#and if we're banging then I'll split the cost of a motel room

[pinkrangerv]

I kind of wish there was a more nuanced option, because a lot of it boils down to: Is the house clean? Like yeah, way too much stuff, cool...but there's a difference between 'you have to sit on a weird pile of boxes, but there's no mold or pet dander and it's not a hazard or anything' and 'so much pet dander I am not breathing anymore'.

I'm cool visiting no matter your setup, if I can breathe. But it changes things if my allergies and asthma decide to tell my lungs to piss off.

Also, if I can't visit your house, I'm probably just gonna invite you to the library or something. I don't have a 'good at housekeeping' requirement to be friends with someone.

Assume that before you learned this, you were interested in visiting their house.

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