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exploiting your praise kink to make you do grosser and grosser things for me.
don't you want to be a good girl?
#bd/sm dom#bd/sm kink#bd/sm community#rough kink#rough cnc#abuse k1nk#dumbification#corruption kink#degredation kink
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#bwc bull#bd/sm daddy#br33d1ng#cnc daddy#hard k1nk#cvmslvt#fr33use#somno breeding#free use kink#free use slvt#cuckquean abuse#daddy's good girl#degredation kink#dirty talk#dark kinks#bd/sm kink#bd/sm community#cumslvt#cumslave#br33dable
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having good & true friends will literally save and protect you in a million unfathomable ways. like okay we have written so many times about lovers. but the way a platonic friend laughs and cries with you. the way they hold your hand at 14 years old and at 34. the way they keep a little silver tie to you, touching base over and over and over. how you can go years without talking, only to re-meet and discover: oh shit! you're still cool!
there are people who have been in my life for more than half of it, and i have loved every version of them. do you know how fucking beautiful that is. yeah love will save the world. but the way friends love you is gonna save the you.
#and before one of u is like '' i have no friends :(" i used to be there too actually#abusive partner cut me off from ALL of 'em. i didn't think i was lovable#it made me EXCEPTIONALLY shy. i still am actually!!!!#i just ... started saying ''yes.''#i would take pictures of flyers in my library and go to whatever events they had#i started taking community classes#if someone mentioned like ''i am gonna start x group'' i actually took a deep breath#and approached them to be like . okay i want in.#i started making the first move with new people - a small compliment#a smile or a little joke. just to share the space with them.#i have MASSIVE social anxiety. bad parent and bad relationship will do that to ya.#but i just... kept going. and going. and going. to each of these little things. and then...#like. .... idk i just am very blessed. i have a STUPID number of friends#a lot of which i reconnected with. bc it turns out love is never wasted. adult life just.#like. gets in the way. but also... i loved u as a weird little kid. i love u now as a weird big adult.#i promise i PROMISE ur friends are out there. u just have 2 find them. and btw#i didn't make friends with everyone. but i did get a lot of people to smile or laugh.#aint that something.#this process took me something like 2 years. it was HARD!!!!!!!!!!#i love u!!! hard things are often worth it!!!
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♥️bimbo♥️
#attention wh0r3#cvmdump#big tiddy committee#big t1ts#big tiddy gf#cnc k!nk#cnc free use#rough cnc#cnc somno#cnc brat#cnc kidnapping#r4p3 m3#r@pe fantasy#bimbofied#dumb slvt#dumbification#dumb wh0re#stupid slvt#free use slvt#needy wh0re#wet and needy#abuse k1nk#corruption kink#bd/sm breeding#bd/sm community#bd/sm brat#free use kink#fr33use#bimbo doll#daddy's good girl
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What is Romance if not this?
#cnc sub#nswf post#bd/sm kink#cvm in me#cvm wh0re#cvmdump#cvmslvt#abuse k1nk#size comparison#bd/sm community#cnc somno#cnc k!nk#cnc kidnapping#cnc free use#rough cnc#r@pe k!nk#r@petoy#r@pe kink#r@pe play#r@pe fantasy#rough daddy#rough smut#rough kink#fvcktoy#roughfuck#kidnap fantasy#robots#bdsmplay#bdsmkink#bdsmblog
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bending you over the bathtub to fuck you, but I’m going to hold your head underwater until I cum
#bd/sm dom#bd/sm kink#bd/sm community#rough kink#rough cnc#abuse k1nk#dumbification#corruption kink#degredation kink
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"Saw traps for people with moral OCD" is a phrase that has embedded myself into my brain because, well, Saw traps for people with moral OCD are everywhere.
Stuff that basically amounts to...
"You have to listen to my opinions on [issue], or else you don't care about [issue]. (Constantly talks about how people like you are the absolute worst.)"
Anything that's functionally like, "you have to let me tear you down over things you can't control or you're a bad person."
Anything that's functionally like, "you have to let me vent to you whenever and however I want or else you're a bad person."
"If you enjoy X media/trope, you just hate Y people."
"Everyone knows that X thing is harmful/hateful; if you engaged in it, it's just because you were fine with perpetuating hate/harm."
"You should have just known better/should know this already!"
This thread over here talks about the inherent issues of putting this kind of stuff out there. The TL;DR is that it really only works on people who are mentally unwell and have poor boundaries, while just pissing off everyone else. It really doesn't matter if you're technically correct; you're still attacking people, and that means they're not wrong to block you.
I think that many of these Saw traps are created when people effectively write posts directed toward people who don't want to help, rather than the ones who do. Like, if you catch yourself writing an angry, shame-laden post, ask yourself: who are you writing it for and what are the odds you're going to change their minds? If your mental image is some smug fuck or angry reactionary, you're writing for the wrong person. Write for the person who's curious, who's willing to learn.
Also? Work on figuring out how to transmute negative feelings into positive, encouraging rhetoric. EG:
"Why is there no X positivity?" -> "Let's hear it for X!"
"No one cares about Y problem!" -> "Hey, we need more recognition of Y problem" or "I haven't seen many people talking about Y problem, so here's some info on what's up."
"If you don't reblog this, you don't care about [group]" -> "Please reblog this, it would mean a lot for us [group]."
And if you're really super duper frustrated and want to vent with a lot of nasty words and sentiments? Consider taking it to a private vent channel or a journal or somewhere that a stranger with moral OCD/scrupulosity isn't likely to run across it.
Remember, most people don't want to hurt anyone. More people are ignorant than malicious. People naturally want to do the right thing, so if you feel like you have to guilt them or shame them into it, there's probably a fundamental communication issue somewhere, or they simply lack the context to understand why what you're saying is so important.
#moral ocd#mental health#mental illness#ableism#scrupulosity#scrupulosity ocd#abuse#emotional abuse#communication
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pov: you're on top using me like a sex-toy ♥️
#attention wh0r3#cvmdump#big t1ts#big tiddy gf#big tiddy committee#cnc brat#cnc k!nk#cnc free use#rough cnc#cnc somno#r4p3 m3#bimbo doll#bd/sm community#bd/sm breeding#dumbification#dumb wh0re#stupid slvt#needy wh0re#free use kink#use me pls#free use slvt#fr33use#abuse k1nk#corruption kink#bd/sm brat#r@pe fantasy#cnc kidnapping#dumb slvt#wet and needy#bimbofied
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question: do ppl ACTUALLY say things they don’t mean when they’re angry? or is that just an excuse after letting something true slip? i wouldn’t ever say something i don’t mean in anger, so the concept confuses me.
but something was said to me that is bothering me, though apparently was said in an argument and wasn’t meant. but i don’t rlly believe it wasn’t like, deep down true thoughts/feelings??? anyone have any insight? anyone say things they don’t mean in anger?
EDIT: this was a hastily worded post that i didn’t expect to get notes. this is a genuine question asked in good faith that i got a lot of amazing answers to!
also re: the many ppl saying “OP is lying about not saying things they don’t mean in anger because everyone does it”— i genuinely have never done that. if i say something mean while angry, i meant it. that’s literally why i asked this question and why the concept confuses me, because i wouldn’t do something like that so i wanted perspective from people who do it. idk why y’all can’t believe that lmao not everyone is as prone to anger and outbursts
#i know im asking The Autism Website but lol will tag autism stuff cuz i think my confusion is related. idk#autism#autistic#actuallyautistic#autistic community#autistic problems#autistic life#autism problems#neurodivergence#neurodiversesquad#personal#btw i do wanna note that this post is abt an abusive person tho#not everyone who does this is abusive! but in my specific case yes#just a warning cuz some stuff being said to me can be a lil uncomfy when saying i should forgive them#i HAVE. MANY times. too many#the anger post#< if you wanna hear more of my thoughts on this#and others thoughts
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clicker training but the clicker is my open hand against your face
#bd/sm dom#bd/sm kink#bd/sm community#rough kink#rough cnc#abuse k1nk#dumbification#corruption kink#degredation kink
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