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sureuncertainty · 1 year ago

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okay here are my thoughts on pj/hazel as a ship (from bottoms which i will probably be hyperfixating on for a bit sorry not sorry)

i guess I appreciate them as ship but i'm having a hard time getting quite on board with it just bc i'm really tired of the trope (idk if it's a trope but I see it frequently) of character A is a total asshole to character B consistently and then like... apologizes once (or not at all) and then B just forgives them immediately and it's fine. like idk i don't like ships where one character is mean to the other, it feels like there's an imbalance there. yeah pj apologized but i lowkey felt like hazel was too quick to forgive her and hazel deserves someone who doesn't make fun of her and is not mean to her 24/7 and who actually shows their appreciation of her and love for her and doesn't make her feel bad about herself, not just someone who enjoys kissing her yknow???

#like i ship them in theory i guess but only if pj like. gets way better about things #bc i love and relate to hazel way too much to ship her with anyone who does not SHOWER HER WITH THE LOVE AND APPRECIATION SHE DESERVES #as someone who has had many ex friends in the past who have been dicks to me and tried to laugh it off to the point where #i felt like i just deserved it... no honey you deserve better #anyway this is incoherent sorry we're also a little blurry but those are just my thoughts #anyway loved the movie tho my only real complaint about it was the total lack of trans people #win rambles #not putting this in the tag tho bc it's just my own thoughts for any of my followers who saw the movie and care to read #or if you didnt' and just wanna know bc this IS a thing with other ships too #jonmartin comes to mind #which i love those two bc they developed well but in season one i was horrified that they were the main ship #bc of what a shithead jon was to martin consistently #in that case tho he grew and changed which was good but it still didn't sit well with me for a bit tbh #i just don't like it it makes me think of people who have been shitty to me in the past and made me feel like thats what i deserve #and people shouldn't settle for people who don't make them feel loved and supported and appreciated yknow

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