#also the fact that this whole grudge is over money. like. cutting off ro from visiting the dad bc ur worried for him somehow?

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So my dad has a trio of cousins. K, Re and Ro. Several years ago the older two, Re and K accused their youngest of stealing money from their dad and decided they no longer wanted anything to do with her, they wouldn't go anywhere if she was going to be invited or might come, they refused to contact her or speak to her Or their niece - and worst of all they put their dad in a nursing home and Refused To Tell Ro where he was and once she found out, they refused to let her or her daughter Visit him. They refused to come to my grandmother's funeral bc Ro might have been there, even after everything grama S did for them and tried to mediate. But no.

And now I find out that great uncle H died back in April! And not only did they not tell *US* (because idk we're sympathetic towards Ro so yknow, we're poisoned?) BUT THEY DID NOT TELL THEIR OWN SISTER HER FATHER HAD PASSED AWAY!!??

Apparently there was some other stuff going on. K was ill and in rehab. But he passed a month ago! In *April*! And Ro had to find out on her own from somewhere/someone else???????????

It's so fucked up.