#and btw the thing I'd trying to find a reason to dislike was incest...

[dannyz-reblogs]

I really kind of hate to say it, but I was thinking about this kind of stuff a while ago and sort of dropped it because I didn't want to let myself think about it too deeply and then start hating myself because I think some things aren't as bad as the majority of people make it out to be...

There's really a whole story behind the rabbit hole I kind of went down, starting from wanting to explain to someone why something was bad, realizing I didn't actually know why said thing was bad, looking up why it was morally bad to see what other people thought about it (and, admittedly, to try and find a genuinely good reason to keep thinking it was bad), only to find other people asking the same question... And not really getting an answer... And the thing is, it's so difficult to talk about these kinds of things with others because, obviously, nobody wants to be seen as a bad person by others for questioning these sorts of things, which is thing that could probably happen. I wish there were safer spaces to actually discuss things like this without a flood of black and white thinkers invading it (people who just want to defend doing bad things and people who don't actually want to have a discussion abt this stuff and just want to hate on others for attempting to discuss things and accuse them of defending bad actions and stuff, yk)

[m3r1m4r5u333]

Ffs I cannot believe this rhetoric. No, it is in fact not "homophobic" to dislike daddy kink.

It's fucking dishonest to pretend that daddy kink is the most vanilla of all kinks which ever have kinked. Daddy kink is a pony that is packed with a hefty amount of incest and even pedophilia vibes, it is not for everyone, no matter what your sexual orientation is.

I am literally bisexual and no, I do not like daddy kink. I am into all sorts of wild stuff, which I'd rather not list here btw, but simply the age play that kinda naturally comes along with daddy kink means that I would literally rather watch or read about actual incest ships (siblings or other people just a tad closer to being peers, you know) rather than venture into the roleplay that is basically about sex between a parent and a child, however disguised it is.

"Homophobia" my ass.

Some people do not share your kinks and will continue to ship the different pairs. Deal with it. Trying to yell homophobia at people who are also shipping two men is just ridiculous.

'Ooooh but internalized homophobia then!!!'

No. I do not have to enjoy this kink. That has nothing to do with sexual orientation whatsoever. I would not like this kink one bit more if it was a straight couple or two women, or what ever combination you can think of.

It's not about the gender or sexual orientation, the issue is the kink. I don't find parental vibes hot and if that makes me 'repressed' then so be it.

Parental vibes and dominance play aren't the same thing btw. Just saying. (Since apparently I cannot actually hack do-not-overshare)

This whole "disliking-daddy-kink-is-homophobia" argument is really verging towards trying to shame people for not sharing your kinks which is not any more cool than kink shaming.

Which this post may sound like, kink shaming. I get it if you feel angry at me for talking about this kink using such a negative tone. I know the things I list as reasons for not liking this kink probably feel like reaching to many.

But that is where my mind goes every time I think of this kink and no amount of reasoning can change this ADHD brain from making leaps.

And people are trying to insert words into our mouths here so just this once, yes. I will explain why daddy kink creeps me out. Because I do not take accusations of homophobia lightly, especially ones that are like this - people trying to gaslight people against each other for not being excited about the same kinks.

And what pisses me off is queer people like me being shit-talked and shamed like we're oh-so-messed up and repressed and prejudiced and bad for not liking one fucking kink.

Sorry not sorry.