#as for whether or not it will be a 'heheh let's see if you're worthy; fight ME if you wanna see your mom kid' in the nice old grandpa way o

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MiA Spoilers Ahead but

seeing people talk about srajo being a "final boss" like figure maybe for THIS arc but???? are we forgetting that even excluding the "Lyza is evil" theory there's a white whistle called wakuna the fucking chosen

[youaremyfavoriteserendipity]

11 signs you're inlove with the idea of love

Am i inlove with him or inlove with the idea of love? My score is 1/11! ❤️ 1. You believe your life will begin once you have the love of your life. You believe in happily ever after in the way that you think once you find that special someone you will feel fulfilled, content and joyous every day. Love is fulfilling, contentment and joyousness, but it is certainly not guaranteed to always be that. (No for me. I actually love the single life. Nagsimula ulit ang buhay ko after ko makarecover sa first heartbroken ko. My life began when i returned to God, my family, my friends, and to myself. After ko matauhan. And then i met nikko at lalo pa niya napakulay ang buhay ko at nabigyang halaga.) 2. You’re dreaming of your wedding and the life you’ll have with someone, and you’re just looking for someone to fit into that role, not the other way around. You are fixated on what the relationship can do for you, not what you can give to it. We get into muddy waters when it comes to making checklists for what our significant others should and shouldn’t be. More often than not, it leaves us completely unfulfilled, disappointed or heartbroken, and the other person with a serious inferiority complex. (Nope. Si nikko mismo yung gumawa ng ideal role. Dati wala naman talaga akong pinipili sa lalaki. Basta nakaramdam ako spark, mamahalin ko, kahit ano pang pinanget ng ugali. Tapos nakilala ko si nikko. At siya nag pakita mismo sakin ng kasweetan at kagentlemanan na di ko naencounter pa dati. Kaya gulat talaga ako na may ganung klase ng lalaki! 3. You know you don’t really love them, but you’re holding on to the love they give. You’re convincing yourself that you’re in love when you know that what you are really in love with is a lot more superficial, but a lot harder to let go of at the same time. (Of course i love the love and the attention he gives me. It's special, But above it, i know i love him for exactly who he is. Yun ang una kong mahal. Yung siya. Pero minsan napapaisip ako, mahal ko lang ba siya kasi lagi ko siya kasama? Mahal ko lang ba siya kasi spoiled na spoiled niya ko? Mahal ko lang ba siya kasi alam kong di niya ko iiwan kahit anong tulak ko sakanya? Tapos maiisip ko, ay tangina mahal ko nga to. Di ko ba to mahal kung hindi ako nagaabala na makagraduate na siya asap? Di ko ba to mahal kung lahat ng oras binigay ko sakanya? Mahal ko siya kasi madalas iniisip ko siya keysa sa sarili ko. Mahal ko siya kasi ang kulit niya. Bakit ako nagstastay sakanya kahit matanda siya sakin pero naunahan ko pa grumaduate, tapos ang hilig pa sa computer at games? Kasi mahal ko siya. At tanggap ko siya sa kung sino siya. Nasa kanya na yun kung anong mga bagay gusti niya baguhin sa sarili niya. And tuwa naman ako kasi kitang kita ko eagerness niya makapaggraduate at matupad dreams niya simula nung nakilala niya ko.😍 wait lang ligo na ko!! Late na ko! 4. You have this inclination to want to change your partner or drag things out when you know it’s not going to work out in the long-run. You’re just always waiting to see if the person who can make you feel a certain way will develop from who you have right now. This is not love. ( never. I never want him to change. Kung gusti niya magbago, nasa saknya na yun. Basta support ko siya at basta kung ani makakabuti sakanya) (naks parang anak ha) 5. You fantasize (or worry, really) that someone “better” will come along. When you are only seeking the traits of someone as opposed to the reality of someone, you’re always looking for more. Such is the case in many instances of infidelity: people are no longer getting what they want, and so they seek it elsewhere. (NEVER. Pag ako nagmahal, siya ang best at walang better pa na iba. Except pag galit ako aawayin ko siya, pero alam ko sa sarili ko si nikko ang best.) 6. You’re never single for too long. You don’t take the necessarily time to heal after a failed relationship. You just jump from one to the next. I’m not talking about a rebound or two, I’m talking about those of us who are completely incapable of being single for any extended period of time.(hmmm. 3months rule lang ako eh. Not quite long pero still 3months rule. Tsaka pag dumating eh ano pa magagawa . Pag si nikko dumating kinabukasan after ko maheartbroken, why not, kung nabuksan niya puso ko. Char haha) 7. The qualities you are most concerned about in a partner are ones that are rooted in self-interest. You want someone who treats you like a prince/princess, someone who spoils you, someone who puts you on a pedestal, someone who makes you feel a certain way, someone who alleviates all your fears: the common denominator is always what it can do for me. (Nope. I always think about what i can do for him. For us. At kahit di siya sweet sakin, mamahalin ko pa rin siya. Sguro ngayon sanay na ako na sweet siya, spinoiled msydo eh. Kaya sguro di niya na rin tinitigilan kalambingan niya. Hehehe) 8. You believe that having love will make you feel worth being loved. If you’re waiting for someone to come along for you to be happy, you’ll be waiting forever, I hate to tell ya. Love for the sake of feeling as though you’re worthy of it or love for the sake of healing your own grievances is a tell-tale sign. (I only need my family and myself to be happy. I'm just blessed to be surrounded with loving and caring people. I was happy before i met nikko. Only got happier after i met him.) 9. You have a propensity to be unfaithful. You can’t decide between two people, and you’re weighing your options based on how one makes you feel better as opposed to the other. You’re always out seeking someone better and another one better than the one before them. ( NEVER. Kay nikko lang . Si nikko lang.) 10. In addition to these, you have low self esteem, lack of positive role models or feel unloved by parents, siblings, etc. There’s nothing really wrong with this, and it’s usually out of our control, because at the end of the day, we all need to be loved, and when we aren’t… well, it’s never easy to deal with. But it is also something to consider when trying to differentiate real love from being in love with the idea of love. (...) 11. You can’t seem to take it slow, even when you try to. All of a sudden your life becomes this blossoming of obsession with the other person, you’re around them all the time, you are literally addicted to the feeling of being with them. Now, this is not uncommon in the honeymoon phases of love, but the difference is whether or not you are genuinely trying to control those urges. Most times, we’re not, because we want to feel love like that: quick, immersing, consuming, delusional. ( eto lang talaga. Obsess ako sakanya. Hahaha!)