#also marriage is not just about attraction are you sure you're mentally matured enough to tie the knot?
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Hi, can you please suggest what I should do? I met this really cute girl from a dating site a few years ago. Both of us are Rajputs and share the same traditional values. We had been seeing each other for 7 months, and today she decided to talk about the prospect of marriage in the future. I am attracted to her and would have loved to marry her but my friends suggested I ask her about her past relationships. I assumed she was a virgin although she has talked about being in a relationship, but she looked so innocent until she opened up about her past, like she has a body count of 9. I can't seem to accept that a traditional girl like her can be similar to a prostitute. She portrayed herself to be an anti-feminist traditional woman, so I thought she wouldn't be like this and I fell in love with her but she completely played with my emotions. I don't want to be the last nice guy to accept her in the end. I feel betrayed 😔
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#This is giving rage bait#asks#yall are free to help this fellow who feels betrayed by a woman because she had a life 7 months before TALKING about marriage#I'm a feminist and a traditional woman btw .. its a thing. Feminism only feels alien to Indians because they're so used to seeing men rule-#the traditions & practices & be the centre of attention in every aspect of our “culture..” basically they're used to patriarchal norms#and trust me buddy you're nowhere near nice lol let her go leave her alone#its okay if you fall in love w someone & later figure out you share different morals and values.. its rarely the case that one's values are#better than the other's but ofcourse people love feeling like they're higher on the moral pedestal than others#being different is not about hierarchy unless you're looking for one#asks open#desiblr#hmm#i kinda wanna see what kinda suggestions people could give to this fellow#also marriage is not just about attraction are you sure you're mentally matured enough to tie the knot?
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