#anyway!! it’s 4am and im oversharing but thank u for worrying 💌

[mimikyuno]

oh my gods??? that sounds so horrible. now ill be sure not to speak italian then?????

aah pls no worries!! i just have a lot of family related trauma (cartoonishly dysfunctional family) but also there’s this rly cool thing that happened to me when i moved to finland where i lost the ability to mask as an italian lmao

italy is a “high context” culture with a lot of gestures, expressions, subtext etc. and my autistic ass always felt like such an outsider and i have always had a lot of trouble socializing and communicating and i was bullied a lot as a kid. so moving to finland, a “low context” culture where people dont make small talk and go straight to the point and leave you alone has been so healing i forgot all my italian mannerisms… when i went back to italy the past few times every stranger we met thought i was a foreigner and was complimenting my italian LMAO 💀