#are her beliefs presumptive? yes. are they always appropriate? no

[hemerasiae]

not to steal charlie’s thunder about this but the “neve is emotionally immature” crowd is wild.

she is so in tune with her emotions to the point that she can set realistic expectations and boundaries so that - not only can she protect herself (even if it’s at her own expense) - she can protect those around her from herself. if she knows she’s going to bolt, she can warn you before it gets to that point so neither of you get hurt.

you’re getting your bachelor’s degree, and she has three doctorates!!