#also as an otherwise heterosexual cisgender woman my prospects on men are just… Not Great | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

everrgrreeen · 1 year ago

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not to get too existential on main or anything but like. maybe there isn’t someone for everyone, romantically speaking. maybe some of us are just meant to be alone. because just the thought of having to date people, having to open up/alter your home and your life for someone else in the name of romantic partnership seems so exhausting to me, especially after trying for so long and constantly being let down in one way or another. i have gotten to the point in life where i am SO happy being alone. do i sometimes crave intimacy like any other human being? sure. but my peace doesn’t feel worth sacrificing to maybe find someone i can tolerate most of the time.

#much to think about #and for the record I feel like I may fall somewhere on the ace spectrum so sex isn’t really even an issue for me #like I could go the rest of my life without having sex with someone and it really wouldn’t bother me #also as an otherwise heterosexual cisgender woman my prospects on men are just… Not Great #also I should mention I am not aromantic #I am very much romantic actually #but I just feel like I’ll be alone forever because I refuse to settle #and I also refuse to use dating apps and that is unfortunately where most people my age range in their late 20s/early 30s meet people #and I think they are dumb and I don’t want to do that #plus I am vehemently childfree so there goes a lot of men lol but ones I wouldn’t be interested in anyways

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