#and the fact that people are defensive and calling it mean and petty…. idgi?

[tolerateit]

ok the thing … that i don’t get is how this lovely secret santa event is being called such negative things when the person in charge made themselves clear many times, kept reaching out repeatedly, and literally said what was going to happen. like you’ve logged on here, you didn’t answer them when they kept trying to contact you, if you couldn’t do it make it clear somehow instead of silence and confusion, even if you put in your bio or in a post that you’re on hiatus. also, we are all going through rough shit right now. this was supposed to make people happy and feel good, and instead of maybe simply saying you’re sorry you missed it and you’ll make something soon or try to be better in the future you’re getting your back up and pointing fingers with accusatory bs. this was announced a REALLY long time ago!!! you had time to do or say SOMETHING!! and considering you were not responsive to everything posted and sent, why should they think you’d answer another message or dm about this?