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i'm so glad i don't feel the urge to have to political post on the blog anymore.
#like. if you know me then you know what i believe in#which is. the value of every life.#the importance of providing every person on the planet what they need to live with safety and dignity.#and the necessity of mitigating opposition to that goal and limiting harm to The World#as much as is possible as one person living under the conditions of our current reality#with hope and effort toward making our future reality one where we are increasingly able to care for one another#instead of engaging in an endless competition of profit and imagined division that causes immeasurable suffering and death.#like. from that philosophy i think you can determine my stance on anything that matters.#The Game Of Politics is only important insofar as it impacts actual lives.#and we should all be thinking bigger than that. like. yknow. abolishing borders altogether. dismantling capitalism worldwide.#creating a global society that benefits as many individual human people as possible.#so like. yeah. i'm going to vote. i'm not gonna be happy about it because there is no one on the ballot that actually represents my values.#because fundamentally all politicians are going to enforce and uphold a system that is inherently oppressive and authoritarian#but. there are some politicians who will cause more harm than others.#and their policies will make a difference in many lives.#and i feel personally obligated to try to Lessen The Harm. since there is nothing i can presently do to Eliminate The Harm.#like. idk. we're not gonna vote our way out of the root of the issues. but we can vote our way out of Some Degree of Some issues. like. idk#abortion. deregulation. environmental initiatives. etc. that stuff makes Some Difference to A Lot Of People.#(none of this passes judgment on those who are abstaining from voting for president because of the continuing genocide in palestine.#i do sincerely understand not being able to stomach it. and if the dems lose then it's only their own fault for being spineless fucks)#but like. if i can vote for somebody who IS LESS LIKELY to directly jeopardize the lives of certain groups of marginalized people#then. i'm gonna... do that. while continuing to work toward & believe in a better fairer freer future for everyone.#ANYWAY. that's my ONE political post for the year. steps off my soapbox.#izzy.txt
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Its so true, Dworkin and Mackinnon predicted everything about this current era. Porn has become sex now; teenage girls being bullied into anal and getting choked by boys and coerced into sending nudes at an age typically understood as one of âexplorationâânow porn defines sex and sexuality; and Gail Dines and many others have talked about the deeply deadening effect of porn on empathy and the ability to recognize women as people. Porn crept ever further into the mainstream and it has totally saturated our culture, from the âartsâânot just streaming/TV or Lars Von Trier films, but Iâm thinking of stuff as small as frames of comic books traced from porn, art distributed online traced from pornâto the personal intimate lives of human beings, women being choked, spat on, beatenâthen again, even back in the 80s, men were using porn to abuse women, and the most widely available stuff was still not as vile as the porn you can find with a 2sec Google search from any phone or computer today. Deepfake porn turns all women existing in public into potential victims of violent and degrading misogynist fetishism and sexuality. OF and its ilk makes it possible for any woman to monetize herself in the form of porn and in a time of increasing economic instability, inflation, high food and gas prices, the upcoming potential loss of health insurance for millions, Iâm sure itâs more appealing than ever. Porn terminology is everywhere, âMILF,â âebony,â etc. And all of this is done under the guise of sexual liberation and free speech, and to argue against it is seen as puritanical, condescending at best, hateful, antifeminist, âSWERFâ/âTERFâ-y at worst. It is a demonstrated fact of the research done into porn that it shuts off vital abilities to connect with women as human beings, to empathize with women and to reject violence against us; that porn usage conditions the user into seeking out ever more intense, bizarre, violent content to use in order to achieve the same pleasure and orgasm that âvanillaâ content used to do for them. What must it be doing to all of us, collectively, to have porn on every level of our culture now? What is it doing to the position of women in our society, already half citizens at best, earning significantly less than men, with our bodily autonomy stripped away in many states, being denied life-saving procedures and medicationsânot just mifepristone etc but even things like lupus medication and anti-inflammatories that may potentially affect us and our bodies if we chose at some point to maybe get pregnantâeven being arrested for drinking or taking drugs while decidedly not pregnant because it could affect a potential fetus at some point? Are we not degraded objects already? What does it mean for us to be reduced to âcumsocksâ and pornographic objects on top of all this? How deeply destructive is this society, how much further will it go to enforce the category of woman as hole, woman as receptacle, woman as vessel, woman as meat?
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CW: suicide, commitment, psychosis
My sibling is someone who unequivocally says being committed saved their life and was not inherently traumatic outside of the extremely traumatic mental health crisis that led to it. (However, our local psych ER/psych inpatient is probably one of the better ones and does not use any kind of restraints or force medication. They seem to have an okay track record explaining what the pills are and asking if the person can try them, which I get can still be coercive in some cases, but worked well with my sibling. Also, I was visiting them as much as I could every day, which they found really helpful, and I could keep my eye out for any issues.)
My sibling (~30) had a severe psychotic episode that doesn't quite fit any current DSM diagnosis. They went 0 to 100 from no suicidal ideation to actively attempting suicide in front of me due to delusions about being hunted by supernatural entities who would torture them. They finally could not sleep for days, and therefore I could not go to sleep because they'd try to kill themself. They were not dangerous to me intentionally, but one or both of us could have been hurt by me trying to take a weapon from them. They could not think at all outside of panic and delusions and had no short term memory, so they describe themself as having been incapable of understanding their condition. They weren't able to engage with any social interventions, because how would you have the time or bandwidth if you were living in terror of demons about to torture you and couldn't remember conversations from an hour ago?
They went to the hospital voluntarily after being stopped from attempting, but then they were committed because of aforementioned memory issues when they shortly informed the doctors they had to leave and kill themself. In a moment of lucidity, they were glad to be there, but they just couldn't stay lucid from moment to moment. Trying to get outpatient help in the weeks all this was escalating had been fruitless, with a lot of dismissive assholes, but these particular inpatient docs actually cared and asked how they were doing and figured out a dose of antipsychotics that made it all just... stop like a switch had been flipped.
Once they weren't operating under the terrifying delusions, they 100% did not want to die and were so relieved I stopped them and got help from others when it was becoming too dangerous to us both for me to intervene alone. I get that this kind of crisis is really different from living with chronic suicidal ideation or depression, which is something I personally deal with on a low level, but it was a genuine, terrifying situation where someone's expressed wishes were the opposite of what they wanted when they could understand their situation more fully.
I am allowed to share this, but if this is somehow not on anon, please delete it. Stigma about psychosis is REAL.
Yo this is super helpful, thank you for sharing. One of the trickier aspects of upholding disabled people's autonomy and taking a harm reductionist approach to suicide and self-harm is the fact that people in a state of psychosis may temporarily want something they would otherwise never want.
Though with some experience working through it with a caring and informed support network, it is possible to stand in for the person's stated desires and help them get through the period of lacking lucidity -- and of course psychosis can become a lot less destabilizing with time. i know someone who relies on a close friend to help ground them when they're having delusions and hallucinations -- a quick phone call is now enough to convince them they don't need to kill themselves, but that's after years of getting used to having psychotic states.
glad you and your sibling found solutions and made it through this okay.
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I'm an Ashkenazi Jew who comes from a family that is just Ashkenazim as far as I'm aware.
I currently happen to fairly pale, though growing up in the summer or when going in the sun I would that sort tan that would make me look more "ethnically ambiguous" as some might say.
This is something that is actually pretty common in family. And in the spring and summer my dad often gets assumed to be South Asian, Middle Eastern, or Arab from people who are from those communities especially when he has a beard.
This doesn't happen in the winter though.
I have a sister who when one her jobs meant she was interacting with a Latino community she would tell us, her family, that everyone at her job was shocked to find out that she was not a Latina because of how she looked.
I also have a sibling that has blonde hair, pale skin, and blue eyes.
I have gone through "where do you come from, no where do you really come from" "what are you are you, I can tell there is something" and that "I knew there was something ethnic about you" when finding out I'm Jewish and much more.
One of the biggest things that bothers me about the whole Jews=White bullshit and "well ok just Ashkenazi Jews=White then" bullshit is that no matter how pale, how much "white" features may appear in someone who not white they are not White.
I'm not saying they don't have Conditional White Privilege because they do.
Rather that is not the focus of what I'm talking about.
If you have person who is very fair with blonde hair and blue eyes and they are Black, First Nation, Asian, Latino, Caribbean, African, (and I apologize I went very broad in terms of categories because I wanted to make sure I covered as much ground in terms of ethnic and racial diversity as possible and I'm sure that I still missed the mark)
It would highly inappropriate, insensitive, and show a deep lack of understanding to say that this person is white because of how they look.
It would be one thing if one parent was white, but again that is not what I'm talking about.
What I'm talking about we can not just look at a person and go this is what they must be because this is what they look like.
and the point that I'm making is how this thing of ignoring the reality of the person, their history, who do they come from is pushed aside instead for they look like and we really see an aspect of that when it comes to how people view Jews.
Those with power, the true real power do not view Jews as White TM and never have and never will.
And when it cuts deeply to have so much our history and experiences and everything essentially ignored and undermined and swept away because we are White TM.
I don't know if I've done a good job at explaining what I'm trying articulate and hopefully others will be able to add on to this and help because I'm not super confident in how well I explained it. But I needed to at least try to and say this because of how much it has been bothering me and how upsetting I find it all.
For all you want to say Ashkenazi are the European Jews or that all Jews are European I want to remind you that had we not been forcibly taken from our Homeland in shackles as slaves we never would have been in Europe in the first place.
And all these features we carry that are not ethnically Jewish ones, the last names we have because traditionally we do not have them, all of that is because it was forced onto to us. We did not choose it.
The names were put onto us. The features were raped into us.
If you had been living under the heel of your rapists and killers for as long as us, if you had been living with the blade hanging over your heads as long as we have, if you had been raped for as long as us perhaps you too would look a lot more on much larger scale like those who done the same to you as they did to us.
I ask you to please keep that all in mind, I ask you to please remember all of that, and I also must add that you do not forget that this has been our reality, the reality of every Jew no matter where for 2,000 years.
Please think about that.
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đ± Lovebites Masterlist đ± this is a VAMPIRE AU event đ± âœâœCharacter: Gundham Tanaka (DGRP II) x Gn Reader âŸâŸ â© Requested by: @silenceofthecookies ïżœïżœïżœ [fluff]â© Warnings: hurt animal, but you rescue, nothing gruesome â©
You liked being a vampire. You didnât always use to like it. But after a couple of decades, when it didnât all feel new and scary, you got used to it. There were many benefits, and ever since you met your current partner, you were not alone, more stable, and integrated into life as much as two vampires could possibly be.Â
You liked being a vampire, because it came with so many benefits. The enhanced power, speed, senses. You liked feeling strong and powerful without having to exert much effort. You liked being able to observe your surroundings so much better than you ever could in your mortal life. And generally, you liked the immortality.Â
But with said immortality, came also the major downside of being a vampire. Because your lifespan was now a never ending one, but those of your surroundings werenât. Time seemed to slow down, what seemed like ages in your mortal life was over in the blink of an eye now that you had eternity ahead of you.Â
The worst of it came in your familiars. Gundham was partial to hamsters, the worst possible option according to you, because even under the best of conditions, they only lived a couple of years. You barely had time to properly get attached to them before you had to say goodbye, breaking your heart every single time.Â
Your boyfriend had way more pragmatic approach to it, quoting the cycle of life and death, and assuring you that the hamster had still lived a happy life with you two as its owners, better than it probably would have gotten without the two of you.Â
And yet. You longed for another familiar. One that would stick around a little longer. And maybe one your boyfriend wouldnât be carrying on his person most of the time, allowing you more time to bond with it. You couldnât blame him for his actions, he was the hamster-whisperer if there ever was one, but the companionship of a familiar was not his right alone to have.Â
So when you found the tiniest kitten in a puddle on the street, you couldnât help but immediately feel connected to it. You had checked, but no mother or other kittens to be found. It was writhing and meowing loudly, and it was shivering from the cold. It immediately calmed down when you gently wrapped it in your coat, holding it close until you were home.Â
You got to work immediately, calling a vet you knew for instructions and assistance, and went out of your way to acquire as many of the supplies as you could. The little creature was barely moving, and you were getting worried about its wellbeing. It was then you felt a presence behind you, and you turned around, startled by your partner, standing over you, trying to figure out just what you were cradling, when all of your hamsters, excuse me, dark devas of destruction were all snuggly tucked away in his scarf, their absolute favorite spot.Â
You held up the kitten to him and explained your situation, unable to read his expression as he looked at you intently, taking in every word you said.
âWhy are we standing around wasting time then? Letâs conserve our energy and channel it into this helpless being!âÂ
You blinked a couple of times, his sudden outbursts and loud voice still managing to startle you at times, even after being together for literal centuries. His strange way of speaking had evolved over the years, but had been stuck in some time periods, making him a little bit of a weirdo to anyone whoâd speak to him nowadays. You thought it was endearing, especially since you knew he always meant well.Â
Just like now. With his help and the guidance from your vet at the phone, you managed to get the little thing in the best state possible in no time. Now it was but a matter of patience, and hoping that your actions had been enough.Â
Gundham was uncharacteristically quiet, leading you to the couch so you could sit down and take a minute. Two of his hamsters rested in his scarf, but San-D and Cham-P left to sit with you, snuggling up to your neck, providing you with some comfort.Â
âI have neglected your wants for a familiarâÂ
You looked up at Gundham in confusion.Â
âWe have familiars though.â You smiled gently, gesturing at the two little creatures nestled on your shoulders.Â
âYes, but I am aware most of them are from my choices and introduced to the darkness by none other than me. It is not that I donât trust you with tasks of such importance, it is just-âÂ
You held up your hand, quietly interrupting his apology and smiled. âIs this your way of saying we can keep the cat?â âOf course.â Â
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Iâm going to re-share this GoFundMe. I donât know if theyâre on Tumblr or not.
The copy-pasted story from the GoFundMe site is under the cut if you want to read, but as of July 1st they need money for:
Clothes
Temporary shelter (like a tent)
Food
Water
Hygiene products
Childrenâs supplies
Passport fees
Border crossing fees
Temporary accommodations
Possible flights out of Egypt
As like with every GoFundMe I share, if you can or canât donate please reblog.
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Hello!
This is Mohammed's family, currently residing in northern Gaza. We have initiated this fundraising campaign to help us leave Gaza for a safer place. Gaza has become uninhabitable. Let me briefly explain our situation.
Mohammed's family consists of:
Father:Â Mohammed (34 years old)
Mother:Â Sahar (30 years old)
Daughter:Â Tala (4 years old)
We are living in unimaginably harsh conditions. After losing our jobs in graphic design and digital marketing, we lost everything... our home, our jobs, our security, even the devices we used to work with, due to the devastating war in Gaza. We are now living in dreadful conditions, without a stable shelter or a source of income.
Our live turned into a nightmare due to the relentless war. Our warm home was not spared from the bombings; it was completely destroyed, and now we live in a small room.
We have endured numerous hardships. We have been displaced more than 5 times within northern Gaza, never reaching Rafah, always besieged under continuous bombardment, witnessing death day after day, miraculously escaping it.
On December 30th, we were trapped for 12 hours in a building belonging to our relatives, under constant airstrikes from planes and tanks. The upper floors were targeted and completely destroyed, but by the grace of God, we miraculously escaped under heavy gunfire and shelling. Mohammad was injured in his desperate attempt to escape danger, and now he suffers from a foot injury, exacerbated by the lack of medical care and malnutrition due to the famine we are facing.
We were forced to grind grains and feed on animal feed to survive. We haven't received aid for months, facing worsening conditions every day.
We separately need your support to leave Gaza and live in peace away from extermination and escape from the difficult living conditions, where bombings occur everywhere and every moment, electricity is scarce, and there is no decent food available. We have endured so much destruction in Gaza.
Please, help us leave Gaza and move to Egypt. The travel cost to cross the Egyptian border is $8,500 per person, and your contributions will be allocated to ensure their safe passage and evacuation from Gaza, in addition to covering the basic costs associated with them.
HOW WILL WE USE THE MONEY ?!
Your donations will give our family motivation to work hard for a new beginning. We decided to start this fundraising to help us to start a new and safe life So please we need your support thank you.
Your Donations cover:
Basic necessities
(water, food, hygiene products, children supplies)
Passport fees
Border crossing fees
Temporary accommodations and flights out of Egypt should we be able to secure them safe passage
In short, you can help us by:
Contributing:Â Every donation, regardless of its size, makes a difference in our lives.
Promoting:Â Help amplify our cause by sharing this fundraising campaign with your network of friends and family on social media platforms.
Let's join forces together to give us a new chance at life. We urgently need our support and solidarity.
Thank you for every contribution you make and for standing by their side in these difficult circumstances.
We will always be grateful for your generosity.
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Chapter 9: Conclusion
If we take now the teachings which can be borrowed from the analysis of modern society, in connection with the body of evidence relative to the importance of mutual aid in the evolution of the animal world and of mankind, we may sum up our inquiry as follows.
In the animal world we have seen that the vast majority of species live in societies, and that they find in association the best arms for the struggle for life: understood, of course, in its wide Darwinian sense â not as a struggle for the sheer means of existence, but as a struggle against all natural conditions unfavourable to the species. The animal species, in which individual struggle has been reduced to its narrowest limits, and the practice of mutual aid has attained the greatest development, are invariably the most numerous, the most prosperous, and the most open to further progress. The mutual protection which is obtained in this case, the possibility of attaining old age and of accumulating experience, the higher intellectual development, and the further growth of sociable habits, secure the maintenance of the species, its extension, and its further progressive evolution. The unsociable species, on the contrary, are doomed to decay.
Going next over to man, we found him living in clans and tribes at the very dawn of the stone age; we saw a wide series of social institutions developed already in the lower savage stage, in the clan and the tribe; and we found that the earliest tribal customs and habits gave to mankind the embryo of all the institutions which made later on the leading aspects of further progress. Out of the savage tribe grew up the barbarian village community; and a new, still wider, circle of social customs, habits, and institutions, numbers of which are still alive among ourselves, was developed under the principles of common possession of a given territory and common defence of it, under the jurisdiction of the village folkmote, and in the federation of villages belonging, or supposed to belong, to one stem. And when new requirements induced men to make a new start, they made it in the city, which represented a double network of territorial units (village communities), connected with guilds these latter arising out ofthe common prosecution of a given art or craft, or for mutual support and defence.
And finally, in the last two chapters facts were produced to show that although the growth of the State on the pattern of Imperial Rome had put a violent end to all medieval institutions for mutual support, this new aspect of civilization could not last. The State, based upon loose aggregations of individuals and undertaking to be their only bond of union, did not answer its purpose. The mutual-aid tendency finally broke down its iron rules; it reappeared and reasserted itself in an infinity of associations which now tend to embrace all aspects of life and to take possession of all that is required by man for life and for reproducing the waste occasioned by life.
It will probably be remarked that mutual aid, even though it may represent one of the factors of evolution, covers nevertheless one aspect only of human relations; that by the side of this current, powerful though it may be, there is, and always has been, the other current â the self-assertion of the individual, not only in its efforts to attain personal or caste superiority, economical, political, and spiritual, but also in its much more important although less evident function of breaking through the bonds, always prone to become crystallized, which the tribe, the village community, the city, and the State impose upon the individual. In other words, there is the self-assertion of the individual taken as a progressive element.
It is evident that no review of evolution can be complete, unless these two dominant currents are analyzed. However, the self-assertion of the individual or of groups of individuals, their struggles for superiority, and the conflicts which resulted therefrom, have already been analyzed, described, and glorified from time immemorial. In fact, up to the present time, this current alone has received attention from the epical poet, the annalist, the historian, and the sociologist. History, such as it has hitherto been written, is almost entirely a description of the ways and means by which theocracy, military power, autocracy, and, later on, the richer classesâ rule have been promoted, established, and maintained. The struggles between these forces make, in fact, the substance of history. We may thus take the knowledge of the individual factor in human history as granted â even though there is full room for a new study of the subject on the lines just alluded to; while, on the other side, the mutual-aid factor has been hitherto totally lost sight of; it was simply denied, or even scoffed at, by the writers of the present and past generation. It was therefore necessary to show, first of all, the immense part which this factor plays in the evolution of both the animal world and human societies. Only after this has been fully recognized will it be possible to proceed to a comparison between the two factors.
To make even a rough estimate of their relative importance by any method more or less statistical, is evidently impossible. One single war â we all know â may be productive of more evil, immediate and subsequent, than hundreds of years of the unchecked action of the mutual-aid principle may be productive of good. But when we see that in the animal world, progressive development and mutual aid go hand in hand, while the inner struggle within the species is concomitant with retrogressive development; when we notice that with man, even success in struggle and war is proportionate to the development of mutual aid in each of the two conflicting nations, cities, parties, or tribes, and that in the process of evolution war itself (so far as it can go this way) has been made subservient to the ends of progress in mutual aid within the nation, the city or the clan â we already obtain a perception of the dominating influence of the mutual-aid factor as an element of progress. But we see also that the practice of mutual aid and its successive developments have created the very conditions of society life in which man was enabled to develop his arts, knowledge, and intelligence; and that the periods when institutions based on the mutual-aid tendency took their greatest development were also the periods of the greatest progress in arts, industry, and science. In fact, the study of the inner life of the medieval city and of the ancient Greek cities reveals the fact that the combination of mutual aid, as it was practised within the guild and the Greek clan, with a large initiative which was left to the individual and the group by means of the federative principle, gave to mankind the two greatest periods of its history â the ancient Greek city and the medieval city periods; while the ruin of the above institutions during the State periods of history, which followed, corresponded in both cases to a rapid decay.
As to the sudden industrial progress which has been achieved during our own century, and which is usually ascribed to the triumph of individualism and competition, it certainly has a much deeper origin than that. Once the great discoveries of the fifteenth century were made, especially that of the pressure of the atmosphere, supported by a series of advances in natural philosophy â and they were made under the medieval city organization, â once these discoveries were made, the invention of the steam-motor, and all the revolution which the conquest of a new power implied, had necessarily to follow. If the medieval cities had lived to bring their discoveries to that point, the ethical consequences of the revolution effected by steam might have been different; but the same revolution in technics and science would have inevitably taken place. It remains, indeed, an open question whether the general decay of industries which followed the ruin of the free cities, and was especially noticeable in the first part of the eighteenth century, did not considerably retard the appearance of the steam-engine as well as the consequent revolution in arts. When we consider the astounding rapidity of industrial progress from the twelfth to the fifteenth centuries â in weaving, working of metals, architecture and navigation, and ponder over the scientific discoveries which that industrial progress led to at the end of the fifteenth century â we must ask ourselves whether mankind was not delayed in its taking full advantage of these conquests when a general depression of arts and industries took place in Europe after the decay of medieval civilization. Surely it was not the disappearance of the artist-artisan, nor the ruin of large cities and the extinction of intercourse between them, which could favour the industrial revolution; and we know indeed that James Watt spent twenty or more years of his life in order to render his invention serviceable, because he could not find in the last century what he would have readily found in medieval Florence or BrĂŒgge, that is, the artisans capable of realizing his devices in metal, and of giving them the artistic finish and precision which the steam-engine requires.
To attribute, therefore, the industrial progress of our century to the war of each against all which it has proclaimed, is to reason like the man who, knowing not the causes of rain, attributes it to the victim he has immolated before his clay idol. For industrial progress, as for each other conquest over nature, mutual aid and close intercourse certainly are, as they have been, much more advantageous than mutual struggle.
However, it is especially in the domain of ethics that the dominating importance of the mutual-aid principle appears in full. That mutual aid is the real foundation of our ethical conceptions seems evident enough. But whatever the opinions as to the first origin of the mutual-aid feeling or instinct may be whether a biological or a supernatural cause is ascribed to it â we must trace its existence as far back as to the lowest stages of the animal world; and from these stages we can follow its uninterrupted evolution, in opposition to a number of contrary agencies, through all degrees of human development, up to the present times. Even the new religions which were born from time to time â always at epochs when the mutual-aid principle was falling into decay in the theocracies and despotic States of the East, or at the decline of the Roman Empire â even the new religions have only reaffirmed that same principle. They found their first supporters among the humble, in the lowest, downtrodden layers of society, where the mutual-aid principle is the necessary foundation of everyday life; and the new forms of union which were introduced in the earliest Buddhist and Christian communities, in the Moravian brotherhoods and so on, took the character of a return to the best aspects of mutual aid in early tribal life.
Each time, however, that an attempt to return to this old principle was made, its fundamental idea itself was widened. From the clan it was extended to the stem, to the federation of stems, to the nation, and finally â in ideal, at least â to the whole of mankind. It was also refined at the same time. In primitive Buddhism, in primitive Christianity, in the writings of some of the Mussulman teachers, in the early movements of the Reform, and especially in the ethical and philosophical movements of the last century and of our own times, the total abandonment of the idea of revenge, or of âdue rewardâ â of good for good and evil for evil â is affirmed more and more vigorously. The higher conception of âno revenge for wrongs,â and of freely giving more than one expects to receive from his neighbours, is proclaimed as being the real principle of morality â a principle superior to mere equivalence, equity, or justice, and more conducive to happiness. And man is appealed to to be guided in his acts, not merely by love, which is always personal, or at the best tribal, but by the perception of his oneness with each human being. In the practice of mutual aid, which we can retrace to the earliest beginnings of evolution, we thus find the positive and undoubted origin of our ethical conceptions; and we can affirm that in the ethical progress of man, mutual support not mutual struggle â has had the leading part. In its wide extension, even at the present time, we also see the best guarantee of a still loftier evolution of our race.
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17.07.24 - Young Darwin Scholarship Day 3
Today there was a heavy focus on marine life. The majority of the day was spent at Plymouth with the Ocean Conservation Trust.
1-2. Possibly my highlight of the visit to the National Marine Aquarium was meeting Rodger the Common Octopus (Octopus vulgaris). Iâve written about the Common Octopus so much at school and university but this was my first time seeing one in the flesh and it was a special moment for me.
3-4. The other two most in-focus photos I took at the aquarium. A beautiful little jellyfish and a clown fish. I donât know the specific species of either. I wish Iâd thought to take photos of the signs - I did for other creatures so I donât know why I didnât for these two. Maybe it was because I was a bit overwhelmed in the aquarium and may not have been thinking clearly. Itâs a brilliant independent aquarium that prioritises the welfare of the animals, conservation and research, it was exciting to see so many amazing creatures and I thoroughly recommend visiting it, but lots of spaces were crowded and noisy and had strange lighting which I personally found hard to deal with.
5. After a tour of the aquarium and a talk on conservation work, plankton and dichotomous keys we went on a boat trip round Plymouth Sound. We did some plankton trawling and looked at the findings under a microscope. There were a few zooplankton but also sadly, microplastics. Plankton levels are increasing around the UK, particularly phytoplankton, due to climate change which is drawing more whales to our coast lines to feed than before, hence why whale sightings are going up. Plankton is a significant indicator of environmental conditions and has an important role in food chains so recording their presence is important. The definition of plankton is anything that cannot swim freely against the current and can cover organisms of various sizes. Zooplankton are divided into Holoplankton which remain as plankton for their entire lives, and Meroplankton which live as plankton only at certain stages of their life cycle.
6-8. On the boat trip we also pulled up three Edible Crabs (Cancer pagurus) using smoky bacon as bait (apparently it specifically has to be smoky bacon). There was one male (picture 7) and two females (one of which is in picture 8). Their sexes are determined by the shape of the undersides of their exoskeletons. The prominence of the femaleâs features suggest she may be carrying eggs. We were hoping to see Cetaceans and Seals from the boat but alas no. Nature is unpredictable.
9. Bittersweet Nightshade (Solanum dolcamara) spotted on the way to the beach and bridge to look for otters again.
10. No otters were spotted but there was a parade of 22 Canada Geese! I also saw my first ever (live) Kingfisher!!!
Today was hard going again, I canât lie. I came close to sitting things out but I really wanted to try and keep up. I am sick of the constant battle between pain, fatigue and sensory overload and the desire to see, learn and experience things. Thankfully the people I am with have been so accommodating and helpful and it was a good day over all. Another highlight was hearing lots of nice folk music on the way back from Plymouth that I am glad to have been made aware of (one of the scholars is Scottish and a cĂšilidh musician and had a playlist).
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2Ă2 - Grown-Up Situation 8
Author: Akira
Characters: Yuuta, Hinata, Shinobu, Nagisa
Translator: Mika Enstars
"Youâre not a very physically strong person, Shinobu-kun, so donât push yourself too hard, okay?"
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Season: Winter
Location: Downtown
Hinata: âOh, looks like our producers have arrived on set too!
Yuuta: Good morniii~ng, Anzu-san! Good luck today!
Shinobu: Iâd be grateful for your help this time around, or rather, this time too, de gozaruâŠâȘ
Hinata: For the record, while the producer changes every time for 2Ă2, both YamadaP and AnzuP will be on site.
Nagisa: âŠHm. It is an effective way to observe your opponentâs work up close, and perhaps also a means to monitor them to ensure thereâs no cheating.
âŠThatâs fair.
Yuuta: Thatâs true, but⊠Both producers have a lot of other work to do, so it must be quite a burden to show up on site for every 2Ă2.
Shinobu: Yeah⊠Anzu-dono had a bit of a cough last time we recorded, so Iâm rather worried about her health, de gozaru.
Hinata: Doesnât she always push herself too hard?
Huh? Actually, Anzu-san doesnât seem to be feeling well, so she took a sick day off to be cautiousâŠ?
W-Will things be okay?
Hinata: Ah, Iâm not worried about Anzu-san, but about the program⊠Itâs mostly her own fault sheâs not feeling well.
Shinobu: We didnât say anythingâŠ
Yuuta: When you put it like that, it sounds like you instead actually donât care about her at all, Aniki. âȘ
Hinata: Uu, but thatâs not what I meant. The producer in charge of the fifth episode of 2Ă2 is Anzu-san, isnât she?
What do we do? If she canât come on-site, how will she give us directions?
Nagisa: âŠIt appears she will be giving direction through HoldHands for the time being.
âŠYamadaP has come on-site, although he is not in charge this time, so I do not think he can be too intrusive.
Shinobu: If YamadaP ended up producing AnzuPâs episode, it wouldnât make any sense, de gozaru.
That would make the match, or the producer showdown, nonviable.
Hinata: Itâs not something she should do to the point of destroying her body. I feel itâs fine to end this with Anzu-sanâs loss now that sheâs called in sick.
Managing the health of your idols and yourself is part of the job.
By falling ill, Anzu-sanâs already considered inferior to YamadaP as a producer.
Yuuta: Weâve never had to miss work due to falling ill! We are healthy children! â
Hinata: But itâs caused for some mental unwellness because of thatâŠ
Yuuta: Moving on. This 12 episode program is already in the middle of itâs run with the fifth episode, and it seems to be getting a lot of viewership ratings thanks to the two producers competing.
It might not be feasible to cancel it at this point. At least, to the company or agency, in other words ES.
Hinata: Grown-up stuff is tough.
Nagisa: âŠI agree. Anzu-sanâs name will be credited as this episodeâs producer, and it appears that the match will continue whilst keeping her health condition under wraps.
âŠWe should probably try to avoid mentioning it as much as possible.
Shinobu: During filming, at least, de gozaru. Hmm, I am worried about Anzu-dono thoughâŠ
Yuuta: We just have to do our job. Iâm sure doing that much would let Anzu-san at least rest easy.
Hinata: Thatâs right. âŠSo, what kind of thing are we doing for our âexperienceâ this time?
Nagisa: âŠI believe weâve all received instruction from Anzu-san through HoldHands.
âŠWhat weâre doing for our âexperienceâ this time is, umm, âexperiencing life on the streetsâ?
Shinobu: Whoa, sounds like another harsh one!
Hinata: Youâre not a very physically strong person, Shinobu-kun, so donât push yourself too hard, okay?
Yuuta: Thatâs my line, Aniki.
Hinata: The current Yuuta-kun isnât considerate enough, so Iâm saying it for you!
Shinobu: I-I donât want the siblings to quarrel, de gozaru~? Letâs get along, get alongâŠâȘ
Nagisa: âŠFufu, it is somehow unnerving for various reasons.
âŠIn short, it appears we will be living on the streets for about a week, five days to be exact.
Yuuta: So like a homele⊠I have a feeling I shouldnât use that word. Umm, so like an unemployed person with no fixed address?
Nagisa: âŠThatâs right. Like weâve been thrown out onto the street in only our clothes and have to survive for five days.
Yuuta: So weâll be surviving in the concrete jungle!
Hinata: Whaaat, this will be easy, then!
Shinobu: Wha, wha? Iâm here thinking this will be the hardest so far, de gozaru!?
Even harder than the third episode where we lived in extreme poverty, living on only 500 yen a day!
We at least had an apartment to live in with furniture and a bed, de gozaru!
We wonât even have that this time, de gozaru! Itâs like a hard-mode was given to living in extreme poverty due to popular demand?
Nagisa: âŠIs the producer in charge this time around, Anzu-san, a demon?
Yuuta: She can be brutal at times, but I think sheâs rather gentle with this.
Hinata: Yup. We can use the experience of how to save money during the programâs third episode of living in extreme poverty, though not Ran-senpai.
Yuuta: Yup. We have experience.
Shinobu: Oh, right. Yuuta-kun and Hinata-kunâ
Yuuta: Yeah. When we were kids, we ran away from home and lived on the streets for some time. We earned money through things like street performances.
That experience can be put to good use. If anything, isnât that why Anzu-san chose this to be our experience this time?
Hinata: Yup. This wonât be a first for us, so she hoped itâd be no sweat for usâNo she trusted us that it would be.
Anzu-san, who knows us very well, has prepared something that I believe is a perfect fit for us.
Though I do feel bad for Shinobu-kun who will have to tag along.
Shinobu: ⊠âŠ
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Who takes decision in your life?
đž for anyone who resonates
I was met with one question "Who is in control of your life?" People replied "Me"; i thought to myself what was my answer? I never felt like i chose my choices. Sometimes they were wishful thinking that happened to come true. But most of the daydreams did not come true. Hint: No I didnt fall in passionate thrilling romance with a bad boy who only has soft place for me. Not to say that fantasies are useless. Fantasies are psychic processes that tell you a lot about yourself. They are not waste of time either. Fantasies tell you have a creative bone that is urging to express outside. Most of the times fantasies are when we are really bored stressed unsatisfied lonely insecure in life. Fantasies can be a way to quickly satiate unfulfilled desires.
But somewhere fantasies create unrealistic expectations that are almost impossible for the life we currently actually have. And that is a pretty shitty way to live. To be always living in glamour of fantasies, anticipating it and hightened expectations. Not to forget that for every 1 successful person there are 100s of those who do not succeed. "Just try harder", "Good luck next time", "You probably didnt work the right strategy" but the real answer is "I dont know why you did not succeed". I personally dont believe in law of attraction because it did not work for me. So I instead chose to go with the flow of the tao and let fate bring whatever result it wants.
Jeff Bezos once said "When a company comes up with an idea, it's a messy process--There's no 'aha' moment." What it means is that rather than panicking for the final result, try to solve the mess that the process is. As an 8th houser, my life + my parents' life (both 8th housers) have been very unpredictable; just when we thought things were stable something would create ripples and disturb the calm waters. From one extreme to the other, we were all affected by each other's fate and ups downs. Being a child, I would get neurotic thinking "why is my life not carefree like others", "why cant i be stable for one day", "does everyone have such rollercoaster life"? Then I would think "perhaps if we get through this life would calm down", "perhaps this is the last challenge", "just this time then i will enjoy life". Little did I know that 8th house is highly karmic and fated. Same for Saturn/Saturn in 8th house/Pluto placements. When life feels fated, you have no choice but to surrender to the forces. Because the more you consciously push the more life resists your movement. Problems of 8th house are not going to mild, we just learned to be calm in emergency, control our panic, calmly take logical decision and manage our life as much as possible. The lesson for these people was "to choose their emotional reaction".
"However simple an impulse appears to be, every nuance of its particular character, its strength and direction, its course, its timing, its aim, all depend on special psychic conditions, in other words on an attitude. And the attitude consists of a constellation of contents so numerous that they cannot be counted" - Carl Jung. My current life attitude is somewhere between cynicism, hopeful pessimism, taoism and stoicism. A mix of all these work for me. What it means is that instead of obsessing over things not under my conscious control (like result of an exam, behaviour of other people, fate of a relationship), I only focus on things under my control that is effort, reason and mind.
It is not passivity or defeatism. It is a life lesson for people who have faced many misfortunes to be prepared for the future and to make peace with the past.
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Patreon Launch!
Hey, fellow fanatics!
I decided to finally take the plunge and launch a Patreon for my art (fanart and original) and writing (fanfic and original). Both becaue it will motivate me to draw and write more often, and because of my current life situation (which will be explained as best I can under the cut, for those that care to read).
There will be NSFW content in certain pledges, so MDNI with the subscription levels that include that stuff!
Fanart will mostly be BG3 as that is my most recent and current hyperfixation, but other fandoms I am likely to produce content from include:
Dungeons and Dragons, Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Touchstarved
AND potentially the occasional/rare otome/dating sim fandoms, Fire Emblem, and various anime and/or manga.
Along with original content and characters that live in my head rent free!
I will also most likely periodically do commissionsâbut I will have to set up a pricing breakdown/separate web page for that, probably.
Here is the link to my freshly launched page!:
Now, the life ramble that explains my current situation:
So, life is hard.
I've been lucky. I don't pay rent (I still live with my mother). I only have to help pay for groceries on occasion. I have a job (barely, but we'll get into that) with probably the most freedom/flexibility on could possibly imagine. I have free timeâloads.
So what's the problem?
The job I mentioned is hard to really call a job. I'm all but officially unemployed. My parents (when my dad was still alive) bought the local newspaper that my mom has worked at for nearly as long as I've been alive. We live in a small, SMALL town. The run of each weekly issue is maybe in the 2,000-4,000 range. We make most of our money selling ads (which is gross, but the newspaper industry is failing in general, and we are a just a local, rural print and many choose other, more advanced forms of advertisement which reach a broader audience). We've been in the red for the past 2 years, my mother often skipping her own pay check to ensure that she can pay the 2 other elderly employees that are on staff. I make less than $400 a month. Much less.
That's the price you pay for freedom. Little pay, LOTS of time. The reverse is also true, which is something I'm sure a vast majority of people can relate to.
Capitalism is so much fun, isn't it?
Those that are out of college and live with a parent may also be able to relate to what comes next.
The relationship between my mother and I has always had its strained moments, to put it mildly. We are very different people. We have different life experiences, we cope with stress differently. There is a running joke on social media that living with your parents after college/as an adult has the financial advantages, but at the cost of your mental healthâand that is very much the reality of our situation.
My biggest insecurity in recent yearsâsince the sudden passing of my father in 2018âhas been the feeling of being a burden.
I've never been a healthy person. We always joke that I got all the sickly genetics and my brother got all the cosmic bad luck. I'm autistic. I have anxiety and depression. I have an autoimmune disease. I inherited the genetic heart condition that killed my father. I had a blood clot 2 years ago. I no longer have health insurance. None of this is uncommon, certainly. But I avoid healthcare entirely unless it's an absolute necessity (like the blood clot).
I limit my eating, so we don't have to buy groceries as often.
But my mother has always had a temper, especially when she's stressed. And with the business so up-in-the-air and the constant worry of having to close our doors and find new jobs in a VERY small town + in a society with very limited options, spam job listings, and bogus opportunities, she is almost ALWAYS stressed these days.
She takes it out on me. I'm the only one here.
My feelings of being a burden are all but confirmed for me in those moments. She knows just what to say to hurt me most (whether she realizes it or not, she uses my insecurities against me), and my mental and emotional health worsen, as does the relationship between my mother and I.
I play games or draw or write to feel happy. To have some reprieve from reality.
But "it doesn't make money" and therefore it's a waste of time.
And that brings me to where I am now.
I may make next-to-nothing by launching a Patreon, but it will still be more than the next-to-nothing I make now as well as the LITERAL nothing I will be making if the business is forced to close.
I continue to job hunt on a daily basis, mostly for remote work given my middle-of-nowhere location (if anyone knows of any legit positions I could look into PLEASE let me knowâsend me a PM, reply to this post, anything). But this will both motivate me to keep doing the things that make me happy and also provide a tiny bit of support to our financial situation.
I have also been in a long distance relationship going on 9 years now. Long distance as in nearly 9,000 miles and an entire ocean away. I try to visit every year, but obviously during Covid that was not an option (totally and completely understandable), and with our finances so precarious, it gets more and more difficult to see my now (as of my visit last year) fiance.
If I can manage to get the money together, we plan to elope during my visit this year. But our future is undeniably going to be difficult without money. Moving isn't cheap. Immigrating isn't easy.
But that's all on the back-burner for now, while we address the more immediate concerns.
I am motivated to do what I can to make ANY extra money while looking for a legitimate job to provide a more stable situation.
Any supportâa reblog, a share, a pledge/subscription, a job listing suggestion, ANYTHING will be MASSIVELY appreciated.
I know life is difficult for pretty much everyone on the planet right now. If we could all help each other easily, we would. But I understand that that's not an easy ask for most people at this point in time. I hate having to resort to monetizing my passions, and asking people for support (not pressuring, but even asking is hard in the current state of the world).
But I see few other options.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading my rant and please reblog/share <3
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Building confidence with chronic illness and disability
What does it look like to be empowered and confident with a disability or chronic illness?
Iâve been pondering this lately as I find itâs easy to get into the mindset that when my health improves or if I fully recover, then Iâll finally feel confident, badass and empowered. And yes, thatâs partly true. Having more energy and wellbeing definitely gives me a huge boost in my mood and sense of self efficacy. I also think itâs great to work on improving our health as much as possible.
However, what do we do in the mean time? What would it look like to be the best version of myself, right here with my current circumstances? I've been pondering this question recently, and wanted to explore it further.
Unfortunately, many of us get trapped in a downward spiral that feels out of our control. Feeling unwell saps our self esteem, and having to stop jobs, reduce social activities or limit hobbies can be very depressing. Itâs a vicious circle that can be tough to escape. Financial and health struggles can create so much anxiety and stress, it can feel crippling not just physically, but mentally, too. It can feel shameful and embarrassing, and often we just want to hide and protect ourselves.
There can also be a lot of self-consciousness about our physical bodies and appearance. For example, many medications can make people put on weight, fatigue can cause dark circles under the eyes, and allergies can make peopleâs faces look puffy. Surgeries can also leave people with scars and itâs normal to wonder if people will find you attractive, especially in the dating scene.
However, the great thing about working on our health and confidence is that it can also be an upward spiral. Confidence can help motivate and empower us to improve our health and life situation, and in turn the increase in energy and health can boost our confidence. Iâve found that even improving my health by 5% or 10% can make a surprisingly dramatic difference in my overall quality of life. Every little bit counts!
Here is my advice, based on my life experience - in no particular order:
One: Escape the comparison trap.
Stop comparing to others, especially other able bodied people. Even comparing to others with the same condition can be highly problematic, as people have wildly varying symptoms, different levels of severity, as well as different levels of support and financial resources. Many people with the same outward symptoms also have a completely different root cause (or combination of root causes). Not to mention the treatments that work for some may not work for others at all. Some people find a silver bullet solution, but for most people, itâs more complex than just one thing.
Focus on yourself and stay in your lane. Concentrate on your personal achievements and look at how far youâve come. Being able to walk for five minutes may mean nothing to the average person, but it may be a huge milestone for you. Donât forget to celebrate your wins! Even the small ones. Also embrace the reality that the journey is going to be up and down. Youâre going to have good days and bad days. Donât let that discourage you from continuing.
Two: Self compassion and self acceptance.
Work on talking to yourself with more love, compassion and acceptance. Acceptance is really important because we need to come to terms with our reality, which is often incredibly frustrating and painful. This often involves a great deal of grief too. Itâs okay to feel all the emotions, and hold space for them. I find journalling, therapy and EFT tapping really helpful in this process. I also really like parts work, and the concept of unblending, as it helps me gain perspective on difficult emotions and parts.
Know that itâs okay to feel the sadness and anger. Itâs also okay to feel envious and jealous of people who are able bodied and have easier lives. Itâs normal. Donât add insult to injury by beating yourself up over totally normal emotions!! Society encourages us to repress and deny our shadow, but we need safe spaces to talk about the tough stuff.
Being disabled and chronically ill comes with a huge amount of stigma, and often trauma, too. Get the treatment you need for any trauma thatâs holding you back and sapping your spirit. I recommend EMDR and somatic therapy, but thereâs lots of other modalities out there too.
Three: Own it fully.
This is easier said than done, but when youâre disabled or chronically ill, itâs better to own it and speak about it as confidently as possible. I find this is especially relevant in social or dating situations. I try to be honest, open and frank about my lifestyle and limitations, rather than hiding it or pretending I donât have any conditions. This is sometimes a tough line to walk as you donât want to overshare or freak people out, but in general I prefer to be up front with people.
This also includes freely using mobility aids in public settings, social situations or going on dates. Iâve become very comfortable using a mobility scooter to get around, and often take a walking stick with me too. It takes time to get used to this, but the more you do it, the less self-conscious youâll feel. Some people find it helps to decorate their mobility aids or get a walking stick that looks funky. Canes can be incorporated into a steampunk, dark academia or dapper aesthetic in a fun way! Find a way to own it and make it your own, in a way that suits your personality and style.
Another area that can be challenging is dealing with dietary limitations. Strict diets and allergies can be tricky, but again, itâs better just to own it. I donât eat at restaurants, but I still go to restaurants and cafes with friends and enjoy hanging out. Yes, itâs a little awkward sometimes, but you have to push through it. The right people wonât care, and will value your presence more than anything else.
Four: Seek supportive connections, friends and community, whether online or off.
Find friends, groups and events that are supportive, uplifting and accessible. Donât hang around people who judge you or drag you down. Even people who constantly insist on giving annoying unsolicited advice (like "just drink more water!") can drain your precious spoons.
I know this is so much easier said than done, because being disabled or chronically ill can bring with it a great deal of isolation. Itâs natural to just hang on to whatever connections you have, and not want to let go or burn a bridge. So be kind to yourself if thereâs some people youâre just not ready to let go of right now. But keep looking for better friends who are going to life you up and who fully accept and celebrate you as you are.
Never, ever assume you have to tolerate any abuse or mistreatment because youâre disabled or chronically ill. You are not a burden and never deserve to be treated badly.
The same goes for dates and partners. Donât settle for people who are toxic, judgemental or just tolerate you â rather than fully accepting and loving you right now, for who you are. Also, find people who respect and cherish you as a person, not for what you can do for them or what you achieve. People who are very focused on things like class, money and status are usually best avoided where possible.
Five: Cultivate a sense of purpose in your life thatâs bigger than you.
I find when Iâm focused on my purpose and calling, itâs easier to be confident because Iâm not so focused on what other people think of me. I recognise that I have a calling thatâs a lot more important than that! Obviously, this is easier said than done, especially if you can no longer work â or have had to change jobs, or reduce your work hours. Even volunteering can be surprisingly difficult when you have health limitations.
But purpose, meaning and calling in life are much greater than what we do for money, or even our hobbies. Relationships are a core source of meaning and purpose for many people. Being creative and growing spiritually are also significant. Iâve written more about this in other blog posts, but I find this is a significant piece of building a sense of empowerment in difficult circumstances. Reflecting on your core values can be really powerful and inspiring.
Iâd recommend doing an exercise where you select words or phrases that represent your core values in life.
Six: Donât be afraid to have fun, explore and try new things, as much as you can!
I find singing and dancing at home to positive, empowering songs can really boost my mood and confidence. It can be hard to be as spontaneous and active as I would like, but I still try my best to engage in life to the fullest extent of my capabilities. Sometimes this means asking for help or using mobility aids to get to certain events. It can also mean more planning ahead when travelling.
I really love riding my escooter, as it gives me an adrenaline rush but isnât too tiring. Think outside the box and be open to new experiences. Brene Brown talks about engaging in laughter, song and dance in her guidelines for wholehearted living, and I think itâs applicable here. Watching hilarious movies and having a laugh with friends can be so uplifting.
Finally, donât discount celebrating your sexuality. Disabled people are often portrayed as non-sexual, but exploring dating and sex can be a lot of fun and very empowering.
Practical suggestions:
Explore journalling about â what does it mean to live my best and fullest life with my current limitations? What does being empowered and confident look like for me right now? Brainstorm whatever comes to mind.
If youâre feeling rejected or unworthy, put your hand on your heart or your belly, and send love to the parts of you that are holding these emotions. I find self compassion practice can be really powerful.
EFT tapping is a great tool for working through negative core beliefs, like âIâm a burdenâ or âIâm not enoughâ.
If people give you a compliment, take a screenshot or write it down and save it into a folder on your computer for whenever you feel down and need a pick me up.
Try writing down your strengths, good qualities and things you like about yourself.
Create a celebration jar where you write down anything youâre proud of or qualities your love about yourself on little bits of paper. Put them in the jar and you can open it whenever you need a reminder. Another option is putting a marble or stone in a jar whenever you do something youâre proud of.
Experiment with visualising yourself as your most confident, empowered self. You could go back to a past memory where you were feeling your best, or imagine yourself in the future. I find doing this while listening to music can be really uplifting.
Use positive affirmations, for example: My worth and value is based on who I am, not on my achievements. I am confident. I am powerful. I deserve to be treated well. If it feels a bit fake or forced, you could try asking yourself, âWhat if I felt confident?â and see what arises.
Further links and resources:
Chronic Illness and Confidence: How to Rebuild
Facing the World with Confidence and Chronic Illness
How to be Confident While Being Chronically Ill
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I suppose I'm mortified, in a sense; being so seen puts me in an unwillingly vulnerable position. It also makes me feel as though I haven't done enough of a job to seem as "on top" of everything as everyone else. We've all got our shares of issues, but I also remind myself that most people don't cope with the scale or depth of my personal issues.
What I'd perceived in myself as edgy banter was perceived as a potential cry for help, at the very least as something meant to be brought to attention. I didn't see the scope of my behaviors and, while I had the dim notion of it beginning to get worse, the scale of it wasn't clear until it was actually brought up with me.
I'm reading aggression where there simply isn't any; I fear that if my service relations don't improve, my job may be at risk. It was repeatedly stressed that I wasn't in any trouble, that there was merely concern for me, but that alone left me feeling like I'd made a huge mistake. Masking isn't the right choice, as much as it would be a solution for the immediate issue; it would burn me out very badly.
The customer service persona itself makes me feel like an ass, I can't talk to a grown adult as one would a child; pitching my voice up plays hell with my dysphoria. It's so clearly fake, the enthusiasm fake, the smile fake, and yet people eat it up. I've been overly aggressive on register, playing up the saccharine to an almost frighteningly comedic degree and the actual venom underneath has never been commented on - it's in high favor with everyone I've used it on.
The communication feels like natural autism issues, magnified. Expected to read minds and interpret queries based on singular words or phrases I've never heard in my life, I feel like an anthropologist trying to navigate this job and the clients in it. I don't know if I want technician work, it's a constant flow of customer service and I already know I'm not a good fit for it. No one expresses a need for help, just a mere expectation to be catered to. Incapable, one singular item, needing a person to perform the role of a machine and treated as a machine would be.
After 5 1/2 months, I'm still living paycheck to paycheck. I just learned the days I'd taken off for a medical procedure could have been put in as sick days, meaning I wouldn't be $200 short on my current check. No one had told me. I didn't know, and no one had told me. I have another doctor visit approaching, and still have to schedule with another. I know what I likely need to help my body, I'm just not in a position to fully have access yet.
I could tell it wasn't getting any better when I realized how much I was beginning to detest coming home to roommates. One becomes aggressive when their methodology is questioned or if they're asked to attend to chores, while the other suffers under the weight of her own success - how will she be able to prepare for her 6 month internship when she has to attend a wedding and a cruise in the same month? Everyone is so loud, I just want to be left alone, and that was one of the early signs that something was wrong.
I have been offered three consecutive paid days off. I am considering the offer. I would like to be given at least a week each 3 months, just for my own sake. For my mental health, for my physical health, for my overall wellbeing.
I don't want others to see this and assume that it's the new normal and become unwilling to engage with me because they're expecting friction. They will want to avoid me.
I suppose the fact that it's become visible upsets me in part because I was taught to keep my head down and my mouth shut. I was nearly baker acted in high school once the curtains began to lift on my abuse situation, and it made the abuse escalate. Doctors seeing some conditions and commenting on how they could be due to stress, my father replying sternly that he had no idea what could possibly stress me so badly. I don't feel like I fully know how to cope with my stress - the gentle self care methodology doesn't feel fully in line with the emotions I feel. I didn't even notice my stress, telling myself to try again try again without actually seeing ways to effectively reduce my stress. Being singed out for not being able to manage it is embarrassing, even when it comes with a message of other people being willing to help. I feel as though I don't want the help, I don't want the pity. I want the pity, I want others to see the stress I'm under. I don't want to be pitied, I can manage my own self. Sometimes I wonder about that. I want the recognition until I actually receive it and then it becomes upsetting.
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How âWishful Thinkingâ Creates âFuck Yeah!â Results
Holy smokes. I might as well turn this series into a permanent thing. So many clients are getting happy results from their âwishful thinkingâ.
âWishful thinkingâ, of course, is not what I call it. I call it the Positively Focused Way. âWishful thinkingâ is what people who donât know anything about what theyâre talking about call this âyou create your reality business.â
Theyâve never tried it. Or if they have, theyâve done so under shoddy conditions, conditions which were bound to have them fail. Or theyâve tried it without someone helping them figure out how the âbusinessâ works, so they missed it actually working.
Meanwhile, lots of people, under the right circumstances and under a someone who knows this âbusinessâ are finding happy lives and happy life results putting this âwishful thinkingâ to work.
Over the past few weeks, Iâve written about two examples. You can read those stories here and here. I still have two more to share. This one is short but really sweet.
Letâs get to it.
In disbelief dreams are uncomfortable
This client Iâll call âGusâ. Heâs been practicing this âyou create your reality businessâ for 14 weeks. Through weekly sessions and the homework, heâs learning that the Positively Focused Way produces astonishing outcomes, just like I promise. Just like Abraham, Seth, Neville Goddard and many others promise also.
Gus is a musician. He performs covers at his local famersâ market. Like many musicians, he dreams about becoming successful and playing before thousands. However, Gusâ beliefs, like many, many artists of all kinds, block that success. Even though heâs already created that success for himselfâââ that success awaits Gus in a probable future realityâââ which can be his future as soon as he lines up with it.
But 15 weeks ago, Gus didnât realize any of this. Thatâs why he avoided his dreams. Thinking about them was too uncomfortable. Whenever he fantasized about being famous, his old beliefs would say âget real!â âbe realistic!â and âgrow up!â Then heâd imagine the thousands of artists, maybe hundreds of thousands, that arenât successful at their art.
That lack of success he saw as his future. No wonder his dreams made him uncomfortable. He didnât believe theyâre possible.
Our itches will lead to joy
Itâs true, of course, that many, many artists arenât successful, if you measure success by how much income they get from their art. Yet, even by that measure, there are plenty who are successful. The only thing differentiating the latter from the former are the two groupsâ beliefs.
Thatâs right. Itâs not talent, contacts, âlucky breaksâ or any other factor keeping a person from whatever success they want. The only thing doing that is what the person thinks and believes about being successful.
For example, Gus can not fathom how he could replace his current six-figure salary he gets working at a utility company. The reason why he canât fathom it is because itâs not Gusâ job to figure out how that happens. Thatâs the Universeâs job. Gusâ job is to line up with his desire, feel good in doing that, which tells him something really important, then watch as the Universe delivers the probable future in which he swaps his utility salary for a performing one.
In the meantime, Gus hits farmersâ markets and the occasional spot gig to scratch the itch. Yes, itâs an itch. We know we have desires because those things catch our attention from time to time. Theyâre our Broader Perspective encouraging us in the direction of our joy.Â
But most of us will ignore those itches. Or worse; weâll talk ourselves out of them in favor of living in âthe real worldâ as one reader of my stories calls it.
Life just gets better and better
The thing is, there IS NO REAL WORLD out there. The only world we exist in is the world reflecting back to us our thoughts and beliefs. And if we believe that that world is full of disappointment and things we must confront and struggle againstâŠwell that is the world we see and experience.
Meanwhile, there are a ton of people living in other worlds. Worlds where life is easy. Where life is good. Worlds where people are happy and joyful. And in their happiness and joy, theyâre getting everything they want effortlessly.
Gus is figuring out how to turn his current world into the world you just read about. It all starts with âwishful thinkingâ. When a person starts thinking wishful, their world instantly starts changing. Actually, whatâs really happening is, the person begins phasing out of their current probable now, and phasing into an adjacent probable now. One aligned with all their desires. One where probable futures connected to that probable now contain all they desire. So the personâs life gradually gets better and better.
It doesnât happen over night because this âyou create your realityâ business isnât magic. But consistency and application of easy processes makes the phasing happen effortlessly.
The wife creates a better Gus
Gus started using those processes 14 weeks ago. In doing so, the Universe showed him all the beliefs he holds which keeps him in the reality he currently is reflecting back to himself. I wonât go into those details, but suffice it to say it was a life he didnât want. It was so unsatisfying, he left his wife and considered killing himself.
Meanwhile, his wife, a 65-week client, used this âyou create your reality businessâ to create a better version of Gus. As a result of her focus and intention, Gus changed his mind about killing himself, moved back into his marriage and is seeing that marriage blossom.
In fact, it was evidence his wife was producing in her way of being that had Gus try the Positively Focused Way in the first place. And she became a client because she saw her mother radically transform. Her mother is a 174-week client. The momâs son also is a client. In fact, her motherâs intention and focus was that her children would begin practicing too. Thatâs happened.
So this âwishful thinkingâ stuff is powerful. It delivers everything one wants. Including ideal versions of people we interact with.
Ok, back to Gus.
^^As Gusâ wifeâs experience shows, thereâs something behind this âyou create your realityâ business. (Photo by Frank Leuderalbert on Unsplash)
Vibration attracts
He sent me an audio recording last week. It was two days after our session. He was super-stoked about what happened and wanted to share âthe cool experienceâ he just had.
Gus said he had a gig scheduled at a local bar. But the owner called him to tell him they needed to cancel.
âThey didnât have enough patronage to cover what me playing there would incur for them,â he said in his message. Gus described how he used the Positively Focused Way to manage his emotions about this message. Thatâs crucial if one wants to have what one wants.
Thatâs because emotions act like a compass. They tell us in what direction weâre headed relative to our goals. Negative emotions tell us weâre heading in the opposite direction, generally speaking. Positive ones do the opposite. Emotions happen as a result of thoughts we think. Most people donât understand this. They think emotions happen as a result of something that happens outside us.
Thatâs not whatâs happening.
Emotions are physical manifestations of vibrational focus.
We are all energy that is aware. Like all energy, we vibrate and our vibration attracts. We set our vibration through focus and that focus creates thought, which is a forward evolution of vibration. Hold that thought long enough and it will manifest as an emotion. Keep holding that thought and the thought will manifest as physical reality becoming the reflection of the vibration weâre holding âinâ us.
When it does that, most people will see the physical manifestation and think it happened randomly or coincidentally. Thatâs because they donât know what you just read.
Events are not random nor coincidental.
The âfuck yeahâ manifestation happens
All physical manifestation happens from our focus. And when we focus on what we donât want, thatâs what shows up in physical reality â which again is just a reflection of our inner vibrational state.
Ok, back to Gusâ message:
âI didnât react [negatively],â he continues. âI was just like âhey, that makes sense, Iâll see you on the next one. Itâs all good! I wasnât feeling disappointed at all. It would have been cool to play and have engagement with those folks, but it will happen again.â
Not being upset, again, was critical. Gus did well here. Itâs no surprise then what happened next.
The next day, Gus gets a text from someone who also plays at the farmers market. Gus describes what they said:
â[The message said], I have this person that wants me to play music for a private party but I canât do it the day theyâre looking for. Are you available and interested?â Gus explained.
Gus continued: âLong story short, I am going to play this gig for these people, and itâs going to be for more than [what I would make at the cancelled gig], for less time, and itâs amazing and I just wanted to share that all of this shit is so good; my feeling about [negative energy] and just like, vibrational alignment and stuff, Iâm just watching all these things that are coming back to meâŠand itâs just like you said about thinking about [reality] like a game. Itâs all free flowing, there are always other opportunitiesâŠFuck yeah!â
Itâs all a happy game
Gusâ experience is typical of all my clients. The world of âwishful thinkingâ is the world everyone wants to live. It creates âfuck yeah!â experiences all the time. But if we think âwishful thinkingâ is stupid, or that itâs ânot a life strategyâ like many, many people do, including that person who commented on my previous post, then such people live in lives that, in her words, suck.
Iâm happy I donât live in that world. My clients are finding new, happier worlds than that one exist too. One by one, theyâre finding this âyou create your reality businessâ not only results in happy worlds and happy lives, they allow one to live in any world one wants to live in.
Thatâs because we all are divine, eternal beings enjoying a human existence. One we tailor ongoingly to our desires through vibrational focus. For many, their existence comes filled with some of what they want and a lot of what they donât want.
But thatâs because they arenât using the âyou create your reality businessâ deliberately. Instead, theyâre doing it unconsciously. So they donât get what they want; they get what they focus on. And a lot of people focus more on what they donât want than what they want.
When they start doing the latter thoughâŠ.wow. For those people, the world becomes, in Gusâ words a happy âfuck yeah!â game.
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Hello, my name is Mohammed Nihad Ghazal from North Gaza. I have ambitions, dreams and a love for life like any young man in the world. I am supporting my family of 15 after my father was martyred in the cursed war that destroyed everything, but it seems that I will not be able to achieve my dream because of the brutal war on the Gaza Strip, which completely destroyed our home, and despite the harsh war, we did not leave North Gaza under inhumane conditions. We have suffered from illness, cold, hunger and drinking polluted water for more than 11 months, which we have suffered greatly from the loss of friends and relatives who were killed in the war for 330 days. I am appealing to you, the global community, for help. I have started a GoFundMe campaign with the goal of raising $20,000 to enable me and my family to find safety in Egypt. Evacuation fees change from time to time; we currently expect a cost of between $4,000 and $5,000 per person. Any additional funds generated will go to support my immediate needs and those of my family. There are many obstacles that we will face on the other side, and I hope that we can make things a little easier for us. I would like to share with you the situation now that the war has intensified. We are fine and safe, but life has become very difficult now around us, and people are suffering more and losing their loved ones every day. As a family, we have literally lost everything we own, our homes, ourhttps://gofund.me/f3e7e3c2 Hey there! Iâm reaching out because my family and I are in a really tough spot, and any contribution you can make towards our evacuation from Gaza would mean the world to usâeach donation brings us closer to safety and a fresh start. If you could click the link below to help or share it with others who might want to support us, it would make such a difference in our lives. Thank you for being so compassionate during this challenging time!
businesses, and we lost the dearest thing to us, my father, but we are trying to stay optimistic by thinking about evacuating and we heard good news today that the borders may open soon. We pray that this is true. Once we are evacuated, we will try hard to rebuild a small part of what we lost in Gaza. If we can achieve our ultimate goal, we will have the money to start a business to support our entire family. We want to be able to start over and not suffer anymore in Egypt. If everyone can help us with a small donation to achieve our ultimate goal, we will be able to rebuild our lives after everything was destroyed. All the positive words cannot express how generous you are in sharing my posts to inform other donors about the people of Gaza who are still suffering from the terrible conditions caused by the unjust war on Gaza. Please continue to support the just cause in the world either by donating directly or by sharing the link to other media. Do not hesitate to help people in difficult and miserable times until the dark days are over.
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Hello, I'm sorry I didn't answer you before. I'm Emilia, I'm from Argentina and I'm 21 years old. I'm very sorry to tell you this, but I don't have anything to donate to you. The Argentine peso is very weak and it's impossible for young people to save, much less in dollars. Believe me, if I had anything to help you, I would do everything possible. I am pro-Palestinian from my little place in the world. I share information and videos where funds are collected for people in Gaza.I wish you the best in the world, peace in your country and in your heart to find your children happy and safe for the rest of your life and theirs. Unfortunately I cannot do more from my place, but I promise I will do more, we will organize marches, posters, protests at my public and free university so that everyone can see it.
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A NEW WORLD canât BE CREATED BY THE ACTIVITIES OF A small group of radicals. However, there is no megalomania in considering critically the possibility of initiating and participating in a local, organically self-organized thrust aimed at freeing the place where we live from the selfish, myopic bullies that enforce injustice, ecological plunder and exploitation. And this process could be healing, because it would likely create the space and the possibility for better relations between us and these new relations would in turn create the possibility for a complete rupture with the current reality of sickness and domination.
Yet, it isnât just an economic class and their henchmen and police that need to be confronted, but the values that permeate authoritarian societies generally. In other words, each of us must also wage an internal struggle and in the process free ourselves and help create an atmosphere that supports others doing the same.
The organic world consists of paradoxes, chaos, spectrums, and gradations, not engineered grids, predictable patterns, and axioms. No person or world view or ideology has all the answers. By trusting our instincts and our desires, new possibilities will open. We can make public what Power wants to keep private: our dreams, our visions, our unhappiness and our anger.
The thousand-mile journey begins with the first step; an old truth.
Authoritarian civilization is founded on our systematic self-enslavement and self-exploitation. Humans are at the helm, our fathers, brothers, sisters, and mothers are at the helm. Almost every one of us contributes to reproducing this authoritarian, destructive, unjust, oppressive and unimaginative planetary realm. It is hegemonic and, therefore, difficult to live outside of.
Yet one persistent mutiny on this global slave ship called civilization could unlockall the doors, could let loose the animals, could let us all find our wings and our immortality once again. Any generation can change the world. But one generation must soon, because there may not be a future one healthy enough to do it.
This transformation would create the possibility of authentic, intense lives lived in genuine, autonomous communities embedded in healthy habitats.
And having a healthy habitat in which to live offers the possibility of having a sense of place. A sense of place in turn offers the opportunity for rediscovering feelings and experiences of awe, reverence and wonder, not for science and technology, but for nature and its marvels.
The simple proposal is this: a widespread insurgency, based on a multitude of local rebellions, each one demanding enough land to sustain its inhabitants. More specifically, occupying or re-occupying territory with the explicit view that it becomes our habitat. And these withdrawals, while ends in themselves, as far as flourishing under adversarial conditions goes, are also only a means to a much greater vision. We withdraw to build strength, to succeed for ourselves but also in order to offer assistance to other revolutionary projects and attempts, to intertwine our liberated spaces with the struggles ofothers who want to make a final break with global institutions of domination.
Yes, we have much anger and rage toward the class of rulers; yes, we are inspired by expressions of hatred and destruction aimed at the bullies who organize society. But here I suggest that we emphasize, among ourselves, fraternity and cooperation. This proposal is about intent, about not waiting for the right conditions, about consciously taking advantage of the cracks and fissures in the dominant reality wherever you live, prying them open, creating space for ourselves. It is from many of these free camps that capitalism might potentially be attacked, as rebels and dreamers join with others for whom life under the civilized order is unbearable.
In the long term, acquiring a home, a habitat, is essential. This means freeing up colonized land, rehabilitating plundered land, or seizing land. In the short term, it might mean rent strikes or squatting. It could involve wilderness camps, fishing shacks, shared berry patches, collective harvesting of wild foods and group gardening and permaculture, etc. Learning from and being in solidarity with people of the land, elders and traditionalists among indigenous people for instance, who may live nearby, might be a priority. It seems obvious that acquiring food in groups, and sharing food among many, are possible foundation stones. From every angle, a land base becomes essential.
In a small but significant way, this is a proposal to take the initiative, because we canât win if we are always on the defensive.
These organically self-organized subsistence movements are autonomous but linked, small but many, local but together spread out, and occupy great amounts of territory. They donât want new popes or statesmen, better governments or better representation, new countries or new republics. They aim for a world of clans, tribes and villages, of freedom and community.
This strategy doesnât aim for a mass movement, but for a dynamism oflocal rebellions that offers to sweep up everyone who isnât afraid of being energized and carried by it.
There are no books necessary to read, no leaders to follow, no traditions or jargon or vocabulary to adopt. You donât have to live in the countryside or in the city. It is homegrown, like a euphoric weed that grows everywhere and spreads easily. It is against the laws of the unjust, the arrogant and the elite, the powerful, the intolerant, and the unimaginative. It is strengthened by critical observation. It has no room for bullies. It is intuition and rationality, hand in hand. This effort would be courageous and celebratory. It would succeed through persistent self-directed activity by people without labels.
It promises to be an incredible voyage, and you are invited!
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