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hella1975 · 1 year ago

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hiii i'm really sorry this is kind of a Lot but um. is it bad to leave a toxic friendship by absolutely verbally destroying the other party? because like. i think i may have broken the geneva convention with some of the things i've just said to this girl. but she started it! she called me a stone cold bitch so i said she only dates narcissistic sex offenders i feel like i may have overstepped. but it is true she is currently dating someone accused of assualt so. we both leave for uni soon so i won't see her again but like i just feel BAD and NOT GOOD about being so mean even tho she cheated on my closest friend. i also said she was a pathological cheater which IS very true but i feel may have warped her perspective somewhat. is it just a rite of passage to have that one friendship that implodes spectacularly or am i doing this wrong

'she started it! she called me a stone cold bitch so i said she only dates narcissistic sex offenders'

#MY HONEST REACTION PAHFSKJAHGKJAHG IM CACKLING #anonstie. baby. as a recovered 'verbally destroyed entire friendships' bitch im not about to condemn you #and nothing i say is coming with judgement ESPECIALLY if what you said wasn't unprompted like honestly #it sounds like she had it coming im not here about HER. but if you end friendships like this as a PATTERN #and not just this one time where you snapped then yes id say maybe take the time to work on that #because it WILL catch up to you maybe not in any sort of social public way but generally you'll get older #or just more distanced from the situation as time goes on and you'll feel bad about what you said #from you sending this i can already tell you feel bad and regret some of your word choices #so yeah. id say dont blame yourself for this one it happens to the best of us sometimes u do just say shit #move on from it dont hold it against yourself. but just be wary of it becoming a recurring thing #overall yeah i do think it's a rite of passage im afraid 😭 welcome to the club!#ask

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