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moodr1ng · 3 years ago

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attending lgbt spaces irl when youre very used to your irl lgbt friends being trans and very understanding of trans issues is so wild bc youre like. oh this lgbt space has basically no transitioning trans people and no one here has any idea of what my experience is and we are like miles apart in life experience and some people here cant even begin to grasp what i deal with

#v like.#the discussion being 'i dont like that when i go to gay bars everyone just wants to hook up and i just wanna meet people'#and im thinking like.#when i go to gay bars anyone who wants to hook up with me is a danger bc they presume that i am a cis man #and even like the idea of vaguely making out w someone LET ALONE hooking up comes w the threat of violence #when i disclose im trans without being able to gage whether theyre going to freak out on me or not #like idk its so.... bizarre to come from #like this experience #and seeing people complain that theyre tired of people at cruising spots offering them sex #meanwhile im like. yeah im tired of being treated as a fundamentally undesireable predatory freak #97

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