#and youre also boiling womanhood down to only being about vaginas too saying shit like that which is sexist as fuck | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

healingheartdogs · 1 year ago

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Men can have vaginas. Women can have penises. Being a lesbian is not about "only liking pussy". Being gay is not about "only liking dick". Those are transphobic and intersex exclusive statements.

The "sex" in "sexuality" is not referring to assigned sex at birth or the most common presentations of assigned sex genitalia. It refers to sexual attraction. Queer sexual attraction is gender and/or shared queer experience based. Gender is not the same as assigned sex at birth or genitalia. If your personal sexual attraction is based on assigned sex at birth and specific genitalia and you use a queer sexuality label you are appropriating that label and participating not only in transphobia and intersex exclusion from queer communities but also in homophobia.

Stop appropriating queer sexualities and then trying to kick out people who actually belong under that label because you want to make a little exclusion based bigot club for yourselves.

#lgbtq #lgbtqia #rant #not dog related #ndr #im so sick of seeing comments on trans people's posts being like #'well id never date a trans woman because i only like pussy'#okay? you dont know what trans womens' genitals look like to begin with stop assuming they're all the same and all disgusting to you #and dont call yourself a lesbian then because lesbians have queer attraction to non-men not just attraction only to vaginas #also way to boil being a lesbian down to being only about wanting to have sex with certain genitals #like inherent sexualization of queerness is straight out of the homophobe playbook dude #and youre also boiling womanhood down to only being about vaginas too saying shit like that which is sexist as fuck #you literally cant be transphobic like that without also being sexist and homophobic #the same applies for the opposite scenario with gay people and trans men #and with nonbinary people who fall under either sexuality #if youre not actually queer stop appropriating queer labels to justify and enact transphobia and intersex hate

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