#and my step grandfather is a gambling addict who stays at home all day & is throwing all their money down the drain.
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i love my grandmother but whenever i talk to her i get insanely sad
#gonna ramble in the tags. whatever#shes the sweetest woman alive but has really just. let herself be controlled by men her whole life & its. really depressing#shes had multiple husbands & all of them have been abusive in some way#and she just kinda. lets it happen.#like thats not. victim blaming. shes reached a point in her life where shes kinda just given up#& has told me that she thinks her role is to do whatever her husband says#and it sucks! cause shes insanely smart & powerful & funny!#and my step grandfather is a gambling addict who stays at home all day & is throwing all their money down the drain.#& she just. goes along with it. and does nothing. because she doesnt see a point in doing anything.#and with my family dynamic shes one of the only family members im still in contact with. like its just my parents & my grandparents#& my stepdads side of the family in switzerland. which i dont talk to very often for obvious reasons#but she practically raised me and ive seen how smart and powerful she is. but she just wont let herself be that#and i think about it every time i talk to her.#called her for a breakfast recipe today and had a lovely conversation but ended the call sad afterwards
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