#and I also do like hurt/comfot so first hurt and later comfort

[starwarjotta]

so angst it is

[scoundrels-in-love]

1, 3, 4 and 18 for the shipping asks?

Hi sweetheart!! Thank you for asking!

1. What was your first OTP? I think my first one would be Han and Leia, though I knew they’d be together by time I watched movies (around 10 or so). But I didn’t get super invested until much later. Though I will never forget how I screamed at my TV that ‘you will love her!!’ when Han said he’s either going to kill her or like her and my brother glared at me.

The first ship I read shitton fics of, despite not having watched original material was Jareth and Sarah from Labyrinth, courtesy of a friend. This was when I was 14.

But my first shippy ship, the sort I get invested in fandom beyond stray fanfic, was Jisbon from the Mentalist. What I joined Tumblr for and read more fics than I can count and so much meta and even rambled to my mom with. It sort of felt like my real first OTP, in every sense.

Though I do think Han and Leia technically predate and I have many feelings for them and they shaped a lot of things for me and I’ve spent countless hours on their fics as well.

3. Do you have any OT3/OT+ ships? What are your favorites?I have some OT3/OT+ ships, though usually they’re a step lower than my OTPs of same fandom. Some examples would be Steve/Nancy/Jonathan or Them + Kali from Stranger Things, while Mileven is my main OTP and I love Kali/Steve + Nancy/Jonathan as separate ships that are friends.

Also, recently been having Feelings about Jaime/Brienne/Addam from GoT.

And if, unrealistically, Rey/Finn/Poe happened, I’d be quite pleased though they’re not my primary ship.

4. What is/are your favorite trope(s)?Going to steal the answer I wrote a while ago to such question so I don’t have to retype the essay, because it’s true.

I am someone who has hard time picking favorites, but something that has stuck to me through the years, from back when I was 8 is ‘enemies (to friends) to lovers’ trope.

There’s, of course, certain balance that must be met. Some things push the enemy thing too far (r*pe, for example) and I genuinely want at least one sided appreciation/respect from the start, underneath all the bickering and snarking, even if the party denies it. From there on, it grows, so wonderfully despite being on opposite sides of things/views and gives way to begrudging respect and care and first glimpse of love and then the couple loves each other, knowing the worst of the other and how to handle it and knowing how to nourish and support the good, and it’s so damn beautiful.

Also fond of found family, deeply. And as I’ve grown older, I’ve gained much deeper appreciation for just companionship and love founded on friendship without very strong (or any) enemy phase. Usually goes hand in hand with castle sized soft pining, to be honest.

Most of the time, these tropes are actually ingrained in ship dynamics themselves, instead of adding On. So, something that only fanfic sometimes gives is Communication and Hurt/Comfot, especially emotional sort. Lot of characters I love have lot of trauma, even if it’s never properly acknowledged by canon (*cough* Leia Organa *cough*) and I like when fics do it and give them the comfort they deserve. Also self projecting/soothing for the win.

18. What is your favorite unpopular ship?Hmm, what is defined as unpopular? Something Canon that’s not widely known? Not yet canon ship? A crackship?

I’d say I’m very fond of Monrosalee despite the small fandom of Grimm from which great part shipped the male of it with show’s protagonist. It’s definitely my smallest absolutely canonical ship. Then there’s Finnrey, which is also not that large in fandom, overshadowed by bunch of other ships, but has chances of being canon and I’m going down with the ship anyway, denial fics and all, if need be.

And then there’s a crackship, which would be Stali or Staloncy (the ot4) from Stranger Things. Unfortunately, Kali has never and probably never will interact with anyone else in the ships but does that mean I am not emotional mess over them? Nope.

Send me shipping ask?

[dongsooks]

Dating Im Jaebum (JB)

@myoddeyes hope you enjoy this! Thank you for requesting!

Jaebum is not one to beat around the bush

if he likes you he let’s you know

partially because he wouldn’t want to see anyone else make moves on you

would do you it by taking you on a walk

setting the atmosphere with getting you from your apartment

and putting an arm around you

and giving you your favourite drink he bought in advance 

and some words that are a little cheesy

and compliments

you’re initial reaction would be something like

“are you drunk?”

“did someone dare you?”

and he is not amused and looks at you in a way

the way he looks at Yugyeom or Jackson when they are gettin crazy

So however then he is like

“No I am very sober and I like you a lot”

and you’re like

“I like you too”

and you’d get a little shy just bc of the situation

but he’d be like

“nOOO! DON’T BE SHY BE COMFORTABLE AROUND ME LIKE bEFORE”

okay let’s time travel

you two are dating now

i think he would see it as a necessity for you to be 100% comfotable around him

bc he is

I mean this is Im Jaebum we are talking aout he just farted while filming a show and admitted it like it’s no big deal

outside he holds at least your hand

depending on time, place and how ok you are with PDA

arm around you, pecks, hugs follow

but he keeps it mannerly

he just wants other people to know you are dating

and he would show you off 11/10

and other people looking at you? admiring you? wishing they could be your bf?

he doesn’t care

actually he likes it

and he would purposely let them stare for a while and then oull you close

again^^^^

to show you off

but HO BOI

if anyone dared to pull up and try something

~blurred outdated Mister Krabs meme but with JB’s face~

he is not having bois tryna steal his gurl

Would always be clingy afterwards

and a little peevish

this could probably lead to some heated discussions sometimes

on that topic

fights with him would be those kind of fights that start off as converations

and then get heated in like 5 minutes

and then get really heated

and both of you just pout it out and hour or two

most of the time there’s no real “Sorry” but rather both of you just being nicer to each other than usual for a day and then going back to normal

unless one of you really screwed up that is

especially if you did something

P

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T

T

Y

He. Would. Be. So. P E T T Y

like ooookay example

you met with a friend and wanted to meet Jaebum at the dorm afterwards

you were into the convo missed the time

alright, okay

or not okay bc you arrive 20 minutes late and are like

“OMG I’m sorry we talked so animatedly I forgot the time!”

and he woul be pissed and bitch at you

and you’d say sorry and he would say it’s okay

and tell himself that

Jaebum you are a grown, successful man and she just forgot it. That happens to the best of us. Don’t be resentful!

but no matter how much he told himself

whY Did YOU foRGet thE tiME taLKing OH SO ANIMATEDLY to SUSAN yoU coULD HAVE TALK ANIMatedLY TO HIM IF YOU WOULD HAVE ARRIVED IN TIME

and he wouldn’t wanna admit

but tbh baby him and he will melt and be alright

still pouty

but alright

okay okay okay

on the subject of babying

he would baby the crap out of you

be prepared

a lot of kisses

and constantly hugging you

and you’re the little spoon

one time you wanted to be the big spoon

and he laughed at you

while wrapping his limbs around you

nice try

okay he is the type to

hold you close and kiss you deeply and then look you in the eyes and say something really romantic

“I love you so much. Every song I write for the rest of my life could be about you and I would not nearly run out of words to express my admiration towards you”

and you stand there teary eyes

and suddly he farts and is like

“that’s the spicy stew from earlier ignore that”

way to ruin the moment

loves calling you ridiculous pet names

Honeycrunch

creampuff sugar pie

sugarplum pumpy umpy umpkin

He would not always like to get up in the morning

and if you attemtped to get him out by kisses and hugs

he would just pull you into the bed and roll onto you and refuse

so sometimes you just start playing Bounce

he would be up in 0.001 seconds

He would love to take you out

and see you all made up

and would always take pictures of you

like he has 1700 Pictures on his phone and 700 are of you

and he still has 1000 of other people and things just bc he has a life and stuff

but still damn 700 that’s a lot

he would also take a picture of you sleeping in the weirdest positiong an from a bad angle with your hair a mess and your mouth open

and make it his bg

and you are like

“Are you aware of how many people will see this ugly ass picture of me?”

and once you deleted it while he was asleep but nice try he knew you would do that and sent it to Jinyoung so he could send it to himself again bc according to him it is cute :)

He is also the type to say

“Watch your fucking profanity!”

when you said “Damn it” in front of the maknae line after you spilled some tea

There would be evenings you massage his shoulders and back while he tells you about his day, who and what annoyed him

and also what stresses him out generally

and then he would kiss you hands and turn around to kiss you

bc

he is just so damn thankful for you!!!!!

one time you won a bet against Youngjae and got to flick his head

and JB didn’t talk to you for a day bc

“How dare you hurt my favourite child?”

okay one things I cannot, will not get over is:

imagine drunk!JB

would throw his arm around you and be so damn clingy

and would keep slurring love confessions

and tell you stories

but like

would tell you the story of how he confessed to you or your first date etc

and you’re just like

“I know”

and he would be so shook like

“Woah you’re such a magician! I am dating a truly amazing person. A real fortuneteller or something!”

ofc he is

he would be so confident about meeting your parents

because he knows he has A+ manners, money, looks and is very charismatic

and he would want to meet them early on in the relationship he gives me those vibes

and he would want to show you to his parents about equally quick.

he would want to move together too

like he would want marriage without the marriage part yet

and if you don’t like cats

too bad

because you have two

and then one night he comes home later than he was supposed to

and you are worried bc it’s cold and stormy outside and then he walks in

and has a bundle in his arms and is like

“I found it outside it was all alone I couldn’t leave it there”

now you have three cats

Overall: Dating Jaebum would be an exprience. Fun would definitely not come short, nor would affection. He feels the need to overall create a comfortable atmosphere. He would love to make you feel save and would be attuned to your feelings and make sure you know about his.

[cody-with-a-lightsaber]

Dude I was just glancing by and had to back track to the first frame cuz I was thinking "Oh its a Cody comic-" then I saw the way he was lying in bed and the way he's positioned with his had n everything is just-

Very well done. It tells so much with one image

so angst it is