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deadandphilgames · 11 months ago

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saw the anon that mentioning a marriage reveal and honestly i am not even the biggest on the “marriage” train because i don’t care about marriage and to me they don’t even seem like the type that care either but this video really gives Marriage Soft Launch vibes like the married couple energy is too intense

i do get “marriage is just a piece of paper” vibes from them since it quite literally is, they’ve done the other things already (building a life and house together, travelling, house plants, norman) so marriage is just a title. but also dan is such a whore for symbolism and ‘deeper meaning’ so i wouldn’t be surprised if he has the desire to be officially married. but then again there’s the whole heteronormative side of weddings and marriage that would also have an effect on him. it does feel like a soft launch though. terrifying and intense

#i can’t remember which one of them said the piece of paper thing. i think phil?#asks #anonymous #my partner and i have discussed getting married. like we’ve looked for rings together #but also. she’s get a government pension so its not beneficial to get married itd fuck up her income #and like I don’t even want a wedding. i just want a ring but do i? is it just all ive been told that i want?#it’s such a waste of money. my brother is in $40k debt for his wedding because he felt he needed one #so dumb. i think I just want to try on a wedding dress and have a nice ring but even then #anyways… she has already causally asked me to marry her so idk if im engaged . much to think about

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