#all my emotional labor is spent on my reactions to her fjbdjsndn
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Coworker: so how are you going to compile all the tests?
Me: what do you mean?
Coworker: I mean like, do you have all the tests?
Me: sure, I know what tests we’ve done.
Coworker: and you’re going to put them on a list?
Me: yeah.
Coworker: nice, that’s what I thought.
Me: ??????
#personal#the context is#we’re supposed to be on the same level in the same team#working on the same stuff at the same rate#but she definitely does not#she cannot spearhead any creative problem-solving#which is 80% of the work we do#and even the gruntwork sometimes doesn’t get done in a timely manner#*I* did all these tests#I ran them and the manager asked for a centralized list#I was like sure in the chat#and cue this conversation four hours later#all my emotional labor is spent on my reactions to her fjbdjsndn#on one hand I’m so fucking mad on mad on mad cause she always does this#chime in at the very end of me handling everything with a ‘nice’#butting in for a little bit of the credit that she does not deserve#on the other hand I’m like be patient#she means no harm#and on a big ethical scale I am not interested in demanding labor from her#BUT IM SO FUCKING FRUSTRATED AND HATE EXPLAINING MYSELF ON SUCH A RUDIMENTARY LEVEL#literaly what else would compile mean#She’s only asking bc she has no idea what’s going on at ALL#and every time she asks she just reminds me how far behind she is#ugh anyways#work is exhausting enough as it is without her#actually it might be 50% her
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