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MEN GOLDEN BREAST (PART SIX)

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MEN GOLDEN BREAST (PART SIX)

……………..CONTINUATION OF PART FIVE.

#THIS IS MY TRUE STORY,,,,

Admin, it is at this point when i came to realize some of these shemales are just men who failed to get rid of their breast and that’s why they have a fully functional and normal dick but also have breasts as well.

I was not only after a kiss but also determined to have my day and make love to her so as to make sure that our love journey have kicked off.

I did not struggle much and after some deep kissing; she was lost in happiness as i caressed her all the sensitive body parts: where finally I managed to land my hands in her pant and begin romancing her pussy.

She was wet already and decided not to waste any valuable time as she was ready to eat. I removed her blouse that she had and then proceeded to the skirt and she was now left with her under pants only.

For me, i had only my sport short pant but no underwear and I had a baggy sport vest. I removed her underwear as i also removed my short sport pant but did not remove my top baggy sport vest.

I again started caressing her while kissing her deep, till we were all in the mood of sex, and i finally slided my dick inside her pussy.

She was sweet as i pushed my dick inside slowly while she was moaning. She was not virgin but i didn’t care as my only wish was to have her. I had finally done it.

She was now mine after a few minutes of pumping we both released and cum at same time, it was a good moment. She then requested to go as she would be late. I showed her way to bathroom for shower and then prepare herself to leave.

She bid goodbye to the rest and i escorted her to get a matatu back to her home… We lived in different towns.

That was our beginning of our long-term relationship that proceeded well as we met several times after that, and finally got married in 2010. After several years later of our relationship.

To me, it was love at first sight and finally I had got the one who had true love for me and never bothered about my condition even after discovering my little secret, she just ignored and concentrated on the relationship.

She however one time decided to ask me why one of my breasts is bigger than the other, and i was just honest, explained to her the situation how it happened, and that it is a rare situation in men but he should not worry as it will soon come to an end since i was working on it to get rid of it.

I know there are men who are facing this condition just like me though in different scenarios..

When i got married to her, i would still find some time alone while she was not home to crush my tit as she had train in early childhood education and she worked as nursery teacher. At this point of time, the remaining breast had decreased too much in size.

In 2011, i got a job in the gulf countries, this is after my services as an accounts assistant were terminated and had been jobless for almost 1year.

The opportunity came to me as new door being opened for me. My financial status was completely grounded.

There were several things to do before traveling and all needed money, but because God was opening the new chapter for me, i managed to overcome every challenge with the help my family and few good friends who stood by me during my difficult times.

When traveling to the gulf countries, usually there is a medical test that the travel agency will need you to perform to ascertain your health status before proceeding with the Visa process.

I didn’t have any problem with my health as i knew I’m perfectly ok. But my only worry was my left breast, though it had reduced in size, it was still not looking normal for a man and i couldn’t take off my shirt In front of other people.

I did not discourage myself, i paid for the medical test. I was then scheduled for the test in one hospital within our city which i attended.

At the hospital,l i met the representative of our agent who had a list of those who were attending the medical.

When all people arrived we were directed to a waiting room where we were supposed to wait and only go in the testing room when your name is called.

One by one, we were called in. My turn also came to go in. The first test was a blood test. They took my blood sample for testing, then i was given two small bottles to bring my urine and stool for sampling.

I was then told to proceed to another room for chest x-ray where i was told to take off my shirt and was given an apron to wear and cover my chest.

After the x-ray we were to stay and wait for our medical results before going home.

When the test results were out after about 2hrs later, we were again called one by one to get our results from the Dr. in charge.

All my results were perfect except for the x-ray which revealed i had a swollen mass on my left side breast.

The Dr. inquired from me about the condition and i explained to him. He then made a final report that I was fit to travel and also put the remarks of my breast mass on the left side but because it was not a disease, this could not make someone not to go to work. I was cleared.

I went home a happy man and explained to my wife about the whole issue and also told her that now i was fit to travel.

She was excited by the whole issue but also sad on the other side as she have to wait for 2yrs before we can meet again after I travel.

Working in the gulf is another challenge for couples especially for young couples, who are still enjoying their new marriage time.

But i had no option since i had try all means to secure a job locally but was not lucky for the past 1year.

Two weeks later after my medical test, i received a call from my agent that my Visa was ready and have to clear my balance for the agency fees/ Visa Commission to get my ticket as soon as possible.

I contacted my Dad who was my main helper on the issue and helped me raise the required amount. After 3 days, i paid the full amount.

3 days later my flight ticket was ready and was informed that i can download from my email both ticket and Visa and had 3 days to prepare and travel to Nairobi Jomo Kenyatta International Airport where we were to board our flight to Dubai.

On my preparation, i did not forget my crushing sticks. I carried them along with me so that i would not stop crushing till i completely get rid of the breast.

When traveling, i was in the company of other 7 guys so we were 8 people in total.

When we landed in Dubai, it was almost 24.00hrs midnight and someone was there to pick us from the airport to our destined accommodation.

After about an hour drive, we were at the company accommodation where we were received by the management in charge and shown to our rooms.

One single room accommodated six people with 3 double deckers and since it was midnight we went straight to bed and sleep.

We were waken up at around 6am to go for our tea as breakfast hours were to close by 7am. After breakfast we were called to the accommodation management Office where we were allocated our new company employment numbers that we should use for any company communication and queries.

We were also given food coupons which we will use to get food from the company mess for breakfast, lunch and dinner for full month.

The food coupon is given for monthly basis and without a coupon you can’t get food. We were then allowed to go back to our rooms and rest.

In the evening we were called again and informed that our medical test is scheduled for the next day so we have to be ready and report to the office by 7am…the next day.

I was again worried of my condition and hoped that it will not be a barrier for me to take my new job.

Same test like which we did in Kenya was conducted on us all, but we were not to wait for our results as they are directly sent to your employer or sponsor of the test.

However, my test turned out to be fine and the next day we were scheduled for our induction of the company in head office of the company.

We were therefore told to get ready the next day by 7am to go to head office for induction.

The next morning after breakfast, we headed to the head office and we were taken to a boardroom where the induction was to be conducted.

The induction was in English. So it was not an issue to me where we were given a briefing on few things about the company, management, where to get help and our work related issues.

We were also given a general test on English where we were to answer 50 general questions for 15 minutes and also given a title about something to write a composition.

I received a tilted to write about my pet. To me, it was not a big deal and i scored excellent marks.

After that induction, the next to follow was to be deployed to our work area where we were supposed to undergo another training of 3 days before we can fully begin our duties.

The job was not a well-paying but because we Kenyans lack good job opportunities back home, we are left with no options.

Sometimes i used to ask myself if I’m the same accountant who was now exposed to manual work which best qualified for a standard 8 pupil or a form 4 drop-out; but alaas! There i was with all my qualifications but have to bend and do it.

Sometimes i would be supervised by a person especially the Asians who even can’t construct a good sentence in English grammar and i would just look at him, without any comment because he is my senior by position. i just accept the situation and move on.

During my stay in the gulf, i tried several places to secure a good job of my status but was not lucky to get one even after attending several open interviews and online applications.

During my 2 years of stay in the gulf, i used to continue with my crushing since i could get enough time to do the exercise.

I also joined a gym session so as to build my muscles and strong chest and try to hide the breast under the muscles, which did work properly for me to bring my chest in good shape.

Gradually the breast reduced at a great speed such that by the end of the 2years, my chest was completely okay and well built.

This time, i could stand on a mirror and look at myself and see a man In front of me standing with a well-built muscle chest. I was happy for myself as my efforts had finally bear the fruits i was longing to see.

After the end of my 2 years contract, i terminated my contract and decided to go back home and look for a better opportunity.

Reaching home, my wife could notice the challenges in me and she was so happy to see a well-built man in her arms; now without any defect on his body but just a handsome man.

Though my struggle was tough and challenging i finally managed to yield what I wanted.

My advice to all parents, especially the father, watch your boys as they turn to adolescence so that if you notice him with such condition and he have no Idea what to do please guide him, help him get rid of the tits at the earliest stages possible. For the boys who don’t get this problem of Gynecomastia, they have nothing to worry as they are fine.

For the single mothers in this platform you can also observe your boys as they grow up to adolescence stage and see if they get this condition.

You can as well tell him to get rid of them by crushing the tits at the earliest stages possible to avoid embarrassment in future.

It will be disturbing to both you and your child being in such condition where he will have to live with it for the rest of his life and would be man with breasts.

Some boys get help from friends or older relatives who help to show them how they can wipe out the tits at an earlier stage when they begin to grow on their chest..

From this experience i came to understand why we have shemales, as men can also grow breast just like women yet they have a fully functioning penis.

Those who have money, can undergo a surgery and have the breast tissues removed. But if your family can’t afford it, you will have to go it the hard way or live with the embarrassment all your life.

Recently, i saw an interview by a certain blog on the same condition for a boy whose mother was appealing for financial help to have her boy undergo a surgery to get rid of the problem so that he can pursue his dreams of becoming an international footballer.

Thank you for reading my life story. I hope it will help someone else with same condition or escape the condition in future.

That’s My Side of The Story. #THE END

#THIS IS MY TRUE STORY,,,,

#MEN GOLDEN BREAST (PART SIX)

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How to Make Your Child Feel Absolutely Loved: 75 Positive Words for Kids

Inside: Get a free printable list of the most powerful positive words for kids, plus the pitfalls to avoid when it comes to positive things to say to your child.

After I tuck my kids into bed every night, I collapse on the couch, close my eyes, and sigh.

Unfortunately, with four kids, I get about 2.7 seconds of peace before one of them asks for another drink of water, needs an extra hug, or remembers a month-long school project that’s due tomorrow.

But after a few turns on the bedtime merry-go-round, I can finally sink back into the couch.

That’s when the replay of our day starts in my head. It’s like a 10x sped-up video, but every time my mouth opens to say something to my kids, the video slows down so I can hear myself.

“Put your shoes away.” “Your room is a mess!” “Stop bugging your sister.” “You haven’t brushed your teeth yet?”

My own personal highlight reel of nagging and negativity, directed at the people I love most in the world.

The weight of my words crushes my chest, and my mind scrambles to remember: when did I say something loving, something sweet, anything positive?

Was I so focused on treading water in a neverending sea of parental to-dos – getting snacks, folding laundry, mediating sibling squabbles – that I forgot to tell my children how much I love them?

My kids deserve better. They deserve to hear every single day that no matter what road bumps we hit, I feel lucky to be on this lifelong road trip with them.

Bonus: As a bonus for joining my weekly newsletter, download a free cheat sheet of the 75 most powerful positive words for kids, plus three important pitfalls to avoid when it comes to positive things to say to your child.

But Here’s the Problem

It’s heartbreaking to think that your child’s last thought after you tuck them in at night and before they fall asleep may be: Is Mommy mad at me? Did I do something wrong? Does Daddy still love me?

What’s more, lack of connection with your child also leads to more unnecessary power struggles and less cooperation from your child when you ask them to clean their toys up, to help empty the dishwasher, or to stop chewing their food like a cow with a megaphone.

But as parents in today’s world, we have a lot on our plates. Because of that, it’s easy to get so wrapped up in the daily struggles of parenting that you forget to stop and tell your child how much you love them.

When you have too much to do and too little time to do it, you’re in survival mode not nurturing mode. And those positive sayings for kids like “You’re important to me” and “I love you to the moon and back” that our children crave from us? They go unsaid.

How Important Is It to Share Positive Words for Kids?

Recently, I came across this quote from a doctor and author who specializes in childhood development and trauma:

“Love felt by the parent does not automatically translate into love experienced by the child.” – Gabor Maté

In other words, those positive messages for kids don’t work when you just think them to yourself after your kids are tucked into bed. You need to actually say them out loud.

I realized it was time for a change.

Because the research is crystal clear that when kids feel warmth and affection from their parents, that has a life-long positive impact on the child.

Not only do kids with affectionate parents do better in school and develop a healthy self-esteem, they also end up emotionally happier and less anxious as adults. Parental warmth even has an impact on your child’s physical health.

And so the important question is: When you’re busy and overwhelmed and just impaled your left foot on a stray LEGO, how can you remember to say out loud all the positive things you should say to your child to remind them of your unconditional love?

Related: How to Connect With Your Child: The Magic of the 5:1 Ratio Printable

Here’s a Quick Fix for Every Busy Parent

This is easy to forget in the hustle and bustle of parenting life, so I decided to set up a visual cue. Something to serve as a gentle reminder for me to switch out of survival mode a few times a day and fill my children’s tank with unconditional love.

Because when you’re trying to stick to a habit, research shows that a visual cue can remind you of your intention when you’re most likely to forget it. For example:

If you set a goal to eat healthier, you could leave a neon bright Post-It Note on your fridge to remind yourself that “Snack = veggies only.” Or if you wanted to stick to an exercise routine every morning, you could set your workout clothes on your nightstand the night before.

For my visual cue, I made a nice printable list of all the positive things to say to your child to show them you love them. I can stick this list of positive words for kids on my fridge, tape it to my bathroom mirror, or leave it on the driver’s seat of my car as a reminder every time we get in the car to go somewhere.

Below, you can download this free printable list of positive messages for kids as a visual cue for yourself.

Related: 7 Best Family Bonding Games That Will Help You Reconnect Quickly

75 Most Powerful Positive Sayings for Kids

Download your free printable list of the most powerful positive words for kids here right now. Then every time you see your printable list, say one of these positive messages for kids to make your child feel absolutely loved.

Don’t forget to download the printable so you also get the list of three important pitfalls to avoid when it comes to delivering these positive sayings for kids!

A quick caveat: You won’t find phrases like “You’re so smart” to praise your child’s abilities on this list because that kind of praise can undermine your child’s motivation and even foster narcissism in your child. To learn more, check out Here’s the Secret Phrase to Turn Your Kid Into an Amazing Student. (Hint: It’s not “You’re so smart.”)

You are important to me. I love spending time with you. You make me smile. I love you no matter what. (This one is made even more special if you first read the beautiful children’s book No Matter What together!) I feel so lucky to be your mom/dad. I’m proud of the person you are. I love you from your toes to your nose to where your hair grows! (For extra giggles, touch your child’s toes when you say “toes,” their nose when you say “nose,” and the top of their head when you say the last line!) You are beautiful to me, inside and out. I thought of you today when… (Finish with a specific time during the day that you thought of your child.) I like you. (Even if you say “I love you” regularly, does your child know you like them too?) Sometimes if I’m feeling sad, just thinking of you makes me feel better. You can always talk to me, even if it’s about something that makes you nervous or scared or sad. I love to watch you… (Then give an activity your child enjoys, like play soccer, get wrapped up in reading a book, make art, play your clarinet, and so on.) You make my heart feel full. I appreciate when you… (Finish with a specific example of something your child does that’s helpful or kind.) You’re one of a kind. I care about you more than you can imagine. I’m grateful that you’re in my life. I love your insides and your outsides! I’m here for you, no matter what happens. I’d love to hear what you think about… (Then ask your child’s opinion on something that matters, like what to have for dinner, what to do on the weekend, where to go on your next family vacation, and so on.) My world is better with you in it. I noticed you working hard on… (Finish with a specific example when you noticed your child pushing themselves to learn or grow or finish something.) I believe in you. I saw when you… (Then give a specific example of your child doing something helpful or kind.)

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I love hearing your ideas. You make a difference in my life. I love seeing the world through your eyes. Seeing you happy makes me happy. You matter to me. I hope you have an awesome day today. Anytime you need help, I’m here for you. I love you just the way you are. You are a precious treasure to me. I respect you and your opinions. We’re a team, you and me. I love being your mom/dad. Sometimes I look at you and think back to when you were younger, and… (Finish with a specific memory of when your child was younger.) There’s only one you in the world. I love your laugh/smile. Nothing would ever make me stop loving you. It’s you I like. Every part of you. (Perfect for fans of Mister Rogers!) You’re an important part of this family. It’s exciting to watch you grow up. I’m so grateful you’re my daughter/son. You can always come to me, no matter what. I love you more than… (Then give a specific example like more than all the stars in the sky, more than all the fish in the sea, more than cupcakes love sprinkles, and so on – feel free to come up with silly examples too!) I will always be there for you. Being your parent is my favorite part of life. You are special to me. Thank you so much for doing… (Finish with a specific example of an action your child took.) You make life fun. I love being around you, no matter what we’re doing. You are my favorite 5-year-old. I love you to the moon and back. (Or you can take this one step further by adding on, like “I love you to the moon, past the end of our solar system, to the next galaxy over and to every other galaxy in the universe, to the alien planet no one knows about yet, and all the way back home.”) I’m a fan of you. (This one is inspired by our favorite pick for family movie night, We Bought a Zoo.) I love when we learn something new together. I’m never too busy for you. You light up my day. That was a kind decision when you… (Then give a specific example of something your child did that was kind.) I have fun when I’m with you. I love you more than French fries. (Or insert your favorite food like pizza or cupcakes.) Seeing you smile makes me smile. You’ll never get in trouble for talking to me about something that’s bothering you. I feel blessed to have you in my life. You inspire me to be a better person. Even if I’m feeling frustrated about something, I still love you. I love the way your mind works. You make me happy, just by being you. I wouldn’t trade you for a million gabazillion dollars. I love you when… or… (Finish with two very different examples, like “I love you when you feel brave or scared” or “I love you when you’re serious or silly.” The inspiration for this one came from the sweet children’s book called The I Love You Book.) I miss you when we’re apart. (Or you can go for the over-the-top version, “I miss you when I blink,” which is also the name of a funny memoir from a mom about trying to do it all). You can always tell me the truth, even if you’re scared to, and I will still love you. I wish I didn’t have to go to work so we could stay home together and play all day! I will love you always and forever.

Related: 150 Conversation Starters for Kids That Will Make You Closer Than Ever Printable

But First, Beware of This Gotcha

Visual cues have one weakness. After a while, they become wallpaper.

In other words, after you get used to seeing the cue in your environment, the cue stops reminding you. And this list of positive words for kids is not immune to this phenomenon.

But there’s a simple fix: When the cue stops catching your eye, just move it to a different spot.

Here are a few different places you can put this free printable list of positive sayings for kids. When the list starts blending into the background, move it to a new place from this list.

The fridge A door The bathroom mirror The dinner table The driver’s seat of your vehicle As a bookmark for whatever book you’re currently reading – your own personal reading material or a read-aloud chapter book you’re using at bedtime with your child On your nightstand Inside your kitchen pantry Laid inside a drawer you open frequently, like in your dresser or bathroom vanity On the kitchen counter – for example, next to your coffee maker

Plus, here’s a bonus idea I love for an extra reminder: Change your password to one of these positive sayings for kids every few days. Then whenever you enter your password, it will be a reminder to say those positive words out loud to your child.

For example, you could change your password to URImportant2Me! to represent the phrase you are important to me.

The Best Times to Use These Positive Words for Kids

Let’s say you’ve downloaded your free printable list of positive words for kids, and you hung it in a prominent spot in your home as a visual cue. Awesome!

But…now what? These are all beautifully positive things to say to your child, but when do you say them?

Here are a few ideas for how to work these positive messages for kids into your days:

Surprise your child by saying their name out of the blue, then saying a phrase – bonus points if you bend down and get on their eye level first Pick a different phrase to say at bedtime every night while tucking your child in – say it with a smile or whisper it while you give a big bear hug If you’ve had a moment of disconnection like a disagreement or power struggle, deliver one of these phrases with a hug, back rub, or pat on the shoulder Write a phrase down and leave it for your child to find – a slip of paper in your child’s school lunchbox, a Post-It note on the bathroom mirror, a notecard on their pillow, and so on When you notice your child seems sad or upset, say one of these phrases If you notice your child struggling with something like homework or learning something new, encourage them with one of these positive sayings for kids

Related: 10 Children’s Books That Will Make Your Kids Feel Absolutely Loved

Download Your Free Cheat Sheet: 75 Positive Words for Kids

Use this cheat sheet of positive things to say to your child to help you remember to show your unconditional love for your child – even when life is busy.

Download the free cheat sheet. Join my weekly-ish newsletter and as a bonus, you’ll get the printable! Just click here to download and subscribe. Print. Any paper will do the trick, but card stock would be ideal. Hang your cheat sheet somewhere handy like the fridge. See the But First, Beware of This Gotcha section earlier in this post for ideas on how to keep the reminder fresh and effective. Say a phrase to your child. A couple ideas for how to use the cheat sheet: You could set yourself a personal goal of a certain number of positive things to say to your child every day, or you could mark off each phrase as you use it and try to get through the whole list within a certain period of time.

Here’s a sneak peek of your printable cheat sheet:

Download my FREE cheat sheet as a bonus for joining my newsletter: 16 Miracle Phrases to Help You Reconnect With Your Child Your Turn

What are your favorite positive words for kids? Share in a comment below!

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MEN GOLDEN BREAST (PART SIX)

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MEN GOLDEN BREAST (PART SIX)