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cybergothvox · 3 days ago

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At the end of the day, is kin just someone who identifies as their kintype or not? Is it anyone who actually identifies as their kintype, or do they have to perform all these 'correct' behaviours and social dances to prove that you kin- pardon, that you are kin- correctly?

#beep boop #sorry i got fucking salty on this last one bc its fucking annoying people reblogging a version of that post with dumb misinformation about #how introjects work and whoes entire argument is 'well kin as a verb doesnt work for literally everyone therefore you should stop using it #person who it works for'#when my partner and i both already took down why thats a bad argument but no one bothers to check the fucking notes #and its most useful for fictionkin anyways and then a bunch of dragons and canines are saying well i dont have a use for it #so therefore its bad!#on his post about how HE PERSONALLY USES IT and people turning into like hes commenting that eveyrbody and their dog should use it #LEABVE HIM ALONE #LEAVE VALENTINO ALONE #sorry. i dont mind discussion but it pisses me off when shit we already explained is being ignored #And saying you wouldnt invalidate someone for using it while coming onto someones post about how they personally use it #and admonishing them for doing that #hm.#and this tying back to my very origional post on the topic #which was about how coming at people for how they talk makes the community hostile #regarudless of if you like it or not #can you . consider. minding your bees neez?#and everybody all up about the harm kff do meanwhile using kin as a verb doesnt make you kff and you can spread correct info while still #verbing it #and second of all i have seen new questioning otherkin literally harassed and driven out of wanting to every interact with the kin communit #because of the hostility twoards people who use 'incorrect' lanauge #WHIHC WAS WHAT I WAS ORIGIONALLY TALKING ABOUT #BUT NO ONE WANTS TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT DO THEY?#IS DOING DAMADGE TO HE KINMUNNITY SUDDENLY NOT IMPORTANT NOW #IF YOU DONT GET TO GO AROUND AND ENFORCE SOME RULES?#kin discourse #kin as a verb #anyways if you encourage people to be alowed to police behaviour in this way #which is what you are doing if youre saying no one should be allowed to do it which is what the argument people are making is

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