#admitting to a lot here but I'M TIRED. the implications!! ugh whatever....
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killadelphias · 9 months ago
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#admitting to a lot here but I'M TIRED. the implications!! ugh whatever....#observations after being made aware of certain happenings in fandom spaces. state of the union i suppose.#yeah. sucks that often i'm concerned about leaving a like on certain posts or a kudos on certain types of fics for fear of the wrong person#seeing it and deciding to call me out. as if i'm some influential blog! what does it matter? but hmm. some fandoms are lame asses over stuf#there are good authors & people i'm friends with who have insightful takes and posts. and talent! but i'm a coward. because of the content.#and i feel like a fraud when i talk about being against censorship & say 'do what you want'. clearly i'm lacking since i feel hesitation.#i wish people could mind their business. & either not be so repressed or force repression on others. can't we all just get along?#it really wasn't like this maybe 5-10 years ago. more towards 10. i hate what happened to fandom so much.#why am i admitting this now? maybe to force myself to speak up if i ever see harrassment in the future.#because i never spoke up in the past and i feel shitty about it.#people might even be talking about and making stuff i'm not actually interested in but i don't think it matters!!#it's all fiction and fandom and genuinely mostly harmless. leave people alone???? maybe????#i just want to leave nice comments on my friends fics & to other good writer's works that might have a higher rating ok??#and not face a 'saw you at the devil's sacrament' situation#which in itself is hypocritical but i still don't want to face it! i just want to be left alone!! good writing is good writing!! ahh#i could make another blog but why? i have nothing original to say i just want to not feel judged for giving a like or leaving a comment#end scene.
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dogwooddivinity · 6 years ago
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I've been sent a bunch of get to know you asks this week and I'm terrible at answering them so I'm going to answer this list of 30 random asks. Here goes.
How tall are you: 5'4" (for years I thought I was 5'5.5", until I said that to my doctor and he laughed at me.)
Sexual orientation: pansexual
Pronouns: she/her
How do you take your coffee: milky if it's hot, black if it's cold
Nightly routine: cry until the kids are asleep, then chocolate, then get into bed and lay awake for hours
Do you have any strange or unusual things that you do to feel close to someone: huh. Not sure. I'm probably more attached to you than you think, but I'm also not good with acquaintance boundaries. Like, if we meet in a store and you like a jacket, I might try to buy it for you. No strings, I just want to see you happy.
Do you sleep with a stuffed animal: yes but he's stuffed with guts and alive and three years old. He's my son.
Have any hobbies: reading, knitting (though not often anymore), I own a giant floor loom that I keep warped
Fandoms you're part of: HP, good omens (it will pass, but not yet), Letterkenny (miss you Ontario!), I've been to a Star Trek convention
Favourite person to talk to: my eldest, maybe?
Do you think anyone is thinking about you right now: possibly? This one is weird.
Do you watch a lot of television: hard no
Do you listen to music often: almost constantly
Do you like coffee or tea: coffee, or proper chai.
Cats or dogs: neither unless they belong to you and don't live in my house. In that case, whatever you like
Any pets: a terrapin that won't fucking die (love you Sheila!)
Favourite class: chemistry, or butchery? Butchery had the good tools and the chance of amputation. I'm going with butchery.
Opinion on ______: my choice, cool. Opinion on abortion: should be free and available on demand to anyone.
Would you ever cheat: ugh. I have.
One wish: food security for everyone, everywhere
Love anyone: yes
Most attractive person you know: thinking... Is this meant to be physically attractive? Probably... That is hard for me... I'm dropping the sexual implication and going with my cousin Kevin. He is life goals.
Single: yes
Are you a cuddler? Anyone you want to cuddle with?: yes and yes, and I'm waiting for him to admit he's tired and come cuddle me now
Do you like hugs: not from strangers!
Something you're looking forward to: seeing my best friend next month in South Africa
Favourite colour: green
Where do you live: nice try, stalker. (California)
Be honest, is there anyone you'd marry: pretty sure I'm not doing that again
Thanks @shadowprince27 @im-definitely-hermione-granger @confunded-gryffindor @thesleepiesthufflepuff @sylphabelle, please enjoy this little window into me, and this lovely Letterkenny gif, because my daughter sent me twenty seven of them today, and if I have to suffer, so do you.
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