#as an adult. recognize your changing limitations and adjust. don’t force your family into resentment and strong intense dislike for you.
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We may need to have the: you should DEFINITELY no longer be driving conversation instead of the gentler it would be better if you didn’t unless we can all tell you’re having a very good day. But there used to be more of those and he’s in denial about everything.
#but if mom and I chose to get rid of his car and proceeded to hide/carry our keys all the time then he’d find a way to buy a car behind our#backs and just keep going. like there are few ways of stopping him until he is totally physically incapable of driving. the last six days ha#have been a shitshow. literally. ever cleaned your father’s accident off the carpet? I have now. again. fuck him. handle your incapacities a#as an adult. recognize your changing limitations and adjust. don’t force your family into resentment and strong intense dislike for you.#this has been slowly coming for years and he could have made changes in the last few years to prolong his health. denial has done nothing by#but damage.
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