#also i feel like empathy is slowly becoming a rarity on the internet

[fluffshiicloud]

maybe this is just a me thing, but feel free to tell me if you think the same way

in terms of romantic relationships, i really hate short-term stuff. because.. if i chose to date someone, i'm most definitely thinking about the future and marriage and being together so long our souls are intertwined with one another

that's why i feel like some people on yanblr tend to be a bit... forward? from what i've seen at least. i mean, no offense i suppose. but personally, i don't really see this space as a dating scene. i see it more like a community. a way to find like-minded people and friends

and ofc there is internet safety to consider and since this is a community, there's both adults and minors in this space

besides, don't people want something real? something long-term? someone that'll be with you to your grave and beyond?

there is love at first sight, sure. but this is the internet! isn't it normal to talk to someone and get to know them? and if a relationship eventually blossoms out of that, then that's wonderful!

i don't think people should throw themselves at others and expect something fulfilling out of it. to fill some temporary void inside. consider the other person's feelings and their boundaries!