#and the fact that it conflicts with joes stand theb

[andrwgarfields]

People talking about it on tumblr is one thing bc I feel things are pretty contained here, but I feel so awful that Joe’s relationship was put on TikTok like that, my friend who barely even follows him sent me that video and it has 270k views. After everything Joe’s said about not wanting to publicize his relationships and not following the people he dates or his friends from home or even his mum on insta because he doesn’t want people knowing who they are or looking at their posts… I just feel bad for him. Also lowkey pissed at the bf for being careless on social media in addition to being a huge creep. (Sorry but that age gap is nasty work. ☹️)

Im always super conflicted regarding this just because yes i get the request for privacy but at the same time it seems almost impossible to achieve at this day and age. I think the best we can do is be respectful and even if we have opinions (rightfully so because the age gap is concerning) it can be done in a respectful way and i dont think being a fan of someone equates to defending and agreeing with all their choices either (and honestly i think sometimes celebs get defensive is specifically because ppl can be cruel with their words)

its so iffy to me cause apparently that dudes insta was public initially few months ago and there were pics of joe on his feed. I find it disturbing that joe seems adamant that his partner’s identity remains sorta anonymous bt obviously his partner doesnt seem to mind?