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thestarmaker · 1 year ago

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Sometimes I think about how my high school of ~100 kids per grade had such a different vibe than a lot of bigger ones. Yeah there was a lot of loyal "friend" groups and infighting and kicking people out drama, and don't get me started on the fighting-over-boys nastiness that I've witnessed, but people were generally pretty civil to each other otherwise. There wasn't that much bullying aside from a few cases of One Person Hates You because everyone's family knew each other on at least a surface level and we knew word would get around to Everyone. It was awfully funny tho, even me and the girl who Hated Me for like 3 years in middle school/early high school openly talked abt being civil just to not be miserable all the time at school

#tbh i think she and i were the epitome of 'neurodivergent hostility' bc jesus we just did not get along for like 3 years #she was so bossy and rude and liked picking on me #she did end up maturing and seeing the error of her ways. we were fine for the last two years of school #not friends exactly but we'd sit together on the bus sometimes. it was fine #there was one moment in particular in a cooking class when we all grouped up for the semester and she was the odd one out #and my group was just me and one of my besties and she looked at me like 🥺 and i was like '... fine.'#she was even nervous for a bit which was. satisfying. like she absolutely had realized how mean she'd been to me.#after that we were pretty much okay. we were bonded over making yummy recipes and being one of the best of the groups #and then being late to orchestra after bc it was across the school and the cooking classes had the highest chance of making you late #bc cleanup and all #god i miss all those cooking classes 🥺 they were so fun #i made a chocolate cheesecake with cherry topping for a final one year and everyone loved it soooo much 🥰#i hope the boys that brought in a manual crank and made kettle corn for everyone are doing well

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