#also with the telekinetic sex and the nipplegasms

[parishthethought]

I occasionally get amused at the whole "men are all one-pump chumps / women all take three hours to come and require you to no-scope a one mm square area on the side of the clit" stereotype, given how little it reflects my own experience.

I (AMAB, flitting between GNC cis and some flavor of not interested in taking hormones about it nonbinary) have a good deal more trouble with not coming at all than I do with coming early, which is useful in some cases but isn't a whole lot of fun. And similarly most of my female partners have gotten off easily and frequently (with partners in general and not just me, though I do think I'm better than most at getting to know people's bodies in a way that helps with that). Like one of the more difficult cases was my first girlfriend, who only came from clitoral stimulation, but did so relatively easily - we eventually figured out that the way to make this work with PiV was a vibrating cock ring. But like it's kind of gotten to the point where I wonder if I'm doing something wrong if I can't get a regular partner to come at least once within the first minute.