#assigning judgement bc u feel bad abt urself. not me! and i cant and wont take responsibility for that. | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

zhuhongs · 1 year ago

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i need to start going to therapy to learn how to talk to people about things and the develop better support systems for myself bc i only talk to like 2.7 ppl bc idk how to talk to anyone and this is ridiculous

#its 2.7 bc i talk to 1 friend who i mostly talk to to distract myself and to experiment differently communication styles. and uh. recently #ive been frustrated with her bc she's very narrow minded abt anything i say abt my own life and abt the feedback i give her as domeone who #has been in a similar situation and got thru it. and its not like its unsolicited. i ask if she wants advice and she will say yes and then #its like 'y does it feel like you are attacking me' like bestie I'm saying this in the least judgemental way bc ive been there. you are #assigning judgement bc u feel bad abt urself. not me! and i cant and wont take responsibility for that.#and then like. kinda my mom but then she cuts me off a lot and basically just kinda says to do whatever makes money like. i tried that and #now im stuck 5 years in at a job i hate that barely pays bc i didn't take a targeted path #and like. my a dif friend i can engage with but she's always busy (nit her fault. i get it. shes got her stuff) so we talk for a total of #15 minutes while shes at a drive thru and nit really listening. which i again. totally get. But. fuck #yea i just want to go to therapy to have adedicated amt of time to talk my shut and like. get some neutral feedback

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