#also the show im going to is like. supposed to be a highkey sadomasochistic demonstration? and that just isnt enough for these

[kingtankgirl]

another reason why i refuse to get personally involved in my local kink scene is because everyone ive met from this.. honestly really insular community (small college city moment) is so. competitive. im going to a kink show at a bar after hours and everyone ive mentioned it to Also goes to the biggest sex club which is the most famous one in the area. and their reaction is always like "oh.. ya its fun but its not much.. nothing like [x]" and its like ok well. im not ready to go to [x]. i don't want to go to a sex club in a huge barn that gets populated with hundreds of kinksters playing and fucking. i want to go to a show. but it gets brought up Every Single Time i mention this other, supposedly "tamer" event like its lesser cuz it isnt so big. just a really weird way to treat your community! and other independent venues!