#and she has repeatedly and upfrontly stated that she does not regret doing any of that and still blames me for it
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#my mom wants to have a discussion about me seeking out therapy in the new year#And I kind of don’t want to#Partially because it’s NYE#And also because I am still lowkey bitter about the emotional blackmail/borderline abuse she pulled during my teenage and college years#including but not limited to blaming me for my parents’ marital issues every year since I was 13#and attempting to [redacted] in front of me when I was 20 while I cried and pleaded for her not to#there’s other shit but those are the two that stand out in my mind#and she has repeatedly and upfrontly stated that she does not regret doing any of that and still blames me for it#even after herself having been in individual therapy for the last year#And I’m like why am I taking mental health advice from you?#I don’t have to have this conversation with her#I’m just visiting for the holidays and I live independently now and work full time#but if I don’t do this there’ll be tension between us#She won’t hold it against me or anything but there’ll be a distance#And despite everything we do have a warm and loving relationship even if it is marred#I think I’ll just have this one convo and then leave it#Starting next year all of me and my younger sibs are going to be in our 20s#And my mom has talked about wanting to back off and step back now that we’re adults and established#Mother mention cw#Negativity cw#Alia talks
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