#and then there's all that stuff with adhd where im so damn sensitive to other people which pisses me off
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the-outlande-r Ā· 27 days ago
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thinking abt how im a dyke and have adhd like damn baby pick a struggle
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a-very-tired-raven Ā· 2 years ago
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1. April 19th šŸ!!
2. Biggest Phobia would probably be melissophobia, which is a fear of wasps and bees. However my biggest fear is being forgotten.
3. Uhhh ive twisted an ankle and had a bad sprain, which is about the same as breaking one.
4. Everything lmao. My humor is very fluid, and i can adapt to others humor extremely well. This is what helps me make other people laugh :]
5. Yes, Men with long hair. Like, actual, long hair. Also i reaalllllly like nerdy and dorky guys. True dumbasses. Slap long hair on a dork and im smitten.
6. Yes, depending on the context. I was heartbroken when my dogs passed away, and i was also heartbroken when my mom at my icecream šŸ’”
7. Question is way too hard lmao. But if i had to pick one id say Out of my mind by Cg5
8. Was born female, and I currently have no plans of transitioning
9. AmericašŸ‡ŗšŸ‡ø!! Hope to travel someday.
10. Uhh very vague question hmm... fireworks?? Idk man, id have to think ab it for a long time
11. Yes, multiple actually. I have six dogsšŸ¶(5 pitbulls and a mutt) a couple of goldfish and a bearded dragon. Working on getting rats sooner or later.
12. just rude and hateful people in general. Im just so tired of everyone going at everyones throats.
13. Finding out my step mom is getting engaged šŸ§”!!!
14. Mmm kinda of. As much as i love the night i get creeped out during later hours. So i suppose.
15. Yes, very much so šŸŽ®!!
16. Lmao plenty. Slaped the shit out of a target mannequin thinkin it was nailed down. It wasnt. Almost made it fall lmao. Also tripped and nearly busted my ass in public.
17. A hospital!
18. Yes but i didn't always need them šŸ˜­!!
19. Foxes, Rats, and axolotls!!
20. Orange orchid's šŸŒŗšŸ§”
21. Raven! Hence the user lol
22. Swimming!!
23. Pasta of any kind!(spaghetti, alfredo, lasagna, etc etc)
24. Not that i know of! But i di have very sensitive skin, so I gitta be careful about what lotions, sunscreens, and earrings i wear. (This also means sand burns the everloving fuck outta me)
25. Someday, yes. But the pain makes me very very nervous. It scares me a little.
26. Football, baseball, and rugby!!
27. I believe Adhd is counted as a disability, correct me if im wrong, so yes.
28. Lol its pretty plain, first off its thick, that way even if i drop it on its screen it wont crack, and two its grey and black.
29. Math. And computers. Got a computer for the first time last year and theres so many things i dont understand
30. Violin music lmao. That shit hurts me so damn good. Electric instruments can have this effect but not nearly as strong as a violin.
31. I honestly dont think i KNOW about enough conspiracies to believe in any.
32. Nope!!
33. Fine with a lot of them (moths, lightin bugs, dragonflys, rollie pollies, etc) but i am terrified of bees man. Wasps and hornets i hate they can go fuck themselves, and so can cockroaches, waterbugs, earwigs, and fireants.
34. Pretty unlucky in terms of literal luck tbh. Im very clumsy, dont have really good odds with mystery things(pokemon cards, etc) but in terms of stuff to be thankful for i think im very lucky.
35. HalloweenšŸ•·šŸ•ø, April fools, and Christmas lol.
36. I like the ocean itself, but the sand here sticks to us all over, and it burns the fuck outta my sensitive skin. Maybe if i went somewhere where the sand didnt stick id like it more?
37. COOKIES, icecream, and snickers lmao big sweet tooth
38. Sundrop!(its a soda thats only distributed to specific states here) mango slushies are good too!
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vbee-miya Ā· 2 years ago
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Loved the matchups now can I have a normal one for haikyuu and demon slayer
A male one btw
I'm a straight short girl use she/her pronouns, im around 5'2 with long brown hair and eyes and a leo also a infp,im also ace as for which one im not too sure atm as i just found out not ling ago. I'm 21. I like anime,dragons,reptiles,drawing but I'm not good,tarantulas,sweets,video games, memes,dark humor. I am very kind but I care more about others than I do myself. I have bad anxiety. I tend to overthink about everything. I love to sing especially country music but I am tone deaf. I have trouble standing up for myself because I was bullied alot. I can be very blunt. I also love to swear. I can be very loud. I love a good mystery and cop shows. I love dad jokes and puns.I am terrified of bees and heights. I am very lazy but I can be good at doing stuff if motivated. , unless I know it will happen or if I touch someone. I accidentally snap at people and I find people's pain hilarious so if someone gets hurt there is a good chance I will laugh at them. I sound meaner than intended sometimes. I can have trouble showing that im thankful at times. I pick at scabs as a nervous habit. I love to add alot of lemon juice to my tea to where it's more lemon than tea. When I'm woken up early with low sleep I am very mean and grumpy. I cant tell when people are joking and take it seriously. I do have asphergers which is a form of autism. Becuase of it I am a very picky person with foods and such.
I am very kind but people take advantage of it and I don't usually fight back. I also have adhd and I can go on forever about something but I don't know when to stop and should be told to if it's getting annoying. I have self esteem issues at times as well.
I am a bit overweight it isn't shown well I have thick thighs and am just a but chubby around the stomach it isn't noticeable unless I wear somethign small I usually wear large t-shirts.I have a few weird talents. I can put my foot behind my head while standing and both while sitting down. I can burp for 14 seconds. I have been told I have resting bitch face. When someone stops talking to me my attention goes to something else so I won't be able to hear what they said if they say something again so I end up saying what alot cause I loose focus easily. I am incredibly stubborn if I want something done.
For dislikes I don't like people who don't understand that I'm different and ignore my sensitivities. I also don't like smoking it bothers me. For my love languages im not too sure probably gift giving or quality time as I love to just laze around in bed and play games.
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haikyuu one
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honestly i was going to match you with issei.
but daichi is definitely a better fit. heā€™s a sexy cop man thatā€™s all I can say. but listen issei is also just as sexy and working in a funeral is sexy.
anyways daichi. heā€™d think your adoration for dragons and reptiles are pretty damn cool just like your drawings. because headcanon he canā€™t draw for shit and even if he did try it still wouldnā€™t look like what heā€™d want.
i also canā€™t keep thinking about how daichi low key looks like thomas crusader. if not by looks then definitely the vibes. idk thatā€™s just my random take.
anyways your humor and his humor certainly donā€™t fit like puzzle pieces. but heā€™d try to understand dark humor which honestly he still wouldnā€™t find funny. though if itā€™s a funny meme then what the hell. heā€™ll give a good deep of a laughter. but he canā€™t resist a good dad joke and actually would be clever enough to come up with new ones when you guys are taking a stroke in some place.
heā€™d be weary of you about not fully putting yourself first than others, and heā€™ll remind you that. heā€™d make sure youā€™re taking care of yourself and even if itā€™s difficult heā€™ll be there to motivate you. after all you are talking to a former volleyball captain. itā€™s only natural heā€™s good with words and motivations of that sorts.
when you overthink heā€™ll hear you out but pull you back into reality. and tell you to take everything one step at a time. no matter how much youā€™re thinking about something, the moment you start getting ahead of yourself daichi would pull you out of the loop hole and take time to live in the moment and critically think about things one step at a time and make sure those steps arenā€™t just empty words but actions as well.
youā€™re bluntness might scare him, but honestly itā€™s more of the fact that he appreciates you for it. not many people who say theyā€™re blunt are blunt. heā€™d also completely ignore you swearing. not that heā€™s got a problem he just wouldnā€™t care for it unless if itā€™s around his parents then heā€™ll have a word with you elsewhere. really playing that cop fantasy.
as mean as you may portray or perceive yourself daichi knows youā€™ve got a good heart. and even though itā€™ll take time for him to actually understand everything about you, just know in those times of being together heā€™s got insane patience and will never ignore you sensitivities. and like any decent human being will always accept you for who you are and will help you get better because you make them feel like they can also better themselves.
daichi even as great of a motivator as he is sucks at getting motivated. thatā€™s only a joke though but if you give him something in exchange or even a simple talk in quality time heā€™ll forever be grateful to you. and also i will like to add quality time with you and daichi is watching action acclaimed shows and movies especially ones with cops and heā€™d play judge and see how well thought out and played the roles of the law are.
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beetlemancy Ā· 5 years ago
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Not angry venting but more gosh i really dislike that i keep trying to get back into watching live then I see matt making a rules calling that isnt correct and IM annoyed and i hate *that* emotional response, (specifically in this case not letting jester drop conc - which by the rules she is very much allowed to do at anytime), so again not angry venting *at matt* and more gosh i wish i didnt have standards on matt that he has no responsibility to me to keep, but somehow i still care about :(
hey, Iā€™m gonna put the rest of your (relevant) asks and my response to them under this read more for brevity, and encourage anyone who gets up in their feelings about this ask to read the followups because they are far more important for context on this subject - AND please know that these asks were sent before the stuff that went down later in the episode. Also, those reading should take their time because its a wishy washy subject that can get sensitive but this is absolutely done in good faith and I think its important for us to acknowledge these feelings in ourselves when they come up!(also the last time I posted a long ass post like this the format got all wonky after I looked at it on mobile, so if its all one big paragraph - it was not intended to be that way and iā€™ll fix it soon)
Ask 2-3:Ā just sent that ask and i want to clarify, its not bad matt not being RAW, follow the rules or perish. its more, hes a great dm and making a rules call that disadvantages the players for a reason i can not understand at all makes me feel not happy despite the fact that i know im not a player and this isnt actually effecting me personally, yet i sit here with my negative emotions and idea how to force myself to not feel them :(((((i told myself that was going to be my last ask of the night but for the sake of being clear with you) i also wonder how much of my being upset about being upset is that i dont want to be in the same camp as twitter / reddit ppl who get on matt about rules calls and are cruel to him about it, and just agreeing with their base statement makes me feel like im saying its okay to do that
Mmk. Thereā€™s sort of two main subjects I wanna cover: the action and the feeling.The basic truth is that occasionally we get feelings that remind us of the rage of people we do not want to be. This is human, and it happens in life in so many ways, not just in fandom. However, Iā€™ll stick with CR for now. We see the Twitter and Reddit threads that berate Matt and the players for rule issues and we think, we would never be that up in our feelings, right? But it is so much less about what we feel and more about what our actions are.Ā 
The people who make those posts? Some of them are full of so much hate for something that they just use this as an opportunity to lash out. Others are genuinely trying to be helpful and just donā€™t understand the concept that they are not the only person on the internet and that often times one person saying something is benign but that hundreds of people saying it is malicious. Sometimes people might not even feel that much about the subject but want to join the fight because its something to do or because their peers/friends are.
What defines the result of ANY rules lawyering post online is not the reason they made the post, though, is it? Its simply that they did. Their intent doesnā€™t really matter that much - a post was still made, and posts were made on top of that post, and those posts, and now weā€™ve got a flame war - intent be damned.
By the same nature, if you donā€™t make that post? It doesnā€™t matter what your feelings are on the topic. You choose to not add to that noise. Take that win and feel good about it! (btw, sending someone an ask to parse through your feelings on the subject isnā€™tĀ ā€˜making that postā€™ either)
Okay. Now - about the feelings.
Iā€™m honestly with you there and have been the last few combat scenarios. Iā€™ve noticed myself wondering if Matt is getting more and moreĀ ā€˜me vs themā€™ in his combat DM style because it feels that way to me. Iā€™m guessing that a lot of my discomfort also has to do with my inherent sense of black-and-white Fairness - being Autistic comes with that privilege for a lot of us. ADHD Cousins can get theirs in maroon I think, but they have to order it special. ;)
I grapple a lot with my feelings on combat in CR when it does start to feel antagonistic or unfair to one or more players (or sometimes even Matt himself!). Here is what I do: well, for one, compartmentalize until the next day or two. CR brings up a lot of feelings. Its a lot of story and I get super immersed. The emotions are high for everyone during a good episode, sometimes especially during combat, and so I allow myself the cool down time before I really look at it again.
After that time, if I still feel the same way and it still bugs me, I watch stuff where they talk about how much they love each other. I play that clip of Liam saying ITS A GAME! over and over. I get super in deep with the Critmas vids or another Talks episode I really love. Thatā€™s what helps me kick it, in the end. The visual and auditory reminder that these are friends and sometimes friends have a little tension when they are all in a state of high adrenaline but that they clearly would not do this if it wasnā€™t fun for them anymore.Ā 
I do have a buddy of mine that is really hardcore Justice. He is, straight up, like Justice from Dragon Age. The guy is Fairness with a capital F, and his method of dealing is different from mine: he doesnā€™t watch combat from any TTRPG show. He just avoids it, because he doesnā€™t wanna be That Guy on reddit, but the intensity with which he feels the call to correct wrongs is very strong. He takes himself out of the equation, reads a recap or asks friends, and then can engage healthily with the RP and the story outside of combat. Its a good system for him.
Maybe you can find a method similar to either of these options? Maybe you just need a healthy place to vent about it. For that, Iā€™d suggest a discord or a friend (or me off anon and then I wonā€™t publish if you ask me not to! or send me a pm!). Or perhaps you need to reevaluate how you watch CR and what youā€™re willing to give up in order to not feel this way. Or maybe binge watching some quality CR wholesomeness will help those feelings dampen. Either way, you are not Wrong for feeling. We just have to watch our actions.
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whrrlwind-a Ā· 5 years ago
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THE POSITIVE & NEGATIVE; mun & muse.
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tagged by:Ā  no one! i stole it from ren <3 tagging: Ā anyone who wants to do it!!
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my muse is: Ā canon / oc / auĀ / canon-divergent / fandomless / complicated
Is your character popular in the fandom? YES / NO Is your character considered hotā„¢ in the fandom? YESĀ / NO / IDK and im too afraid to find out Is your character considered strong in the fandom? Ā YES / NO / IDK Are they underrated? Ā YES / NOĀ / IDK Were they relevant for the main story? Ā YES / NO Were they relevant for the main character? YES / NO / THEYā€™RE THE PROTAG. Are they widely known in their world? YES / NO Howā€™s their reputation? Ā GOOD / BAD / NEUTRAL How strictly do you follow canon? Ā ā€” Ā pretty strictly! itā€™s really only towards the end of SA2 and after it where i start taking creative liberties! as whirl nearly dies himself trying (and failing) to save his shadow, and then starts going into riderā€™s time instead of jumping into heroes.
SELL YOUR MUSE! Aka try to list everything, which makes your muse interesting in your opinion to make them spicy for your mutuals. Ā ā€”Ā  you like the adventure era sonic? you hate how he sometimes handles really serious scenarios or brushes them off like nothing, as if they arenā€™t traumatic as shit in any way?Ā wanna see a pretty mentally and emotionally fucked up lad struggle with handling his troubles and keep up the dark/serious theme SA2 set that sega is too cowardly to go back to in modern day? well bOY DO I HAVE THE HEDGEHOG FOR YOU. this bad boy ACTUALLY has emotions and struggles with handling them and many other things due to the position he has put himself in over the course of his life, but also doesnā€™t completely wear him down and stop him from being who he is! as well as dealing with the fact he and his timeline are MUCH further behind than other alternates of himself and friends. sonicĀ ā€œ whirl ā€ hedgehog is a young hero still running his way through life the way he wants like the rebellious, free-spirited teenager he is, while learning that not only is he a hero, but heā€™s also a person.
Now the OPPOSITE, list everything why your muse could not be so interesting (even if you may not agree, what does the fandom perhaps think?). Ā ā€” quite frankly, heā€™s sonic. thereā€™s a lot of them out there. he can probably be too energetic, positive, etc, or perhaps this blog focuses a little too much on his trauma and internal strugglesĀ or even the general dark theme to the point itā€™s a turnoff or just hard to really read. heā€™s also an annoying idiot to the point itā€™s frustrating.
What inspired you to rp your muse? ā€” yo sonic was my fucking LIFEBLOOD as a kid. lived and breathed this franchise. sa2 was my first game ever, sonic was my fav character (and still is), so my absolute love for this specific version of him became too much to internalize sooooo here we are ; w ;
What keeps your inspiration going? ā€” Ā straight up, sonic is probably my biggest comfort character to exist ever. always makes me happy, always makes me feel better when im down, etc. thereā€™s nothing he canā€™t do that doesnā€™t make me smile, regardless of how sega treats him. being able to pour my ideas into a character i love so much to the point he becomes really personalized (and personal for me), and itā€™s actually something people enjoy seeing and interacting with? it gives me so much goddamn sertonin.
Some more personal questions for the mun.
Give your mutuals some insight about the way you are in some matters.
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Do you think you give your character justice? Ā YESĀ / NO / I SINCERELY HOPE I DO? Do you frequently write headcanons? Ā YESSSSS I CANNOT SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT WHIRL ask anyone i Do Not Shut The Fuck Up even if i donā€™t post abt it on tumblr Do you sometimes write drabbles? Ā YES / NO just bc im bad at writing them abndhjbfd Do you think a lot about your Muse during the day? YES / NO Are you confident in your portrayal? YES / NO Are you confident in your writing? Ā YES / NO Are you a sensitive person? YES / NOĀ / SORTA. Do you accept criticism about your portrayal? Ā ā€” Ā always!! iā€™m always willing to learn and improve on things, especially with the canon of some events from games and such, as iā€™m not 100% with everything besides SA2. all i really ask is that when receiving criticism, people are as nice as they can be with it! thanks adhd and personal trauma
Do you like questions, which help you explore your character? Ā ā€” Ā ABSOFUCKINLUTELY I DO
If someone disagrees to a headcanon of yours, do you want to know why? Ā ā€” Ā mmmmm? mm. kind of? but also not really? like. everyoneā€™s entitled to their own opinion ofc, iā€™m not gonna rip anyone apart for disagreeing with something, but like. i have adhd. iā€™m v hypersensitive to some things, so it can really be processed in my head the wrong way and it makes me feel bad. so i guess just....... be careful about it if you ever wanna tell me why?
If someone disagrees with your portrayal, how would you take it? ā€” iā€™d probably just kinda be likeĀ ā€œ damn that sucks bro, but thats literally not my problem, thereā€™s a whole ton of other sonics out there bye ā€ bc like. i dont care? donā€™t even really tell me bc honestly ur just wasting ur time lmao
If someone really hates your character, how do you take it? ā€” ill be the first to admit im. v attached to sonic as a whole. he means a lot to me! so going off abt how you may (generally) hate him really....... is just upsetting to me. but thats just bc im v attached to him, and thereā€™s nothing wrong with having that opinion on him!!Ā we all get upset when someone talks bad about something we love. all i ever ask is that try to keep it away from me, especially if itā€™s abt whirl in particular, bc it can really upset me and thats just not fun for anyone <:3c
Are you okay with people pointing out your grammatical errors? ā€” absolutely!! i make them all the time and i even have a friend proofread some of my stuff bc of how common it is aBJDBHBJC, again i just ask if people are nice about it when pointing that stuff out to me!!
Do you think you are easy going as a mun? Ā  ā€” Ā oh fuckin yes absolutely, im tooting my own horn and i dont even care, im one of the chillest people on this fuckin planet
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captaindoubled Ā· 8 years ago
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Old man's art pain help:
Proper rest and stretching your art arm helps the arm pain. Also learning how to properly hold your tool and how to move your arm helps loads.
But lots of times for artist, working is literally the difference between rent and homelessness so itā€™s not always easy to take full days off or more to give your body a break.
These are things Iā€™ve learned and done to help ease the pain and reduce the injury.
1) Raise your prices!
Before I go into the stuff you can do with your body and your environment and your tools, the best damn thing you can do for yourself is raise your prices!
If you need $400 to pay your share of the rent, are you gonna wanna do 40 $10 pictures or 10 $40 pictures? The less you have to do the less you are causing harm to your body and the more time you can take in between art pieces.
Yes yes folks may not want to pay your higher prices and having to lower them to make ends meets can be hard and itā€™s sometimes a situation that happens. If you are in that situation donā€™t be afraid to give less. If headshots are easy for and take the least about of time, thatā€™s your cheapest. If they feel like your charging too much for a full size picture, remind them that YOU can work with their budget and give them something worth that cost. (If base $40 is too much for a full length for someone ((itā€™s not)) tell them you are willing to do a bust instead and instead of clean lines, do sketch)
Post your commission information all over the place. Tumblr has a problem with forcing new artist to base their prices low (hell im sure mine are too low) but other sites have other standards.
Also, like, to be entirely honest, draw porn under a separate name and blog and page. Nsfw communities pay. And they pay good and if you are half way decent at their specific kinks, they are return customers. And for the most part donā€™t haggle with prices and will encourage you to charge more. (If you want more info on porn art work then come chat with me in the messages, I have no problem giving tips if you genuinely need them)
Donā€™t be afraid to charge more for completed shit, rush jobs, edits. Thatā€™s all damage you are doing to your body for someone else. So make it worth your time and body so that you can do less work later on down the road. All your time is money and they are costing you money with all their extra stuff.
2) Still Stretching Now
I donā€™t care how many things I need to work back to back on, Iā€™m still going to stretching. Before during and after. Stretching your whole damn body. Walk about. Relax your muscles and move your joints. Itā€™s a must.
3) Warm your body
Especially your working arm. Localized coldness can help with the nerves to reduce pain but also, just like a too cold room will cause your muscles to constrict.
Make a heating pack. You can buy one but to save money, get an old sock and some rice or dried beans. Fill it half way, tie it off with a rubber band and heat it a bit. Depends on your microwave but youā€™ll know itā€™s too long if it starts to stink. Less than a min (you can do a bit more of the sock is thick but literally it will reek because itā€™s starting to burn).
Warm your arm and your hands and shoulders and elbows to reduce constriction of the muscles and further damage.
Also keep an artist outfit. Mine is normally a pair of comfortable work out pants, a thin shirt and a hoodie to keep me comfortable, not constricted but warm in my room.
4) Work out
Mainly cardio but also light weights. The damage that a lot of art pain comes from is normally nerve but you donā€™t just use your nerves to draw. You got muscles. Cardio work outs help move lactic acid buildup out of your muscles and helps your muscles heal faster. I have a work out bike I get on but like some jumping jacks is just fine. It also helps with body pain because you still are using your whole body. Strength training with small weights help get your muscles stronger and so you can work more of you gotta grind. (But still stretch!)
5) Move your hand in a different way
The damage comes from repetition so you gotta use your body in different ways than you work.
A soft dollar star nerf type ball that you can hold in your hand and squeeze is good. (Also you can use your home made sock warmer which helps your hand). Your squeezing your hand in a different way from the way you hold a pen or pain brush. Also open your hand wide. Hold your arms above your head, stretch it the other way. Walk around if you sit a lot. Etc. Do the opposite when you are stretching and moving about.
On days when Iā€™m not drawing, i write because itā€™s a different hand position Iā€™m using.
6) Get a brace
Mainly for when your sleeping but also itā€™s a short term way to train your hand to draw the right way. I used one in order to force myself not to bend my wrist when I draw and use my whole arm. But donā€™t get dependent on it if you can help it. The part where the brace ends can dig into your arm and make whole new pains.
But itā€™s mainly for night and not work days. You donā€™t realize how much you use the same movements in day to day until it hurts like shit!? And you have no idea how you bend your hand in your sleep. I for example always prop my face up with my hands in my sleep even when I donā€™t sleep that way?? Itā€™s odd and it hurts when itā€™s bend oddly.
7) Take your anti inflammation pill of choice
I know Walmart sucks but they always have $.89 cent naproxen (generic aleve) but they have $.89 versions of almost log anti inflammatory pain pills. Learn your generics (Thatā€™s just an adult tip! They have cheap ass allergy medicine too if you know the generic name) and get what works for you when you need it. Donā€™t over take it. Follow the guidelines. Donā€™t end up slowly killings yourself to make a buck.
8) Upgrade your software/Loosen your grip.
Some art programs are just better than others. And while in terms of quality of work the program really just is another tool, the little shit like pressure sensitivity can make a difference.
I love sai. For my ADHD it has the cleanest simplest set up by far and I have used a lot of programs and I have a lot downloaded on my computer. But itā€™s pressure sensitivity, even when I adjust stuff, is wack. On my bad hand days, I have to use Photoshop to work because I donā€™t have to press as hard to get the lines I want.
I also have changed the pressure sensitivity for my tablet so I again wouldnā€™t press down so hard to get the line weight I want.
But I also have been working to loosen my grip, again to keep from straining my nerves and muscles. I saw someone putting a big tube over their pen to make it more ergonomic. Itā€™s to help with the grip on your hand.
9) Other sources of income
This is a do as I say, not as I do situation because I donā€™t have this set up because Iā€™m all over the place because im just getting my ADHD under control but I know it works. It goes back to the first tip as far as money.
Things that work for folks are things like merch (prints, short print comics, buttons, etc), paid tutorial videos and the like, and also Patreon. The more you can subsidize your income with less body damaging youā€™re doing because you are doing less actual drawing and more time healing. Also this gives folks who canā€™t afford your hopefully raised commission prices (because seriously you deserve more for you art. Yes you.) a change to get art from you and to support you in a way thatā€™s easier on their pockets as well.
Get creative, make shit other people havenā€™t, sell stuff folks arenā€™t. I donā€™t know from first hand experience in art but I do know this from my mothers bail bonding work, a whole lot of small consistent money goes a lot further than lump sum inconsistent money.
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If you have other tips please add! And if you wanna chat with me, do so. I'd love to help.
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