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silverduckie · 2 days ago

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Although like maybe it's because I have a life outside of the rpc and I usually keep my nose of rph-y things these days and this week is kinda an exception (that I'm not planning on continuing 😂) but like I've been rping on this site since I was like 13 and I literally cannot recall a single instance where anyone actually got cancelled over a fc? Like the absolute worst I've seen is nasty anons and... yeah, I'll be honest that really says more about the person sending the anon than the person receiving it, because like the block button is free and so easy to use.

Anyway, been awhile since I've posted a link to this so DBT workbook pdf if anyone on my blog rn needs one <3 Also I'm sorry if I seem shorter than usual today tone-wise, I've had a killer migraine from hell all day

#i'll be honest i have been making/deleting versions of this post for weeks because i keep seeing people saying it and like...#i get the fear but it's a very irrational fear that will never actually happen and i hope that doesn't sound mean because like I GET IT #my therapist and i have had talks about this exact thing like 'am i a horrible irredeemable person if i liked this person who turned out #to be problematic' HAS came up in therapy and I've been doing so much work on myself with the moral perfectionism because like I #never would attack someone the way i attack myself over fcs so why am I attacking myself vibes okay #but um... let's be realistic for a sec? That's not very WISE mind of us and it's not a belief based in reality ya know like.. the worst #that will happen is you 1. can't rp with someone 2. get blocked 3. get an anon you've gotta block. nobody will actually cancel you #like the community has been pretty loud about not using minors as fcs for years and there's still packs of minors with hundreds of notes #and none of those giffers have been cancelled so why would you get cancelled over using anya taylor joy?#and like yeah i know being like flat out 'nobody cares what fcs you use' sounds kinda harsh but it's the truth ya know like #past the point of 'don't tag me in gifs of x' and 'don't use this fc with me' like I know I don't care what others do #I can only control myself and my own actions - like I'll 100% block over fcs but like... there's a difference between #going 'i know we're not gonna vibe so i'm gonna block and forget why i blocked them in a week' vs. caring someone's using a fc #we all have different comfort levels and that's okay - the issue is when you disregard other people's boundaries and throw a fit #because they set boundaries? anyway i'm going to go grab a snack from the vending machine #and continue suffering through my migraine because i'm trying to save my meds for when i have to attend classes #altho when I say i block over banned fcs i usually block over minors #i have a 'i'll still write with you if you use my banned fcs if you don't use them with me' rule on indie

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