#also my phone keeps trying to auto correct queer to quiet or worry

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I've seen a lot of responses to this this post all of which claiming there's no conflict of access at all. That's kinda willfully misinterpreting what both people are saying here tho and just showed how little reading comprehension people really have on this site.

Person one is saying it's essential for lgbt+ spaces to de-prioritize romance and sex. So that ace and aro people can have access to the same safety the lgbt+ community was created to offer each other (which they are a part of the 'each other' you fucking animals).

The second person is pointing out that uhh that's the point of a lot of lgbt+ spaces tho. For queer people to openly celebrate their non-heteronormative romance and sexuality.

Both groups have a valid need. While in less extreme cases they can co-exist, what needs to be taken away from this is that neither party is discussing these less extreme cases. They are both discussing extreme cases that's why they use the word need not want.

No offense but a lot of you guys are fully supportive of ace people and aro people until one of us makes you feel a little bad about how the world literally revolves around sex and romance.