ADVANTAGE OF ME.