#and then when i told them to stay in their lane bc theyre bi they said they might actually be a lesbian
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this may be a controversial opinion but if you're still exploring your identity, some labels should be put on hold until your understanding of yourself is a little more concrete
#butch and masc aren't interchangeable and the difference does matter#butch is a lifestyle. its not just a way that you perceive the world its also how the world perceives YOU#and idk if butch is lesbian specific but it's definitely weird to call yourself butch when your partner is either a cis man OR not out yet#if you've got a bf who MAYBE is a little curious about his gender lbr you're probably not a lesbian so dont pull 'i MIGHT be a lesbian!!1!'#and most importantly. being uncomfortable with new information when you're corrected about a misunderstanding is a GOOD THING#being told 'hey there's a difference between butch and masc' and then BARELY doing research to try and defend yourself is just obnoxious#certified protectcosette original#discourse#i've had issues with this same person trying to tell me (a lesbian) that men can be lesbians#and then when i told them to stay in their lane bc theyre bi they said they might actually be a lesbian#if ur ONLY ever saying 'actually i might be a lesbian' when someone calls you in for not staying in ur lane? then you suck. end of story.
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