#and overall i have no issues w them. they’re not annoying or making horribly poor decisions w their life like other ppl i know | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

prudereality · 1 year ago

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i think a big thing that has always stumped me abt being in friendships is the common conception that like. okay this may be more prevalent in cishet romantic relationships compared to queer romantic relationships but. the common thread that u can’t tell ur partner everything. u can’t trust them to love u if u tell them the bad stuff. u have to have someone other than ur partner who can “handle ur ugly” so to speak

which is so silly to me like? why Shouldn’t i tell my partner everything. i’m in this relationship for the long haul baby park that ass and open ur ears it’s story time about the Tale Of Me. also like i live with my partner. i’m not driving to someone who may or may not give me the time of day depending on how they feel at that moment when i have someone i’d much rather be around? like i kiss this person for a Reason? also circling back to the someone i’d rather be around comment i have noticed (and/or ignored) for years how i’m consistently exhausted after seeing a friend for longer than . an hour. but i want my partner in my skin. i want to share thoughts with this person. i want to mix our blood and fuse our bones and i CANNOT say the same for most if not all other people i know

#i need to go to bed it is 7:30am #anyways. i love my partner very much. i have friends but most of them r take or leave atp #i have. One (1). friend i genuinely don’t mind and view as a close relationship but #yk thinking abt it. i know i’d be fine if they dropped me #they’re important to me but they’re important bc i’ve put a lot of time and effort into our relationship #they’re also like. very low maintenance. does not mind if i don’t reach out for a few months bc they didn’t either #and then we meet up and catch up and smoke and then maybe see each other a couple times #then it’s winter again. and we don’t talk as much #and overall i have no issues w them. they’re not annoying or making horribly poor decisions w their life like other ppl i know #i like them a lot #but i don’t know if i like them ‘correctly’#u know. like. i think i like the aspects of our relationship more than the actual person. not saying the person part is not important #it is. i have other friends like this that i actively want to (and have) dropped #bc of their personalities #but Despite All That. i would still prefer to live with just my family and my partner #i don’t need anyone else atp #anyways #fig.txt #fag (fig tag)

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