#anti logan Huntsburger

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It's so frustrating how people want to blame everything on Rory. Everything that went wrong in her relationships people want to fully blame on Rory.

I have literally been seeing people say things like "When Rory said no to Logan I was done with her after that" or when Dean was yelling at Rory in front of Paris saying "She deserved it" and I saw someone blaming Rory for everything that went wrong in her relationship with Dean and how "horrible" she treated him. I've even seen a lot of people say "I hate Rory for saying no to Jess" or will say "Rory actually cheated on Logan and she hurt Jess"

First of all Rory is not obligated to say yes to Logan if she wasn't ready to get married that is perfectly okay and Understandable. She also wasn't obligated to be with Jess I love that boy but he really hurt her and she had every right to say no to to wanting to run away with him. They both needed time to grow and that absolutely was not the right time.

Dean had no right to yell at Rory. He wouldn't even let her explain herself, Dean was always yelling at Rory and never let her explain herself anytime. He completely ignored her wanting space and to have a night to herself and the reason she lied was clearly because she was terrified to make him mad because she was so used to him blowing up on her all the time. That was her literally walking on egg shells around him not because she was trying to cheat on him. I don't care what Rory did his actions were not okay. Y'all Rory anti's let your hatred of her cloud your judgement.

People will say how terrible Rory treated Dean because "she was stringing him along and cheated on him with Jess" if anything she tried to force herself not to have feelings for Jess and when she kissed him it was an impulse she didn't mean to do it have you never been young before and been in a relationship and got feelings for someone else? Like that's totally a normal teenager thing that most teenagers experience. She didn't know how to get out of her first relationship which is so very real for a lot of people, and not to mention how much Lorelai loved Dean. Rory never had any intentions of cheating on Dean but his actions pushed her away with being possessive and explosive all the time!

Don't even get me started on the people that try to say Rory cheated on Logan please he literally slept with an entire bridal party and invalidated her feelings and gaslit her over the whole thing I don't want to hear a word about how she kissed Jess when Logan hooked up with a bunch of girls behind Rory's back and completely disregard how she felt! Rory didn't mean to hurt Jess either she cares so much for him but she also still has feelings for Logan and at least she felt bad about it, Logan didn't even feel bad about what he did or care that he hurt her!

It feels like people put Rory into this box and when she doesn't act in a way that they want her too they get mad and instantly hate her like she's not aloud to make mistakes otherwise she's horrible but if she didn't make mistakes and did everything perfectly people would say she was boring and unrealistic. I don't get it yes Rory made mistakes like all of the characters but she does not deserve the hate she gets from the fandom and I stand by that! I'm so over to Rory hate!

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This is just the kind of stuff I despise! When people decide to hate on Rory based on what they would have done differently with their favorite Rory love interest!! This made me so mad! She's not smart because she wasn't ready to get married at 22?!?! How about she's never seen her mother in a marriage at this point other than towards her dad and she JUST saw how that ended. So maybe she had some hesitancy there because she wanted to make sure it was truly RIGHT before getting married?! Maybe she wanted to have more life experiences before getting married?! And I don't know have you seen the Huntsberger family and the way that they treat Rory?! They never wanted her to be in their family anyways and that would make her always tied to them! Do you ever think that maybe she wasn't ready to get married because the year prior he slept with an entire bridal party and she was still hesitant to trust him all the way and how he didn't even allow her to be upset about it he just invalidated her so she just pushed it down after he almost died?! Rory is smart she got into three different IVY LEAGUE schools!! She worked her butt off to get their! Just because someone isn't ready to get married at 22 doesn't mean she isn't smart! They weren't even living together most of the time the last part of their relationship they were long distance so they really didn't live together all that long before they were long distance if you think about it. Also did you not see how Logan was acting after he blew away his daddy's company?! Coming home late and drunk and treating her like crap not communicating with her and instead doing other immature things and have her fix his battles for him?! Logan TOLD her he would factor her in to whatever she wanted to do just PRIOR to this big surprise proposal then all of a sudden he is like what's the point to their relationship?! They never even talked about if they wanted to get married! So does that mean that you think other people who don't accept a proposal at 22 because they aren't ready to get married are stupid too?! 22 is super young, and if she wasn't ready to get married that is that IS okay!! I'm so tired of this Rory hate! They find so many things to hate her for and it's so dumb, and it makes me so upset how harshly they treat her! 😠

can people stop hating on rory? just because she & logan lived together (also let’s remember that half the time he was in london anyway, so it’s not really “living” together, and half of their relationship she even lived in her grandparents pool’s house / her dorms when they just started dating / even came back to paris’s place for a while) doesn’t mean she was ready to get married at 22. “the more i watched this show i realize rory was hardworking & not smart at all” hm sorry idk how that works but i assume that to get into 3 ivy leagues schools you got to be smart, right? she got into harvard! she got into yale! she got into princeton! rory gilmore is smart. “she rejected the love of her life just so she could travel a little” well, she was 22, she is allowed to say no. god forbid’s rory gilmore has opinions of her own, right?

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Why is it people like to say things like Jess was good before and after he dated Rory, but not during in a demeaning sort of way as if Logan and Dean weren't also terrible boyfriends?! There is a long list of things that Dean and Logan did wrong in their relationships with Rory too, all of the relationships where very flawed.

No Jess didn't handle things right in his relationship toward the end, but he didn't handle anything in his life right at the time. He hit rock bottom he was used to handling difficult things on his own, and it all blew up in his face, by the end he figured she wouldn't want him anymore and would want him to leave because he was used to everyone wanting him gone, he probably had a gut feeling it was going to be over. Yes he should have told her he was leaving, but I also understand why he had to leave at the time. Also he wasn't as bad of a boyfriend as people make him out to be either. I've heard some things insinuating how bad of a boyfriend he was like...

"He didn't want to go to the town things with her after they got together he told her he only went because that was when he was trying to get her but after he got her he felt he didn't need to try anymore. He only went to the carnival with her because he was jealous of Dean."

People wildly misinterpret this, he did still do things with her in the same scene they came to a compromise and he said they would meet up after, he just didn't like going specifically to the town things because 1. He was very ostrosized by the town. 2. He had social anxiety 3. He also was more the type that gives her the space to do what she wants and encourages her to do so even if he doesn't quite enjoy those things himself and would come to a compromise. Also Luke hated going to the stupid town things too. He even told Lorelai not to get used to him going to the town things with her, they were the same in that way. That doesn't mean that he stopped trying or that he didn't want to spend time with her that just mean't he didn't like going to the town things. Also yes he did go to the carnival because Dean was there but the way they handled their jealousy, Jess was night and day better.

"He ignored her the whole relationship after he got what he wanted."

He did not ignore her the whole relationship, yes he had communication problems, and he didn't call a few times when he said he was going too, but he did get better and started arranging his schedule to spend time with her, and planning dates. They talked about going on dates, and how when Jess wasn't working or at school he spent his time with Rory on the weekends, and they had movie nights all the time. Context shows that he did NOT ignore her the whole relationship, and that he did make lots of time for her they just didn't show us those things.

"He treated her like shit."

In what ways? Yes he made some mistakes, and handled everything wrong at the end of their relationship but again he was handling everything wrong in his life at that time after he found out he wasn't going to graduate. That doesn't mean he treated her like shit, he just didn't know how to communicate properly with anyone. No he didn't treat her as good as he could have but that was his first real relationship and he was still learning. His relationship with Shane was more of a fling, but Rory was more his first serious relationship.

"He tried to assault her, then got mad at her for it."

Okay this scene was obviously bad, and the worst of Jess, but this scene is also wildly misconstrued. He was obviously in a dissociative state the whole night, and while it wasn't okay, I don't think he was actually hearing her in that moment, and as soon as she got up he didn't push her anymore. He reached for the belt and then she got up. A lot of shows used to use scenarios like that during that time as a means for conflict, and drama similarly Nathan Scott from One Tree Hill did the same exact thing with Haley and people look over it. While I love Nathan too, people don't even talk about what he did, yet want to hold it over Jess' head forever... And yes he did lash out at her but he wasn't mad about that he was mad at himself but in her perspective it may have come off like he was mad at her because he didn't communicate with her, but he was mad about everything else not that she wouldn't sleep with him.

"He just left her without a word."

Yes he did and he absolutely should have told her, but he also had very valid reasons for leaving. That also ties into his poor communication skills that he struggled with in a general sense. Logan also went a while without talking to her basically ghosted her to hook up with a bunch of girls before making any efforts to seeing if he was still in a relationship with Rory or not, and also broke her heart at her college graduation with an ultimatum.

Overall though he was not as bad of a boyfriend as people like to paint him out to be, he made a few big mistakes, but he also learned from them and grew, I'm so tired of people insinuating because Jess was a "terrible" boyfriend as a teen he would still be a terrible one in the future when he is the only one who has shown growth and meanwhile Logan is still being awful, at least Jess had growth! Anyways I'm just ranting sorry for my long rant.

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I literally cannot take people seriously who say Jess was yelling at Rory when he asked her why she dropped out of yale and had no right to do that while at the same time ignoring just moments later how Logan was actually yelling at her! 🙄 Jess was not yelling at her he was speaking passionately and out of a place of concern not anger or aggression unlike Logan who was yelling out of anger and aggression in front of everyone at that! He was yelling at her so bad his veins were literally popping out of his neck, and y'all want to complain about Jess supposedly yelling at her! He was deeply concerned with the state she was in, everyone around her was concerned except Logan because he is too self absorbed to be able to see how miserable she was! Her mother, Luke, Paris, and even her grandparents were also concerned about the state she was in except Logan, but Jess was the only one who could get through to her because he understands her! I think that really shows how well Logan does not understand her at all when he was the only one who didn't seem to care about her emotional state! Not only that, but Jess went through a similar thing with getting discouraged and dropping out of highschool and hitting rock bottom! He was miserable just like she was and he could see it all over her! They didn't just read books, they read each other like a book too! Even Amy herself said the relationship she setup for them is that they just "get" each other! They just had that connection, and it was also her knowing what state he was in and how he made something of himself like she always knew he could, and if he could do it so could she! I'm so tired of people trying to discredit Jess' talk with Rory about dropping out of yale, and trying to make it something it's not!

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Oh my goodness I'm so tired of people trying to say Jess was manipulative! How are people really trying to say that Jess was manipulative when there is Logan! Logan was literally the definition of manipulative! How is it that some Rogan stans are quick to call Jess manipulative, but refuse to acknowledge how manipulative Logan is?! Logan is constantly gaslighting her, and invalidating her feelings! Logan is the definition of being manipulative! Everything always had to be Logan's way, he was never in the wrong, it couldn't possibly be Logan's fault! Nothing was ever Logan's fault! 🙄 Out of all Rory's boyfriends Jess was the least manipulative, and I'm not saying that to try to be biased that's just based on the show! Dean manipulated Rory to get her in bed, and Logan manipulated her constantly! Can anyone please tell me an incident where Jess was being manipulative?! Where are these people getting this from, seriously Logan was always manipulative it was part of his personality!