#am i vagueposting about something on my dash? yes
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knifeslidez · 9 months ago
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some days i see takes on this site that make me wonder if some of yall exist in reality
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hyperionswrath-a · 2 years ago
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its always upsetting to see a loved RPer leave but it does seem like it might be best! i thought something might be up when you put up a DNI and started vagueposting even though it was actively against yr rules. the rpc must be crazy rn!!!
Came back to export this blog and exchange discords with some people when I saw this and felt the need to reply real quick before I log off again for good. Firstly just let me say that my rules always stated that “excessive vagueing” would get people blocked. I never did that, which I can say with confidence, so I don't think I ever acted against my own rules at any point in time. I also just gently want to clarify if I (or other people for that matter) remind their mutuals of their rules, especially if there has been an increase of disregard for said rules, it is not vagueing. Neither is venting about stressful situations or referencing something in a post or the tags that has been explained in more detail before.
Vagueing means being literally vague about another person, or reacting in a vague (and negative) way to something that happened on the dash. For example: “Some people sure know how to make you feel bad. If you’re replying to someone but our thread is not being touched for weeks, I know what to make of this and it’s not cool” or “Seeing certain people writing the same muse is giving me so much anxiety because of how I see them come off ooc” or, depending on the situation, even a “Oh yeah cool, aight I guess”
To make some examples up out from the top of my head. Vagueing also has a time component and is usually a kneejerk reaction to something that happened shortly before, rarely more than say about a day or two prior to a vague post. It’s important to me to clarify this, because confusing venting/reminding of rules with vagueing waters down the actual problem that vagueing is to the point where everyone that is being mistreated has to be compliant just so there will be no negativity on dash, ever (which, as I said before, would be sweet but again: Where there are people, there will be conflicts, it’s simply human nature). 
Now as for my last and final post I made - if that is what you mean by me vagueing, again, this is not what that was. I explained why I am leaving the rpc behind and one of the reasons is some people’s behavior, yes. I did not name drop anyone because that would be an asshole thing to do right in the lane of senselessly stirring shit up, and there is nothing to be fixed or done anyway because again, I am leaving the rpc behind. Still, my mutuals deserve an explanation because not everyone is online 24/7 on tumblr.com (or shouldn’t be), and also timezones are a component. Also, again, as I said in my post, my decision has not been out of spite, or anger, but for the reasons I explained in said post including things that have cummulated over months.
I hope this puts things into perspective a little and resolves any confusion.
I can only repeat what I always said - the final fantasy rpc has always been a safe haven for me. My (recent) problems are not a reflection of everyone’s experience and I honestly hope communication will become better between writers again because this rpc deserves it.
As for other rpcs… I wish I never dipped my toes in, but that’s also in the past. Sorry I took your message and rambled away a little, but I have had very intense talks with friends about these things and I think it can only help to remind everyone seeing this that it is okay to be firm about your boundaries and rules, to vent when you need to, but that being vague as per my examples above will eventually cause problems that may not be resolved anymore.
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yamisedai-a · 4 years ago
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RULES
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MUTUALS ONLY:
this blog is highly selective/private & mutuals only for my own comfort. i’ve had some bad tumblr experiences in the past and i’d rather not have any more. i will only rp with you if you are 18+!!
NSFW THEMES:
gore and sexual content may appear on this blog, these themes will always be tagged as 'tw: nsfw'. similarly, any common triggers will also be tagged accordingly on the blog: 'tw: blood', etc. if you have any triggers or need something tagged, please just ask! i personally do not have any triggers that need to be tagged and if i do, i can filter them myself.
FOLLOWING // UNFOLLOWING:
if i follow you, i want to write with you! it also means i’ve taken the time to read over your rules and i hope you would do me the same courtesy. if i follow you and you do not follow back after about a week, i will respectfully unfollow.
DUPLICATES:
while i respect everyone’s individual portrayals, i tend to be a little self conscious about my portrayals. it’s a habit i am trying to break. if we’re good friends and get to talking ooc i am more willing to write with dupes. generally i am pretty okay with them. 
CANON DIVERGENT:
i try and stay as true as i possibly can to any character's canon, however i am human and i do not agree with all canon scenarios that are portayed on screen. if there are any canon divergences with miroku, they will be noted further in their respective verses/info tab.
TRACKING // TAGGING:
tracking/tagging: yamisedai
TOXIC // NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR:
vagueposting, constant negativity untagged, or hate of any kind will get you unfollowed or blocked. i do not tolerate any kind of toxic behavior. if i see it? bye. accordingly, if you’ve broken any rules that i have listed here as well, that will also possibly result in a consequence of the same result.
OC FRIENDLY // SELECTIVE FANDOMLESS:
i’m open to different verses and aus with some characters that i know the fandoms of. however, this blog will only be within inuyasha majorly. THOUGH I LOVE OC’S! if you follow me, and i do not see my character and your character interacting/or if i have to do a lot of research on the fandom/character and it is hard to find the information on your blog/wiki, i may not follow back.
MULTI. - PARA. // NOVELLA:
i write single, semi, and multi para. sometimes i write novels hahah. sue me. but you never have to match my length! and if you have any issues with the length, just shoot me a message! you are also ALWAYS welcomed to shorten a reply if the threads are getting lengthy, all i ask is that you do give me something to work with.
THREAD FORMAT:
i am not big on aesthetics. i find it time consuming to edit replies with the little time i do have. i like my tiny text and one icon-- but if you don’t use any formatting or go the extra mile, i don’t mind! i am fine roleplaying in whatever context that you are, even if you don’t format at all! i do have astigmatisms in both my eyes. sometimes small text hurts to read. especially later in the evening, when i do most of my writing, but i can always zoom!
NO REBLOGS OF THREADS:
personals - do not reblog threads! you are welcome on this blog, feel free to like threads and posts, however if you reblog them, it messes with my notifications and makes it EXTREMELY hard to find things. I will usually give a warning once, after that i will block.
MAINS // EXCLUSIVES:
i do instill mains and exclusives. mains will take priority in threads/asks/etc. i will have around 2-4 of each canon character- a list will be added soon on the bonds tab! don’t be scared of the list! and if you’re interested in becoming a main, just shoot me a message to discuss it!
MUSE PORTRAYAL:
i do not own miroku or claim to own him! muse does not = mun! & i’m also not here for drama, politics, or ship wars-- just fun and creativity-- that’s all. anything that happens in character does not reflect me as the mun! miroku may be mad at your muse but i am not mad at you!
REMINDERS:
while they are fine, excessive pestering will also resort in a not happy vicki, i'll probably ask you to chill & if you don't, it will result in a block.
NO GOD-MODDING:
don’t godmod, powerplay, you know-- all that good stuff. if you have a concern you would like to address about myself or my blog, please come and speak with me. my dms and tumblr ims are always open.
RP ETIQUETTE:
i am not a meme or aesthetic source! i am very happy you like the content that i am posting on my blog, but please reblog from the SOURCE. it’s common courtesy and very much appreciated, not only from myself but many roleplayers!!!
MUN:
hi there! thank you so much for reading all of this! it really means a lot! my name is vicki, please just vicki--not vikki, viki, vicky, vickie, etc. the spelling of my name kinda bothers me since there are like a million of me in this world/it is my actual name and yes, i am very icky.
i’m 28, she/her, est, basically married & i work 40+ hrs a week as a banker. please be patient with me on work days! usually when i work i am only available in the evening. you can always find me on discord and tumblr ims for plots and chit chat though! if you do not already have my discord, please feel free to shoot me a message and ask. i'm not really one for drops on the dash or anything. i love making shit, even if i think i suck at it hahaha. if you ever need icons or screencaps, i am open to helping you out, if i have the time!!
this is not my only blog on tumblr! i am also pretty active within the star wars fandom, i have a multi where you can find more inuyasha muses & i have a rwby blog currently on hiatus. if i am not here, you can find me on those blogs!! if you have any questions please do not hesitate to ask! thank you for taking the time to read this!! i truly appreciate it and you! <3
blogs: @sundragcn, @greyfulcrum, @anchoredstowaways​
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seiinaru-a · 4 years ago
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MUTUALS ONLY:
this blog is highly selective/private & mutuals only sideblog attached to @curseled​ !! 
NSFW THEMES:
gore and dark themes may appear on this blog, these themes will always be tagged as ‘tw: nsfw’. similarly, any common triggers will also be tagged accordingly on the blog: 'tw: blood’, etc. if you have any triggers or need something tagged, please just ask! i personally do not have any triggers that need to be tagged and if i do, i can filter them myself. **no nsfw as of now! this is a smol boy!! D:
FOLLOWING // UNFOLLOWING:
if i follow you, i want to write with you! it also means i’ve taken the time to read over your rules and i hope you would do me the same courtesy. if i follow you and you do not follow back after about a week, i will respectfully unfollow. // follows will come from curseled!!
TRACKING // TAGGING:
tracking/tagging: seiinaru
TOXIC // NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR:
vagueposting, constant negativity untagged, or hate of any kind will get you unfollowed or blocked. i do not tolerate any kind of toxic behavior. if i see it? bye. accordingly, if you’ve broken any rules that i have listed here as well, that will also possibly result in a consequence of the same result.
OC FRIENDLY // SELECTIVE FANDOMLESS:
i’m open to different verses and aus with some characters that i know the fandoms of. however, this blog will only be within inuyasha majorly. THOUGH I LOVE OC’S! if you follow me, and i do not see my character and your character interacting/or if i have to do a lot of research on the fandom/character and it is hard to find the information on your blog/wiki, i may not follow back.
MULTI. - PARA. // NOVELLA:
i write single, semi, and multi para. sometimes i write novels hahah. sue me. but you never have to match my length! and if you have any issues with the length, just shoot me a message! you are also ALWAYS welcomed to shorten a reply if the threads are getting lengthy, all i ask is that you do give me something to work with.
THREAD FORMAT:
i am not big on aesthetics. i find it time consuming to edit replies with the little time i do have. i like my tiny text and one icon– but if you don’t use any formatting or go the extra mile, i don’t mind! i am fine roleplaying in whatever context that you are, even if you don’t format at all! i do have astigmatisms in both my eyes. sometimes small text hurts to read. especially later in the evening, when i do most of my writing, but i can always zoom!
NO REBLOGS OF THREADS:
personals - do not reblog threads! you are welcome on this blog, feel free to like threads and posts, however if you reblog them, it messes with my notifications and makes it EXTREMELY hard to find things. I will usually give a warning once, after that i will block.
MAINS // EXCLUSIVES:
i do instill mains and exclusives. mains will take priority in threads/asks/etc. i will have around 2-4 of each canon character- a list will be added soon on the bonds tab! don’t be scared of the list! and if you’re interested in becoming a main, just shoot me a message to discuss it!
REMINDERS:
while they are fine, excessive pestering will also resort in a not happy vicki, i’ll probably ask you to chill & if you don’t, it will result in a block.
NO GOD-MODDING:
don’t godmod, powerplay, you know– all that good stuff. if you have a concern you would like to address about myself or my blog, please come and speak with me. my dms and tumblr ims are always open.
RP ETIQUETTE:
i am not a meme or aesthetic source! i am very happy you like the content that i am posting on my blog, but please reblog from the SOURCE. it’s common courtesy and very much appreciated, not only from myself but many roleplayers!!!
MUN:
hi there! thank you so much for reading all of this! it really means a lot! my name is vicki, please just vicki–not vikki, viki, vicky, vickie, etc. the spelling of my name kinda bothers me since there are like a million of me in this world/it is my actual name and yes, i am very icky.
i’m 28, she/her, est, basically married & i work 40+ hrs a week as a banker. please be patient with me on work days! usually when i work i am only available in the evening. you can always find me on discord and tumblr ims for plots and chit chat though! if you do not already have my discord, please feel free to shoot me a message and ask. i’m not really one for drops on the dash or anything. i love making shit, even if i think i suck at it hahaha. if you ever need icons or screencaps, i am open to helping you out, if i have the time!!
this is not my only blog on tumblr! i am also pretty active within the star wars fandom, i have a multi where you can find more inuyasha muses & i have a rwby blog currently on hiatus. if i am not here, you can find me on those blogs!! if you have any questions please do not hesitate to ask! thank you for taking the time to read this!! i truly appreciate it and you! <3
blogs: @curseled​, @sundragcn, @greyfulcrum, @anchoredstowaways
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beyondthetemples · 5 years ago
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{{ “Be Honest” mun meme
{{ Questions list taken from here:
https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard/blog/hellhaeths/182092480007
What would prevent you from following someone? Not trigger-tagging, or not using cuts for ns//fw scenes. (I have really intense emet*phobia, so if you don't tag for that, or won't tag for it upon request, I absolutely cannot follow. Savior catches most posts for me, even if they're not tagged, but there are just So Many Euphemisms and Various Ways to Describe It that it only works 75% of the time.)
Are aesthetics important to you? If they are, why? As far as blog theme, not really-- I just like fiddling around to find something that evokes their General Vibe, and seeing what themes other muns like! I won't judge by them though. When it comes to thread aesthetics, I actually prefer to leave them utterly unformatted and plain-text as possible. I have ADHD and Fancy Unicode and Symbols and All That makes it really hard for me to focus on what's going on in the thread, not to mention I don't have the attention span to match another mun's Styling like that. (Also, fun fact: I always have my Tumblr Dash at 75% zoom, and Dove’s theme already has text at a Very Readable Size, so nothing ever needs to be Smallified for me.)
What current rp trend do you hate? I don't think there are any I "hate", though I get confused on all the Different Verses that everyone has. (In all my years of writing fanfic, I've only ever written Exactly One (1) AU, and I never read them outside of rp. AUs just aren't my thing.)
How do you explain rp to someone in the real world? "Taking turns writing what the characters are doing." Everyone afk has been pretty supportive. (They all know I'm a writer, so like... it's Nothing New.)
Do you prefer interacting with male muses or female more? Why? I genuinely don't care either way! Guy, gal, nonbinary pal: as long as they're fun to write with, I don't mind a bit. (And Dove has no preference, either.)
Do you prefer writing male muses or female more? Why? Statistically, I have 3 female muses (4 if we count Evangeline as her own person and not just A Part of Dove Manifested)... and only 1 male. (And technically, both Srentha and Leyla are genderqueer, so it's really only Dove and Kary that are cis women.) But that's not intentional? Evangeline is feminine because Dove is feminine, and Kary was originally my girlfriend's-- if she was a male I still would've hardcore adopted him. It just kind of worked out that way. I just enjoy writing people, not gender roles.
Name any three things about the rpc that bother you. 1.) The aforementioned Verse Thing. (It doesn't really bother me, I'm just easily confused by Similar-Except-Vaguely-Different Things due to the ADHD.) 2.) Some people still don't know that godmodding isn't okay. 3.) The distaste for OCs??? I guess that doesn't exactly "bother" me either, because people are allowed to have preferences... but, I mean, I spent several years active in, and then Actually Running, a group of 1300 members on dA completely DEDICATED to OCs, and it was a blast, so I just don't understand why people don't like rping with them as much as canon characters. I personally find OCs more satisfying to explore, more surprising in every thread because you just don't know what to expect, and you have a LOT more freedom for plotting and reactions! Like! You can Shed the Constraints of Canon and Revel in your Newfound OC-Based Freedom!! Truly Become your Character's GOD!!!
What is your opinion on exclusivity? Do you practice it? Why / why not? Nah, I love the variety different muns can bring to the same muse! Other people can stay exclusive if they like. Being an OC mun, it doesn't exactly affect me. 8F
Have you ever had a bad experience with commissions? As either someone who makes them or as someone who buys them? (I don't really know how this pertains to RP?) But there was one time when someone gave me a really vague commission request, out of the blue, for a fandom I know absolutely nothing about, and just kept saying things like "Whatever you think they'd do!" when I asked for plot, characterization, or preference details... I never finished it because I Didn't Even Know how to START.
What do you know now about rp that you wish you knew when you first started? The reply doesn't have to be perfect. Or dramatic, even. Not every reply is going to shatter someone's heart or absolutely make their day. And that's perfectly okay!
Have you been involved in drama? Do you regret it? Nnnnot on Tumblr. (There was a LOT of drama amongst admins of the dA group, which strongly attributed to the decline of me RPing on dA, but I definitely do not regret standing up for myself. I do wish I'd been able to foresee it, though, and brought someone else on staff who was actually going to, you know, do the job they applied for?)
Have you ever thought about leaving rp? What caused it? What changed your mind? Never! Well not on Tumblr anyways. There was a period where my favorite partners were all going inactive, and I couldn't find anyone who wanted to interact with Dove, so of course I was despairing, wondering if I'd ever get to explore what I wanted to explore with her. But then I decided, you know what, so what if I can't find any canon Titans to advance her Tumblr timeline? I'll just fill in the blanks with fanfic canon, and work from there! Making that decision was so freeing.
Do you think rp has had a positive or negative affect on your life or you as a person? Oh, positive, absolutely. I may be too busy to really attend to it much nowadays, but my writing style has improved DRAMATICALLY, I've made so many friends, and I've learned things about Dove that I never would've discovered in the stories alone. (Or at least, it might've been discovered on a ten-year delay. 8F)
How has rp changed you personally? I was able to find fast friends, make connections with people over common interests, and my very first experience with leadership happened because I hung around a TTOC dA chatroom (because, specifically, I’d gotten ADDICTED to rp), came to love the people and characters, and decided, when the current admins had to step down, I would like to step up.
If you could change one thing about rp on tumblr, what would it be? Why? I'd like tags to stop breaking, that'd be nice. (But that’s an issue with Tumblr itself, not the rps.)
Have you ever sent a message to yourself on anon? Why? Pff, no. Mostly because if I really want something to happen, I'll either post an open, OR I'll do what I'm doing here, and just answer the questions myself. 8F I have a lot of fun doing this with headcanon question lists.
Have you ever sent hate to yourself on anon? Why? No, but that's because I'm all about learning (+spreading) positive self-talk, de-escalation, and avoiding drama. Drama doesn't serve anyone.
Do you delete anon hate or post and address it? Why? I address it and then block the sender, because I want everyone to know I don't stand for that. And I have this stubborn streak about standing up for myself, so, you know... Gotta Address It First. (And I've defended Dove from Mary Sue accusations since I started posting about her in 2006, so it doesn't bother me, but I love pointing out all the reasons that, Jack Rider voice: You Are Wrong!)
Have you ever felt pressured to write something you weren’t comfortable with? Nope, but that's because if I can't or don't want to, I'm open and transparent about it. (Not on Tumblr, anyways. There was one particular person in the dA chats that kept trying to make RPs All About His Muse, but we shut that down too.)
Have you ever followed someone because you felt like you had to, not because you wanted to? Hell no! I've never Automatically Followed Back, and it's right there in my rules, I need a little communication before I start interacting.
What would make you block someone? Anon hate, reblogging/replying to rps that don't involve them, starting their own rps on my posts, Bad Takes in the Tags, shipping something I genuinely can't stand... I use the block button pretty liberally. I just don't need that stuff in my life, in my tags, or on my dash.
Have you ever stolen something from someone else? Well I have adopted a couple of headcanons re: Canon Characters from the teentitansheadcanons blog. (Like hc that, one time, Beast Boy was a bug and someone almost squished him, so now they put all the bugs outside, just in case. I love that for some reason, so I adopted it.) And every now and again I'll see something in fanfic I like: Azarath Has Two Suns, I saw that in a fanfic and it just felt so RIGHT, so I adopted that too. But, I mean, rping as an OC, there's really not a lot I can steal. 8F
Have you ever had something stolen from you? If so, how did you handle it? Not on Tumblr, but somebody once stole a picture of Srentha from dA and used it in a random webs-page blog about their dreams? ??? I have no idea why they used him, or how they even fOUND him, but I kinda just shrugged and let it go.
Are you open to duplicates? Why / why not? (Isn't this basically the same question as "are you exclusive"? Because I have the same answer. I am, because I like seeing other muns' interpretations of the same character.)
How do you feel about vague posting? Use your own judgement for your own blog, but it's not something I do myself. If I have to vaguepost to vent something, I'll usually go on a more private blog, or at least stick it under a Read More.
Do you follow people even if they don’t follow you back? Yes! I like reading rps almost as much as I like writing them.
Do you read people’s rules before following or interacting? Always.
What is your opinion on “reblog karma” and do you practice it? I try to! Sometimes I can't figure out what to send in for the blog I get in from, but most of the time, I'll send something any time I reblog something. I really appreciate it when people send something in before reblogging from me, personally. c: (I get it if you can’t or don’t want to. But it sure is nice!)
How have you responded to popular slang used on tumblr? Do you use it in every day life? Do you use it at all? Not really, but I rarely use slang at all. Unless I'm actually talking about rp, muses, muns, etc, then I'll use those words.
Is there something you don’t know the meaning of but you haven’t asked anyone because you think it’s supposed to be general knowledge? Was there ever something you had to ask someone to explain? I'm that Ravenclaw who always asks questions as soon as I encounter I don't know, and I don't use words without knowing what they mean. Kinda defeats the purpose of words that way.
Have you ever experienced discrimination? Well, Dove has, since people have that "I don't like OCs" mindset. Or "she's related to a canon character, so she's automatically a Mary Sue". It's not as big of a Discrimination as sexism or racism, don't get me wrong! But it HAS limited our scope of interaction, and I personally think it’s a little unfair to make judgments like that.
How do you feel about personal blogs following your rp blog? Go for it.
Have you ever cried while writing a reply? Mmmmaybe once? More often my heartrate just raises a little in an exciting moment, or I write out a ten-paragraph response in a one-hour fit of delighted manic wordsmithing, but I've definitely been touched. (I'm just... not very good at crying when I'm focused on writing. 8F)
Do you read other people’s threads or do you only read your own? There's definitely a bias towards my own! (Before my EHD died, I had about a hundred and fifty rps saved as word documents.) But I also enjoy reading others' threads.
What’s one thing that other people seem to hate that doesn’t bother you? Hmm...Spelling and grammatical errors. When I was copying chat rps to word docs, I started editing the replies for readability, and that habit kinda transferred to Tumblr, so when I'm not in a hurry, or I have an Unusually Long Attention Span, when I copy the replies, sometimes I'll just edit them, but I'm not mad about it. Just got into that habit.
How do you feel about tagging triggers? Do you tag them? How do you determine what is triggering content and what isn’t? It is absolutely ESSENTIAL for me to have triggers tagged for ME, so of course I extend the same courtesy to others. I don't presume to know what triggers people; I've made it very clear that if anyone needs something tagged, they just have to ask, and I'll tag it. No questions asked. (Though if they want to vent about it, I'm open to that too.)
What advice would you give to someone new to rp? Just GO for it! I know it can be scary and intimidating and overwhelming to see a great writer and think, "Gosh I want to interact with them So Much".. .and you know what, sometimes you will get rejected. Sometimes you just won't mesh with muns. Sometimes your characters don't have a very exciting dynamic. But you'll never find those Goldmine RP Partners if you don't at least ASK.
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thatmudblood · 7 years ago
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13 6 reasons why I DON’T FOLLOW YOU.
because it doesn’t mean I don’t want to RP with you
This one is the basic one. Following means I see you on my dash. I’ll get to the MY DASH.exe part of the story, so please follow me a little longer if you might. I’m not mutual-exclusive.
because you don’t cut your posts
I love you. I know some of you roleplay through mobile and you don’t have the option to cut it. I know some of you don’t even know how to do the cutting thing. It’s not against you. It’s that I don’t want to scroll forever. It’s a matter of scrolling. I see me scrollin’ I hatin’. I STILL WANT TO ROLEPLAY WITH YOU. I JUST DON’T WANT THAT ON MY DASH.
Extra: But Vic! I’ve always wanted to cut them but I don’t know how to do it! Come to me and I’ll explain.
because you’re a super multi multi muse (yes, multi multi, twice)
And now the crowd goes like VIC HOW COULD YOU, MULTIMUSES DESERVE ALL THE LOVE AND YOU’RE A HORRIBLE PERSON. Well you’re right in both, they’re awesome and I AM a piece of shit, but that’s not the issue here. The thing is, I read all of your RPs if I follow you. Yes. All of them. I don’t just go through my dash, I read the things you write. That’s why I’m staying on tumblr, because I get to read awesome stories! Following me so far? Well, the thing is, if you play a lot of characters from a lot of fandoms I don’t know, I won’t understand a thing of what you write, and I’ll be less interested. I’ll skip your posts because I won’t understand and I don’t want that. I want to read. I want to be invested in what you write with your partner. You happen to be a multi with characters from fandoms I like? Then I’ll follow. Does that mean I DON’T WANT TO ROLEPLAY WITH YOU? No.
because you only post/mostly post ooc
‘ok i’m gonna take a shower and tackle some replies!’ ‘OMG such a long shift today and i have so many drafts!’ ‘i’m not feeling the drafts but send me memes?’ ‘i can’t believe INSERT CHARACTER NAME gets so little love when they’re so awesome’.
I’m sorry. I’m so sorry, but no. I am REALLY sorry. I post OOC too, but for gods sake, I’m here to read RP. AGAIN, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be doing it. I’m not telling you how you should run your blog, that’s not the issue here. You wanna tell us about your life more than you feel like rping? Please do so. But I won’t follow you. Nothing against you, or against what you do, it’s about my dash. You should post all the OOC you want!! I’m here to read your roleplays. The crowd now goes ‘But Vic, why don’t you just blacklist their OOC tag?’ --- because I don’t want to? I still wanna read the OOC things, but not if they’re 90% of the blog itself. I STILL WANT TO RP WITH YOU. I just don’t want that on my dash.
because your muse’s backstory implies my character did something i’m not ok with
Difficult part. Let me explain with an example for my character: Harry’s siblings. Judging by the amount of ocs, Lily had a pretty decent sexual life because dear lord this place is filled with children of theirs. But Vic, do you have something against Potter OCs? No, actually no. I love my 7987485 childs. I do have something against them when they contradict directly my views on Lily. What did you say? That James and Lily abandoned the child to the care of whothefuckever? That they found some misterious way to protect the child but not to Harry? No. From the bottom of my heart, no. If they have two kids, they love both. They protect both, in every way they can. That one applies to all of your characters that assume things about Lily. It’s a matter of how are we going to write and not about YOUR CHARACTER, I probably love it and would love to read your rping with another Lily that matches your backstory. But for the sake of interacting, I’d rather not follow you. 
because you vaguepost and drama drama drama
I’m too old to care. that’s all.
tl;dr i still want to roleplay with you but I won’t follow you for the sake of a clean dash. and since i’m not mutuals-exclusive, you can ask me to rp without waiting for me to follow you back.
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