#and i am NOT FUCKING SAYING that aros are bound to experience romantic attraction eventually
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Incredibly subtle distinction in sonamy stuff that is completely VITAL to me being comfortable with it:
"I ran away from amy as a kid because i didn't know what relationships are REALLY like and commitment scary but now i've surrendered to it" skill issue. Amatonormative. Promotes 'wearing them down' behavior
"I ran away from amy as a kid because I straight up did not want a romantic relationship and now my feelings are different but that doesn't mean I was WRONG in the past" based and epic. Embrace change and love the current version of yourself no matter what you may become while also loving the person you used to be. Let yourself change without beating yourself up for it and you might find something you never even considered before that makes you the happiest youve ever been
Sonic needs to have a "I have changed and I'm okay with that" arc
#begging ppl to understand that orientations and preferences and feelings naturally change over time and it does not devalue ur experiences#sonamy#So sorry but zeph and ames make us have thoughts#and before anyone gets on me oh my god you can stay the same forever also im not saying you cant#and i am NOT FUCKING SAYING that aros are bound to experience romantic attraction eventually#im saying It's Okay if that DOES happen to you. yknow#anyways good sonamy is about growing up and maturing and finding yourself and feeling whole on your own and then THEN#things just fit.#its about. meeting the right person at the wrong time#but then you get to grow together!!!! FUCK!!!#and it wouldnt be the same if theyd met having already figured themselves out completely. their history man..
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Incredibly subtle distinction in sonamy stuff that is completely VITAL to me being comfortable with it:
"I ran away from amy as a kid because i didn't know what relationships are REALLY like and commitment scary but now i've surrendered to it" skill issue. Amatonormative. Promotes 'wearing them down' behavior
"I ran away from amy as a kid because I straight up did not want a romantic relationship and now my feelings are different but that doesn't mean I was WRONG in the past" based and epic. Embrace change and love the current version of yourself no matter what you may become while also loving the person you used to be. Let yourself change without beating yourself up for it and you might find something you never even considered before that makes you the happiest youve ever been
Sonic needs to have a "I have changed and I'm okay with that" arc
#begging ppl to understand that orientations and preferences and feelings naturally change over time and it does not devalue ur experiences#sonamy#So sorry but zeph and ames make us have thoughts#and before anyone gets on me oh my god you can stay the same forever also im not saying you cant#and i am NOT FUCKING SAYING that aros are bound to experience romantic attraction eventually#im saying It's Okay if that DOES happen to you. yknow#anyways good sonamy is about growing up and maturing and finding yourself and feeling whole on your own and then THEN#things just fit.#its about. meeting the right person at the wrong time#but then you get to grow together!!!! FUCK!!!#and it wouldnt be the same if theyd met having already figured themselves out completely. their history man..#addition#sonic meta#sonic#amy#advice
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