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#no offense but some of you are so gd annoying holy shit#we can come up with a dozen plausible headcanons for why dean had a beard and longer hair in the spnwin finale#but at the end of the day i really think you should just be able to say#'the actor that plays dean couldnt shave or cut his hair so im just going to have to suspend my disbelief on this one thing'#and that should and WOULD be an acceptable explanation for y'all with anything else#because you are actually capable of being rational#but you just want to hate that man so badly and you dont have a better reason#so youve decided to die on the dumbest of hills#and like. that's your prerogative#youre allowed to be an insufferable asshole if you want#but im also allowed be annoyed by it <3
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you know it is hard to not feel for caterina a little in my worldstate. she loses sight of lucanis for a couple of months while her other grandson has her in jail for grandmother time-out, and by the time she sees him again he is in full undying devotion mode for the guy she sent to get him back. her grandson finally brought someone home, and it's a fairly low-level elven mortalitasi whose family background is 'idk we found this baby in a crypt and liked their vibes' who will not be giving her any biological grandchildren. not even one of the politically well-connected scheming mortalitasi, which could at least have been useful (nevarra is a bustling market for the crows! twenty contracts on the king alone and still going strong! still a payday baby let the good times roll!), but one of the dutybound earnest little freaks they keep down in the necropolis to wrangle skeletons and write esoteric papers and who frankly don't care that much about murder b/c death comes to us all in its own time anyway trust us on this one. lucanis looks at him like he hung the moon, the sun, every celestial object and glittering star in the sky, like he's the only real thing in the world. and in caterina vision she sees this weird little slip of a goth mage guy wearing too much kohl who cracks jokes at strange times and is so hard to read but also gives her the unmistakable flinty 'I'll try to keep this civil if you do the same. If.' eye contact over lucanis' shoulder sometimes, with the utter grave calm that only someone who's a speaker to the dead (and the dead are savage) and who has killed several gods and wouldn't back down from second deicide if necessary could bring to bear. she sucks and deserves this and more but she also does have a whole Situation on her hands here
(I love that rye's relationship to lucanis' family is basically 'I met some of the most insufferable people. but, they also met me'. he tangoed with the god of lies and betrayal so he could waltz his way through a dellamorte family dinner relatively unscathed)
#dragon age#dragon age: the veilguard#dragon age: the veilguard spoilers#dragon age spoilers#lucanis dellamorte#caterina dellamorte#oc: Ellaryen Ingellvar#rook x lucanis#rookanis#(I like to think there is also a corner of her heart that goes 'oh.' as she realizes she's never seen lucanis happy before. not like.#in a way I think would change her decision making at all --#she DID feed five children and six grandchildren to the fire for the first talon seat. maybe age has mellowed her out enough#that she'll at least take it into consideration. hope is every man's prerogative. probably not tho right. but I like to think#that the recognition at least is there and maybe even some gratitude even though lucanis' happiness VERY clearly#is not caterina's guiding principle in any way shape or form. also do you *really* want to make an enemy of the veilguard#with their eluvian network and godslaying swag. I'm guessing she'll find ways to justify letting this one go#and play the hand she's been dealt here as best she can lol. you lose perfect control of your demon of a grandson#but hey we could expand the business into the fade itself if we play this one right. swings and roundabouts in this life.#you lose some two generations of family. you win new business opportunities. the hereditary house dellamorte grindset)
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Yuri 🤝 Leo
Being so pretty canonically and the least traditionally manly that fans hc or imagine them as female the most easily
#like if you wanna gender swap them that's your prerogative#but the way Yuri and Leo fall prey to it the most is very hmmmm to me#mun speaks
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I'm having so much trouble wording it, but one of the biggest problems with the new makeup is the lack of variety. With a couple of exceptions, the previous designs were super easy to tell apart, and were also nice and colourful. Now they're using black, white, and 40 shades of brown, and I know multiple people who thought Carbucketty, Bill Bailey, Tugger, and Mungo were the same character. The designs are fine for close-ups, but if you're sitting at back of house there's no way you can see all the little nuances of their makeup. Also, stage makeup is supposed to be exaggerated! Cats is a spectacle! The makeup designs can and should be bold!
On a similar note, the fact that the wigs and unitards are also losing their bright colours is interesting, and by interesting I mean boring and sad. Bomba is literally Red, why is she brown now
#sasha speaks#cats the musical#don't come at me with something like 'these designs aren't new they're actually from 2022' I'm fully aware of that#and I talked about it then too and was called spiteful for saying it was sad that they weren't using fun colours#cats is bright cats is fun cats is colourful#have you seen my rumple? she is so bright!! and that's what I wanted!#I'm not saying you're wrong for thinking nothing's wrong about the new designs#if you like them that's your prerogative#but understand that some people would disagree with you#I've already realised that myself
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my fics may be disappointing at times but at least they’re not the pjo show
#ikik I’m in a salty mood today#but like. i had some crit on a fic for having extra backstory that a reader didn’t like when ‘their canon backstory was good/sad enough’#which like. i won’t be mad about because that’s your prerogative im just annoyed on behalf of all the watered down pjo show characters#where’s their backstory at all?? what do people even think when they watch the show without having read the books 🧍#pjo show crit
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the part of the episode where the toymaker was like “look what horrible things and sad endings happen to the companions” and they were just straight up all moffat made me scream laughhhhhhfjfh
#YEAH. I KNOW. COMPELLING ISNT IT.#ISNT IT DRAMATICALLY INTERESTING. WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN#doc who#and the fact he was like… you dont need to care about the chibnall companions idk them. Thanks 👍#im wheezing thinking about capaldi watching this episode completely aghast#edit if u are rbing this to be mad at moffat. that is your prerogative but it was not my intention with this post lol. sorry
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Turn me goth
ok. listen to my playlist boy
(yeabh a few of the songs on here are NOT goth i just wanted them on my playlist for listening to while I play Bloodborne but its still like mostly gothic rock post-punk and darkwave so. whatever. its a work in progress, trying to get it to at least 3hrs while still carrying the vibes i want)
#not enough lycia songs on there i need to add more lycia songs i think#if you dont listen to these genres much a few songs might take a few listens to get used to but i encourage u to open your mind#or like skip them. thats your prerogative#just be niceys to me about it#music
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finally watched happiest season and i totally understand why people hated the ending.
except for Jane. she deserves the world.
#like it’s not even about harper not being ready to come out#that’s totally her prerogative#but it doesn’t absolve her for how she treats people around her#first with riley holy fuck - and it’s implied she never even apologised to her in the years after???#with that ‘understanding’ they have towards the end#riley would have been completely within her rights to not accept that menial discussion as water under the bridge#but anyway the way harper also treats abby is downright cruel at times#the bit that got me the most was her gaslighting abby the morning after she was out all night#poor girl was just trying to make sure she wasn’t awfully hungover and gets accused of smothering her??? tf???#i really wanted harper to have something to redeem her but she just didn’t#a great moment for her would have been that chat outside the bar with her ex boyfriend#like she didn’t have to out herself entirely but she could have at least said something#she doesn’t make a single effort until it’s way too late and she got outed (like okay fair that was a horrible thing to happen to her)#but honestly i think abby should have still walked away after it#like ‘i’m happy you can be your true self now but for us it’s over’#abby definitely had far more chemistry with riley (stereotype yayaya idc)#but i don’t think they should have gotten together at the end necessarily#maybe just them deciding to keep in touch or something and THEN it happens later#like in that year forward or something - riley and abby are together and they run into harper who’s happy and moved on idk#ALSO CAN WE TALK ABOUT JANE#girlypop finally got her moment and i’m so glad they didn’t make out her book was awful just cause she was writing it for ten years#like we saw how good that painting was??#when girly puts her heart in something she’s all in#cause nobody was all in on her AND SHE DESERVES THE WORLD#honestly one of the few good characters and i’m glad she at least got a good ending#also also why you gonna cast aubrey plaza and barely give her any screen time#like pls make it make sense#haven’t gone off like that in tags for a hot minute™️#happiest season
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parents will be like 'im losing a son here you cant believe how hard this is for me' as if 50% of their interactions with that beloved alleged son up to this point in her life did not include an instance of needling and reminding her that she was not sitting or speaking enough like a man
#bonding w my cousin this week#my parents meanwhile are like please promise its ok if we just continue to pretend you are our daughter. thats important to us#um ok. well you're gonna look increasingly ridiculous and also not speak to me as often. but feel free i guess. your prerogative
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tumblr glitched and spared you all the most heated rant of my entire hoa fandom tenure
#idek what happened i answered the ask & hit post but it completely deleted LOL#I’m not gonna bother to reanswer anon’s ask so I’ll give you the abridged version:#i would not feel the need to post so much about season 3 of hoa if people would stop being such virulent haters#and hold this season to an entirely different standard than the other two#like it genuinely makes no sense#i cannot stress enough that you can like s3 the least#that’s your prerogative#but to be so LOUD and so WRONG#ALL THE TIME???#makes me genuinely mental#SEASON 2 IS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE SEASON#but season 3 needs love and so it’s been 11 years of me giving her love#anyway i guess i just gave you a take version of my rant#and @ anon: fuck you LOL leave me alone once and for all#i love having discussions and deep dives tho please do not think I’m @ing anyone on here you guys are chill and smart#and make good points and do great work and i love you#but if you’re a genuine s3 hater please fuck off to someone else’s blog i BEG#AND if you’re the anon who refuses to leave me in peace? i hope your pillow is warm on both sides#tess rambles
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*old man yells at cloud voice* imagine being in it for the outfits and haircut.... we used to watch gerard in jeans and autism jacket and we were HAPPY about it
#being disappointed by the encore.. okay your prerogative... but the OUTFITS?? who gaf like really.#was that post ragebait? maybe. but either way.... smh#piksla.txt
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my capacity to see a bad fandom take and just blithely say 'okay! I disagree' internally and move on because it's not my responsibility or concern that someone else thinks that has leveled up so tremendously over the years. I haven't quite escaped the pit of misery yet but I think I'm getting there
#the ability to say to oneself 'it's okay if you don't agree with me'#(and possibly adding a quiet bitchy 'I can't force you to be right' at the end if you're annoyed enough lol)#at seeing a bad take without ever internalizing it any deeper than that... indispensible.#if someone is really unpleasantly vitriolic or reactive about it I'll just block and move on. and never think about them again#a gift for me and for them I'm sure! but as long as people are being civil I'm getting pretty good at just going 'alright.#I think you're wrong but it's your prerogative to think that. away from me preferably but still'#when I was younger I always felt like a more negative take must be more valid/see something I didn't but over time (and a lot of therapy)#that kneejerk self-doubt is a lot easier to get through. sometimes. people are wrong! to me and my experience. and that's alright#if nothing else understand your own limitations in ever changing someone's mind for them and let it go lol#when I feel the real badfeels at a shitty take now I know it's just because I'm tired and threadbare and need to sleep haha#sometimes mental health progress is sooooo... boring and low-key but also brings so much relief#like doing admin work up here. *sees something so dumb I feel dizzy* file that shit under 'not my problem' and move on chief
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thinness as a marker of health just pisses me off even more now that i live a "healthy" lifestyle and do all the things fatphobes tell you to do (eat a balanced diet with nutritious food, exercise regularly, drink a lot of water) and im still liable to be sneered at by a sedentary thin person whose daily intake is two quesaritos and a green machine juice. i did what you want! i'm not meant to be thin! sorry!
#and if thats how you wanna live that's your prerogative!#my issue is how ppl who live like that look down at ME#because of assumptions they make about MY body
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when a character says 'I can't live without you' I often think it would be more powerful to say, 'I don't want to live without you'. Life will go on, the world will turn, but a light has gone out of it that cannot be replaced even if new ones are lit. I want to be with you, I'm choosing to be with you, I could live without you but I would be losing something incredibly precious that brings a certain richness that nothing else ever will.
'I can't live without you' sounds kind of coercive to me. I can't live without you I don't have a choice so you don't have a choice unless you want to destroy me, do you want to destroy me? Without each other we have nothing, are nothing.
#a butterfly scribbles#ideas#prompt#prompts#someone else please say this better#I mean if you want to write about characters that can't live without each other that's your prerogative#I get tired of how it's supposed to be the ultimate romance or even normal and healthy and just thrown into stories willy-nilly#like in pride and prejudice darcy is all 'I'm in love with you against my will and better judgement' like there's no choice involved#elizabeth is unimpressed 'too bad so sad'#and guess what? his life goes on. in some ways it gets better as he improves himself#it wasn't a plan to win her back. whether or not they ended up together I think he would have ultimately been okay#I think that's great#my life is good but you would make it so much better please be a part of it#I shouldn't write when it's past my bed time
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what do you think is the most underrated moment in lionheart?
I deeply and gratefully appreciate how people react to chapters/plot beats of all sorts, so I don't have any moments that I think of as "underrated" per se.
That being said. In Book 3, Draco has a quip to Ron that goes: "where did you find this Methuselah of rats?" and I don't think there's anyone alive who finds that as funny as I do. I can sincerely make myself laugh out loud just by thinking about that line. It's still my favorite joke in the fic.
#in the end. writing comedy is just finding the line that appeals to your deeply personal esoteric sense of humor#if you can make yourself laugh then you're doing alright#writing comedy in long form prose is kinda tough because even though people will give you feedback like “good jokes! keep it up!”#(<3 <3 <3)#it's not always clear what jokes they think are landing#and especially when it's the throwaway stuff that isn't a focal point of the scene#eg the blink and you miss it stuff#i've gotta be like. welp. this makes me laugh so it's going in!!#which is the authorial prerogative at its finest.
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"One day when I was a young boy on holiday in Uberwald, I was walking along the bank of a stream when I saw a mother otter with her cubs. A very endearing sight, I'm sure you will agree, and even as I watched, the mother otter dived into the water and came up with a plump salmon, which she subdued and dragged onto a half-submerged log. As she ate it, while of course it was still alive, the body split and I remember to this day the sweet pinkness of its roes as they spilled out, much to the delight of the baby otters who scrambled over themselves to feed on the delicacy. One of nature's wonders, gentlemen: mother and children dining upon mother and children. And that's when I first learned about evil. It is built into the very nature of the universe. Every world spins in pain. If there is any kind of supreme being, I told myself, it is up to all of us to become his moral superior."
--Lord Vetinari, Unseen Academicals by Terry Pratchett
#discworld#gnu terry pratchett#lord vetinari#havelock vetinari#discworld quotes#i love that philosophy and feel it in my gut and bones:#''if there is a higher power then it's our prerogative to be better than it''#like that quote from nation about the gods letting you down and how kneeling to them would be bowing to murderers and bullies#or the whole theme of small gods where the higher power needs to learn to care about the people he demands worship from#pratchett often returns to this theme of ''what do you do when your god(s) fail you?''#and having once felt like my god absolutely failed me - although i didn't have the words to see it like that at the time - that resonates#i've said before that that was such a revelation: those were the words of my last unanswered prayer#i have many intellectual reasons now to be an atheist but at the core it's...#if the universe is chaos then it cannot be cruel. there is no one who could have saved you but didn't for their own opaque reasons#if there is no god then no god failed me or left me drowning in despair for a whole year#small gods helped me conceptualize that in ways that defy words and literally changed my life and perspective for the better#anyway. this quote is magnificent. ''mother and child feasting upon mother and child''#and it makes so much of vetinari's character make so much sense#he looked at the world through cynical and bitter eyes but instead of becoming a nihilist who manipulated the cruel world for his own gain#he said ''we can and must be better than this''#(this is why i feel like kaz brekker - under inej's influence - should grow up to be like havelock vetinari)#(the one who clenches his fist and fucking *fixes* this goddamned place)
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