#aita for sleeping with my ex girlfriend who is now my ex best friends wife

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[susanbslamthony]

AITA?  I (m28) have been dating my girlfriend (F25) for about a year and she’s been calling me jealous lately and I want people to weigh in.

We’ve known each other since we were kids, and I have been in love with her for a really long time.  She’s kind and fun to be around and absolutely gorgeous. A perfect 10. I’m a 7, although I think I can pull it up to an 8 once you get to know me. She asked me out a year ago and I dropped everything to make our relationship work, and things have been going really great.

A couple of weeks ago, my girlfriend got a new job. It’s better hours, a LOT more money, and the type of work she likes to do. But, I have concerns. She only got her last job because her boss thought she was gorgeous. She was really bad at the job itself – would forget to do tasks, would do them badly, would completely forget she was even on the clock. She grew up really sheltered and has only recent had to learn how to exist in the real world.

This new job is one that she’s probably not qualified for. What’s more, she got the job because she met a guy (who is admittedly good looking) at a party and he offered to get her a job, without knowing anything about her background other than what kind of job she wanted. She works closely with this guy (they basically share an office) and have had to do some late night jobs.

She insists frequently that nothing is happening between the two of them, and that this other guy is not interested in her, but I think she is being incredibly naïve. He got her the job because he wants to spend time with her and a lot more. She says that when I say that, I am demeaning her accomplishments—because I’m implying that she can’t get a job unless someone gives it to her because they want to sleep with her.

I try to hold my tongue, but I still don’t trust the guy at all. I’ve dropped by their office several times to bring her meals or gifts and she’s gotten really angry that I’m showing up there. She thinks I’m trying to sabotage her job, but I am just worried about this guy trying to take advantage of her and break up the best relationship of my life, with the girl of my dreams.

In full disclosure, my last long term relationship ended because my (now ex) wife was cheating on me. I offered to reconcile, but she had fallen in love with someone else. I really can not have that happen to me again.

AITA for not buying that this guy is just a friend and coworker?