#and nobody sat them down and lectured them till they cried about taking school serious
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What they don’t tell you about eldest daughter syndrome is that it applies even when you’re the younger child bc ur still the eldest daughter
#and tbh I’m not coddling the men in my family anymore I’d gaf#and yes this is transcending gender identity#like It’s so irritating#like family of Dominicans right first girl in our half to go to school#not family family but like the four of us non cousins family#and It’s supposed to be happy and exciting and all of a sudden#just like when I got my first job and promotion and shit#he’s having a mental health crisis that can only be solved by everyone saying he’s doing great#but he’s not fucking doing great he’s spoiled as shit and nobody wants to talk about it#and the depression is real. I’m never denying that#but It’s like. you only got to this state bc literally everyone let you god forbid I wasn’t actively job and school hunting the second I go#outta hs#i got that gap year BECAUSE of the job because of the economy#and It’s also like. not just us in inner circle family#like outer circle is all girls#but outer outer it’s men years olfer#older than me#and nobody sat them down and lectured them till they cried about taking school serious#fine. ig I’ll have to do it myself#oh and tbh white tumblrinas don’t get mad at me about mental health this is immigrant poc kids convos only y’all don’t get it
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