#also this is the first thing I’ve gotten in my ask box 🥹

[toxicfrogbite]

SEND THIS TO TEN OTHER BLOGGERS YOU THINK ARE WONDERFUL. KEEP THE GAME GOING 🥰

Omg omg thank you so much AHHHHHH!!!!!!

This has truly made my day thank you so so very much!!!!! 😭😭😭💖💖💖

*Much smooches for my bestie*

☆😚💞☆

[justaaveragereader]

Helloooo! I've been on Tumblr for years now and l've been really enjoying your fics!!! Your blog is so warm and welcoming!!! Lol it's a little embarrassing but l've read all of your fics! (I know ppl here say to reblog and like fics and I agree but l've never found the confidence to do so. Anonymity has gotten me through my social anxiety while still being able to do human to human interactions) So in other words I'm sorry for no hearts and reblogs But just know l've loved every single one and I've just caught up and read everything today! I will say your writing has improved, but I'll forever love The 8 evil thoughts! The world building, the twists and turns, the mind boggling of it all!!! It will truly be my favorite series! I just love how "evil" Ateez is painted to be but in the end being the ones that have been wronged from the beginning! And for real though I've never hated a "y/n" character more! Like damn they made me audiblv scream at their actions! And just love how "evil" Ateez is painted to be but in the end being the ones that have been wronged from the beginning! And for real though l've never hated a "y/n" character more! Like damn they made me audibly scream at their actions! And tbh it was so rewarding for Yunho to be the one to off them in the end! Gosh I could talk about this fic series for hours! But I won't bore you with what I hope you already know! You did an amazing job in the world building and the character creation! And I hope you are truly proud of such a masterpiece!

- Yours truly, an avid fan/reader💛

I’m about to bite steeeeel rn!!! First I don’t even know where to begin😭thank you, thank you, thank youuu🖤🖤! Just the fact you said my blog is welcoming and warm, that’s the first thing I strive for tbh! It’s not embarrassing that you’ve read them all! If anything that makes me squeal!!! I always feel like I don’t have enough work posted but at times I’m like ugh..I hope this enough for ppl to read!

On my fics I never try to post “like, reblog, or etc..” or anything of that nature bc I don’t want anyone to feel pressured to do any of that…I just want ppl to read and enjoy it! Thank you for saying my writing has improved, I feel the same, but it’s so nice to hear it from others🖤! I’m working to improve it everyday!

T8ET will always be my fav work I’ve ever written, I took so much time and put so much thought into writing that fic, my biggest accomplishment was making y/n the most hated😭😂! I felt it was three sides to that story in the fic, someone is always painted a villain in someone else’s story, so I felt it was time that we saw the “villains” pov, they got handed that title for doing what they felt was best. Yunhos redemption ark will forever be my favorite thing! You could never bore me🖤, know that! I’m always happy to discuss my fics with ppl, especially readers who pay attention to the small details, always my fav thing to do🖤!!

Even tho you have social anxiety, which as someone who also has social anxiety, I say this with nooo pressure, I hope this won’t be the first nor last time I hear from you I say hoping that doesn’t pressure you, don’t be a stranger, I’m so happy you slide into my ask box to leave this masterpiece🥹🖤, thank you babes, thank you😚🖤!!

[lynzishell]

List 5 facts about a favorite sim of yours, and send this to 10 simblrs whose sims you adore ♥♥♥

TYSM for this ask!!! 💖

Okay! Up next from last week’s poll is my MC: ✨Phoenix Realta✨

❄️He loves to cook… as you may have guessed considering he’s always the one cooking every meal.  But… a little background (and I’ll split this into two)… He grew up poor and his mom wasn’t big on cooking, so the times when his kitchen was stocked, it consisted of a lot of frozen and canned/boxed meals like soup, tuna, mac and cheese, and frozen pizza. His favorite thing growing up was peanut butter and banana on toast. He’d toast the bread so that the peanut butter would be all melty and gooey.

❄️He learned how to cook properly from Julian during the year he lived with him in Copperdale. It was the only real quality time they spent together, but they both really enjoyed it. When Phoenix moved to the city, he fell in love with the variety of food and restaurants available. He started collecting cookbooks and watching cooking shows to learn more and more complicated recipes. It can be difficult to cook for only 1-2 people, so it’s nice that Atlas and Asher come over for dinner every Sunday. (fun fact: all of these things are very important to the future of Aspen’s story btw)

❄️The man cannot sit still. He’s even worse than Dawn in that regard. He always needs to be doing something. He actually misses the days when he was training and climbing to prepare for the Mt. Komorebi excursion. It kept him busy and active all the time. After that was over, it was kind of a bittersweet moment, like he didn’t know what to do with himself. So, he got into running. Luckily, Aspen keeps him quite busy now, but he still runs every day, rain or shine.

❄️He is very much addicted to coffee and has been for years. He likes it strong and black. He can’t start his day without it, and he drinks multiple cups throughout the day, especially at work. At this point, he can barely function without it and gets really bad headaches if he goes a day without a cup.

❄️And, of course, he’s a new father! And he is soooo happy! Aspen is a lot of work, but like I said, Phoenix always needs to be up doing something, so he’s happy to be taking care of her. He’s just so grateful she’s finally here. 🥹 And honestly, he’s pretty bummed about having to go back to work sooner than expected. I think there’s a part of him that would’ve loved to be the one staying home with Aspen. Once Dawn mentioned wanting to stay home, I think a part of him wanted to say that he does too and maybe she should be the one to go back since she makes more money. Instead, he signed himself up for a more demanding, higher paying, career path, and cut his own time at home short, so that he could support Dawn in staying home with their daughter. It’s in his nature to put her first, and he genuinely wants to do whatever he can to make her happy, that’s his priority, but I don’t think we should ignore the immense sacrifice he's making. He doesn’t want to be away from Aspen or miss out on any big moments in her development any more than Dawn does, but he also doesn’t feel right about taking that away from her. My heart kinda aches for him a little, y’know.

I love him so much! And it’s been too long since I’ve gotten in his head and done a proper character development exercise for him, so I really enjoyed this! TYSM for sending me this ask!! 🫶🏻

[dreamerwriternstargazer]

*squeals* the party went so well Alhamdulilah!

So this is the first event I’ve fully planned top to bottom myself, I really didn’t want mum to have to do anything (in the end she ended up cooking fried rice for us though because we just needed an extra hand) so I’m really proud of myself, it wasn’t perfect not by any means but the food was so good and everyone had so much fun ^_^ and because I decided to not go with the balloon arc since we wouldn’t have the space (with so many people coming) I just used the purple balloons and streamers to decorate the doorframes, sticking them up on the doorframes and walls

(My friend Millie hung the blue decorations up with some of the purple decorations and I couldn’t help but giggle because ah my favourite colour palette ^_^)

(One of my students photobombing lol)

No, nothing was perfect or put together and a part of me is a bit like, miffed I suppose because if it had been perfectly set up I would have gotten more quality time with my friends and been able to talk to them more

But… rushing about, laughing and chatting while working together and hanging decorations and organising the food and bonding together and feeling genuinely connected, isn’t that the stuff I always dreamed of whenever I saw people and their friends in books and onscreen? ^_^ what I’m saying is I think today was beautifully imperfect and while I feel that slight disappointment in myself like okay I could have planned X, Y, Z better… Alhamdulilah Allah’s the Best of Planners and what we had together was exactly what I wanted wasn’t it? My found family ^_^

Most people came late because that really do be the millennial immigrant style lol, two of my friends showed up on time, a few more a bit later, Friend A and her mum came later but I put that down to them visiting family, but yeah most people came like an hour or so late XD but we had a fun time regardless. As a rule I have noted my friends or friends around my age are super punctual, mum and her millennials less so, although I’m one to talk since I was RUNNING late and I was glad to get extra time to decorate and set up food

Also gifting Friend A her notebook was great ^_^ Alhamdulilah she loved it!! I was so so happy to see her face and how elated she was to receive it

Friend I’s gifts didn’t all come, the most key one was the bookmark themed on her favourite book series but she loved the starry wax burner and wax melts (even though I didn’t even have time to wrap them I so sorry 🥺) , and OH MY GOD her gift to me was AMAZING the whole keepsake gift box with things tied together with a theme thing that I wanted to do?! She did for me!! 🥹 it was so beautiful and she had a little note as well that made me tear up and though she had asked I didn’t make a fuss over the gift and I even tried to respect her wishes for me to open it outside of her sight like, I had to cry and ask her if I can hug her because it was one of the most thoughtful gifts I’ve ever gotten, and she said yes ^_^ so yeah I’m absolutely going to take the time to give her a really lovely keepsake gift box themed around her favourite book next Eid Insha’Allah because she literally just gave me a little collection of PURPLE gifts and not just purple but purple featuring flowers and STARS and

🥹

I can’t

So beautiful of her.

I did not get pictures of food though we had an amazing spread (and so much food… Alhamdulilah for Bengali aunties and how practiced they are at packing up food for everyone to take home XD clean up went so fast together) I barely got time to eat food I’m starving and Alhamdulilah we got leftovers so I’m gonna go eat

OH ALSO

XD we only had time for one party game but it was pass the parcel, one for the kids and one for the adults (mum’s group and mine alike) AND Y’ALL THE ADULTS WERE INTO IT EVEN MORE THAN THE KIDS IM TELLING YOU THE JOKES THE MOCK FIGHTS AUNTY WAS GONNA THROW DOWN IF SHE DIDN’T GET A PRIZE XD

^_^

Oh and I did all this in my purple princess dress 💜🥰 I haven’t worn it since my friend’s wedding like 2, 3 years ago now but I decided at the last minute to go with this. I could have fit into the kameez without adjusting it more but… I didn’t want to spend the whole day feeling slightly self conscious and insecure worrying about how I look, that’s not what today was for. I did feel self conscious XD my friends dressed up but I was… Desi dressed up yk, but I also felt really comfortable and happy because this dress fits me perfectly and it’s my absolute favourite I love it so much, aside from the dupatta that kept slipping and dragging on the floor because the beading was only on the ends and weighed down. I didn’t have time to pin it to my dress so I’ll make sure to do that next time Insha’Allah

Also yeah next time, my mum suggested I could make an invitation with an itinerary so people have more of an idea of what to expect and come on time, the party game was a huge hit so I could do that again and I definitely want to do more. I’m really pleased because I think my mum had a lot of fun too and that makes me happy ^_^

I’m Insha’Allah going to see everyone again at the event on Sunday ^_^ Eid Fair, yay 💜

I am so tired but not exhausted the way I usually am, Alhamdulilah the sleep was good this morning and I’m gonna try to not beat myself up as much about sleeping because… I genuinely do better and have a nicer time when I’m not at 10% when the party starts. Or just in general for any life task. *sighs* I need to have more… faith really when things are out of my control. Working on it Insha’Allah.

*pats my head gently because my brain and body is still learning and needs help to calm*

Oh I am ridiculously tired from wearing heels though and YOU KNOW WHAT IT’S NOT EVEN WORTH IT IM TOO SHORT FOR ANYONE TO EVEN SEE THAT IM WEARING HEELS COS MY DRESS IS FLOORLENGTH KHALAS NOT DOING IT AGAIN MY FEET ARE SCREAMING IN AGONY

😭

If anyone has advice for the pain lmk

Gonna go get into jammies, relax and get some food Insha’Allah