#also! not saying this is clear cut bc to an extent mew is definitely clinging to ray and using him to spiral further

[firstkhaolesbian]

what rly gets me abt only friends is that poor mew is having his boundaries constantly violated by everyone who claims to love him.

top undressing and holding him (yes he had arguably good intentions) was violating mew’s boundaries. mew wouldn’t have consented to that whilst sober.

ray kissing him whilst unconscious, and being constantly opportunistic about pushing his feelings, is also a violation of mew’s boundaries. you’d think mew rejecting ray multiple times was enough, but the speed with which ray jumped in whilst mew was vulnerable is also Not Great

and the worst part is that from mew’s perspective, none of these men are safe secure partners. top fucking boston obviously, but also ray kissing sand (again, without consent). i doubt mew would see either of them as faithful