#and also more options for freedom of exploration & comparatively less judgment & also more room to experiment w modes of expression

[halfbaked00q]

we need to put James Bond more in the path of queer elders.

Like yes he may be a baby queer finally cracking open the rigid hard shell of his adult life persona to explore Other Modes of Being at 40-some odd years. But also that doesn't stop him from being one of the old guard, he still has a wealth of life experiences, and if anything.... I do think he probably either understands on an intuitive level or would quickly pick up/quickly click with the concepts of gender being Performative. So like that wouldn't be a barrier of entry, and just like. I think he would relate to queer elders better from a like comparable life stages standpoint.

but yeah basically lol, I just think it would be very instructive for him and also, like, that he'd find a lot of camaraderie with elder butches especially lmao. And especially again elder butch activists!! like, in some ways, both him & them have lived through a lifetime of wars that are not wars. And they both had to fight tooth and nail to get here today, but by god are they still alive and screaming in defiance in the face of those that would see them dead.

I think there's a lot he could relate to with them, but also, a lot he could learn from & about with them. Like, queer joy just Hits Different when you see it in queer elders.

[blindedbypluto]

BLACK PINK’S VENUS SIGNS.

k.js (venus in scorpio) :

intense. you wouldn’t catch them messing around all day. commitment is a must.

loyal. venus in scorpio are arguably THE most loyal people you’ll ever come across. cheating or dishonesty in a relationship is a huge deal breaker.

magnetic. when she walks into a room, all the heads turn her way. there’s something irresistible about her. she might even find herself having many suitors. not many will make the final cut though. she has high standards. she knows what she deserves. won’t settle for less.

control freak. i know this is a huge stereotype when it comes to scorpio placements in general but combined with her capricorn sun, she’d HATE to not be in control. this could also make her extremely possessive. 

emotional. very in tune with her emotions. her love is raw and beautiful. poetic, really. she’s someone who prioritizes her lover’s emotional well being over everything. misery loves company. she’ll keep you close and kiss the tears away.

chaser. once she sets her eyes on someone, she’ll be like “idc, they’re mine.” it takes a lot to catch her eye and after that, she’ll do everything in her will power to pursue you.

IDEAL TYPE : someone in a very powerful position (or someone who has a powerful/heavy presence). you need to have depth. poets, writers or artists are very attractive to her. she likes to yearn for you. slow burn into a relationship. she might also be into emotionally unavailable people or people who already have other partners. 

k. jn (venus in pisces) :

kind. she’s naturally an empath and a healer. could be a sister figure to people. someone very reliable and caring.

unconditionally loving. she couldn’t care less about how much money you make or your past. she looks right through it and wants to love you. the real you. she is very non judgmental and accepting.

naive. tends to give people more chances than they deserve. however, she is not emotionally weak. once she decides you are not worthy of her love, you’ll never see her again.

childlike/innocent. fantasizes about having a dreamy, disney-like romance with her partner. her aura is very cute. she likes to be taken care of. probably is touched by the smallest gestures.

sappy. she loves the same old chivalry. holding a door open for her. long cuddles. candle lit dinners. matching rings. all these make her weak.

IDEAL TYPE : someone older. or at least, someone super mature for their age. the typical knight in shining armor and damsel in distress tropes reoccur in her love life a lot. she needs her partner to be her safe place. somewhere she can relax and be at ease. needs a secure relationship where there is equal give and take. someone who’ll help them step out of their bubble and explore. someone who’ll bring out a different side in her.

l.mm (venus in aries) :

playful. unlike jennie, lisa tends to be more immature and fun-loving. she’s someone who always lightens up the mood in a room. she might find it difficult to stay serious for a long time.

leader. she’ll instinctively take control. her presence is loud. she might attract people without even trying to. 

spontaneous. i do find it true that it’s hard to pin an aries venus down. they love adventures and want something new and fresh every day. they love to learn and challenge themselves.

flirtatious. they’re natural people pleasers. their way of putting things straight or not beating around the bush is attractive. they are enthusiastic people who’ll flirt a LOT. their social skills are beyond compare.

insensitive. she finds it hard to adapt to people’s emotions well. combined with her virgo mars, she might struggle to read the room. subtlety is not an option. however, in a relationship, she tries to match her partner’s emotional needs. her pep talks can feel a little robotic at first tho :(

IDEAL TYPE : someone who is funny and witty. someone who can’t be defined with just a word and someone who constantly improves themselves. someone unpredictable yet stable. intelligence is very attractive and if you can blow her mind, then she can blow your-

p.cy (venus in aquarius) :

best friend. loving her feels like loving your best friend. you can talk to her about anything under the sky and she’ll have an opinion on it. she’s very reliable and trust worthy.

accepting. you’ll never find someone so accepting and loving like fellow aquarians. they’re humanitarians by nature. they love making people feel comfortable in their own skin. they just care. A LOT.

committed. they’re airheads and tend to come off as detached or aloof but in reality, they love deeply and are scared of getting hurt. they also won’t date around just for the sake of dating. they want the real deal. 

intellectual. some of the SMARTEST people you’ll come around. they’re very chatty. it’s because their mind goes a mile a minute. it’ll be hard to keep pace with their train of thought. 10/10 keeps you up at night to discuss human rights.

inclusive. once she starts loving you, she HAS to include you in her daily life. she’ll introduce her friends to you. life is really just incorporating you in her everyday routine.

IDEAL TYPE : someone unconventional. attracted to loners or really quiet people. you need to have a lot of common interests or you’ll lose her. secure relationships are the best. she dislikes super clingy people. she has to have a lot of freedom and breathing space.