#any 18+ server that treats kinks like a contest is a joke of an 18+ safe space

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CW heavy topic: juju i'm really upset because a 18+ server i'm in was talkin about kinks last night and they got really nasty about my pregnancy kink 😭 we were just talking about our fave things so i mentioned it (which i dont do otherwise cause i know not everyone is into it) and a few ppl legit called me a ped0 and said that having a pregnancy kink = sexualizing children. it made me feel awful because i've never seen it like that (and i don't obviously) but it really made me feel gross :(

UGH i’m so sorry to hear that, i’m so tired of people treating kinks and sexuality like some kind of contest on who has the “best taste” or who’s the most “fucked up” and things like that. if they think pregnancy kink is some kind of weird degenerate disgusting underground fetish, they’re clearly either new to the internet or too young to be talking about kinks to begin with because like… fertility statues and rituals and such have been around for literal centuries.

someone saying that pregnancy kink is p3d0philic is a take i’ve actually never seen or heard until now so hopefully that says enough in and of itself— what a Chronically Online take to make bc pregnancy kink has… literally nothing to do with the fetus or the child. nobody here is looking at ultrasound pics and going ZAMNNNNN it is 100% about the look and feel of a pregnant body, knowing that your spouse and you are starting a family and showing love for one another, a more innate and primal desire to “claim” your partner via breeding and such, and other ideas like that. people need to stop trying to scramble to find reasons why things they just don’t personally like are ~problematic~ and leave it at “it’s just not for me” instead of trying to justify it with nonsense. just say you don’t like preg and carry on instead of trying to make it the morality olympics. ugh.

please don’t think you’re gross or wrong for liking what you like, pregnancy is hardly a degenerate fetish like it’s literally just. bigger belly and boobs. like take everything else away and 95% of pregnancy kink is just thinking “man my spouse would be hot as fuck with a round tummy.” i fucking love the look of a pregnant body i think it is undoubtably the most erotic and romantic thing in the entire world and i’m glad i can provide a space here with my work for ppl who think similarly. you’re safe here and i’m sorry people put you down over a kink that is literally innocent and inherently extremely normal. pregnancy sex is normal and safe and there are no shortages of articles and help for married couples who still enjoy sex while pregnant, pregnant bodies are not disgusting or “loose” or obscene, ppl need to grow up when it comes to things they don’t like smh