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cigarette-room · 5 months ago

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not to be all love is transactional and shit but if you're not putting the same kind of effort into maintaining a friendship/relationship as the other person does then you should leave them the fuck alone actually and stop being a leech who only takes and doesn't give

likewise, if you're the only one putting in all the effort then you need to let that entire thing go because you're still insisting a sinking ship can keep sailing just fine (you are in the water up to your ankles. you will drown. they will never find your remains)

#should i tag this as personal or should i leave it as yet another yapanese lesson idk #in any case babes love isn't a transaction but just like everything in life there needs to be equality #and trust: there is no singular person from billions in this world who is worth enough for you to be a dog #so if they're treating you like a dog kick them away! it doesn't matter how much pain you're in #because you WILL be free to breathe and find worth in yourself and learn a lot of important lessons for the future #but if you stay and allow yourself to be treated like that it will simply never get better. people like that don't get better #they don't want you they want the attention and patience you give them #they don't care if you live or die as long as they can get the benefits from you or anyone else #and tbh? you'll notice people like that complain a lot about the lack of meaningful connections in life - friendships etc #that's because you're an idiot! that's because nobody wuth any decency will stay around #and be treated like that by their sorry ass #so they found someone who will and it's you. you don't mean anything to people like that tbh #and trust it's so much happier when you let yourself seek for better and leave those parasites behind you ❤️

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