#also pray for me y'all i get so nervous posting about these indepth look at my ocs

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Like. Hm. In general, I've been thinking of Jin and their gender/ pronouns for a while. I still like they/them, and I'm gonna stick with that, but knowing how they are, I don't think it was a direct " oh I'm nonbinary and want to use they/them", you know?

Like maybe they thought they were a trans woman, but then that felt off, so then they thought they were Bigender or Genderfluid, but that also felt Specific. And then they go " well, I do feel an attachment to these identities, but they also don't fully fit, so...." Then they remember that the label nonbinary exists, and it's kinda the umbrella term for literally everything else they liked but didn't feel like it fit labels so. They've been using the label ever since.

As for pronouns I think the timeline goes: he/him -> she/her -> he/she -> she/they -> they/them( <- current and on going)

They like being referred to as Mx, partner, etc. But I can also see them liking specific gendered terms but only for specific people. Like they're okay with their parents sometimes calling them their son, or if Kohaku or Wally call them their wife ( I don't think the three are married but they act like they are lmao). But it's only those people who can call them that. Anyone else will be on sight. To be clear, Jin generally prefers more gender neutral terms, but doesn't hate it when people they care about use gendered terms occasionally ( cause a small part of Jin is still attached to being "Norman's Son" and whenever Amber or Wally calls Jin their wife they melt lmao)

Hopefully all of this makes sense lol.