#also if ppl aren't ready to confess that's like. okay. honestly if they're that nervous to confess there's probably some therapy to be had
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Lithromantic culture is hating the unrequited love trope, especially when the char lacks the guts to confess.
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#Anonymous#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod phoenix#lithromantic culture#honestly idk how i'd tag this best#but i *hate* the idea of it being like a big failing to not confess#to be completely honest i think people are unnecessarily cruel about how anxiety can affect things like this#<- sincerely the defender of our system (phoenix) who is well aware most of our system would literally spiral so badly if 'talk to them'#is the only advice we got when dealing with our anxiety relating to our trauma#which it frequently is#like the idea that it's a failing to not confess#feels exactly like the vibes we get when people tell us to just ignore a trigger#like cool! that's not helpful#also if ppl aren't ready to confess that's like. okay. honestly if they're that nervous to confess there's probably some therapy to be had#before they can have healthy boundaries in a relationship anyways imho#if saying you like someone causes a fear of rejection so strong you can't communicate it#i'm very worried about a relationship in which that dynamic is facing a normal need to communicate hurt
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