#and we're all (hopefully) trying to destroy the rhetoric that bisexuals are confused or attention seeking or that it's just a phase on
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the tumblr ~attitude~ toward ace people makes me deep sigh
#deep fuckin sigh#are some people wildly cringey? of course but so are a solid 80% of the crusty sex jokes yall make lmao#their identity is hurting a lot less people than for example your embittered ass bitching about how they are somehow personally at fault for#every goddamn issue in the lgbtqiA+ community#'but theyre nothing but straight hurgr burghle im a crusty bitter walnut' lmao fuck off people have shoved sources and examples of ways that#ace people have been discriminated against in your face for fuckin ages and you don't care cause you would rather continue to sit in your#dusty corner and rail against people who don't fit your specific definition of unstraight than do something more productive#like mind your own fuckin business and maybe not damage people who are trying to figure out who they are#also maybe take your own advice to 'go outside ffs' and try to find a real life lgbt+ community that excludes ace people cause i've never#seen one in my life so like.....perhaps consider that you're the one with your head up your ass about identities#anyway i know tumblr isnt a hivemind but like yall know what i mean with the phrase tumblr attitude#maybe i just need to unfollow some blogs#it just irritates the fuck out of me because its so fucking damaging for people who are just figuring themselves out to be bombarded with#this shit like 'aces are just straight snowflakes' or 'you're not ace you've got internalized homophobia'#want to know how you cram people further into their shells and prevent them from working through issues like internalized homophobia?#by yelling that shit at them#sure maybe for some people an ace identity is a phase for them but thats happened with a whole lot of other people and identities too#and we're all (hopefully) trying to destroy the rhetoric that bisexuals are confused or attention seeking or that it's just a phase on#the way to being gay EVEN THOUGH it is a phase for SOME people who later find themselves to be gay or another orientation#so why are we not open to having that room with asexuality while acknowledging that it is most certainly not a phase for many people?#my point if it wasnt clear is that bisexuality is not invalidated just because some people moved on to a different label and neither should#asexuality be#in conclusion: get off peoples asses about shit that does not at all concern you and if as OFTEN happens on the internet you happen to#disagree remember you are the sole individual responsible for what you're looking at and also for what you say and consider using that#power of communication to Not Be A Colossal Dick thanks#ace discourse#me#in other news apparently ive hopped on the train of writing novels in the tags thanks for listening folks#im supposed to be doing a presentation for astronomy thats due in about 10 hours yikes
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